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*ndy_2008
writes:I was seeing a girl for 7 months, she moved away to work 70 hours a week, so I went there with the intention to live and work with her, to save our relationship. We ended up arguing about the job which after looking on the net about, found out it was a sales cult. So she went to work, I apologised and she sent me text 'I love you'. So I thought all is ok. Later she came back with 2 guys she lives with and had me thrown out and she ignored me since, 6 weeks now. All I got was a call from one of the guys saying she was his girl now. She was so nice before, I am amazed by this. I feel over her but not over what she did and I want to know, do you think she will talk to me again, after 6 weeks of not? How can I talk to her as I want to understand? Others say just ignore her FOREVER but I feel a big need to understand all this, it totally doesn't make sense, I remember how she missed me so much on the phone, even if we argued! What's your opinion??
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reader, Andy_2008 +, writes (14 November 2008):
Andy_2008 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help. It could be that we never talk again. Its very strange to be so close to someone then in an instant, its gone. She has kept me on facebook, dont know if it means anything. Probably to try and make me jealous somehow
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (14 November 2008):
 Your totally right, not every girl of 19 acts like this. This is how a 13-14 year old would act, she has no respect for you, it doesnt matter what she looks like.
Life is a learning curve babe, just move on and forget her.
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reader, Andy_2008 +, writes (14 November 2008):
Andy_2008 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe strange thing was, she told me she was raped when i first met her by some guy she met, but seemed happy when i met her next day. She told me months later. Then she told me she considered me to be her first. She then breaks up with me and sleeps with a black guy she lives with right after im gone. Seems strange behaviour for an inexperienced person of 19
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 Mmmm... Sweetie... forget this girl and move on with your life. Think about it... if she really felt something for you she would not have had you thrown out!Honeygirl
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reader, Lewhereboi +, writes (14 November 2008):
Well, maybe you should text her asking what's happening or even ring her. She might talk to you again, but it sounds to me as though she was being totally out of order. If i was you i woul send her 1 text saying whats happening etc and then just leave it unless she texts you back. Hope i helped.
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reader, Andy_2008 +, writes (14 November 2008):
Andy_2008 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell yes, immaturity plays a part, she is a beautiful polish girl and 19. But not every girl this age, acts in this way.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (14 November 2008):
Honey!! Your mates are right. Forget her, she sounds very imature. I am sure you can do much better.
You dont say how old she is, so I am presuming she is a simular age to you. What woman of that age gets her new B/F to phone up her EX and tell him its over and she is his girl now??. Let him have her, because if she treated you like crap, she will do the same to him. Dont ask her what went wrong, you will only give her the satisfaction of letting her know that she hurt you.
The best thing you can do is to find a new girl better than her, and it doesnt sound like it would be hard.
Good luck babe, chin up. XXX
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