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writes:I am in love with a man who is currently living with the mother of his child. She doesn't know about us but he says that he will tell her once they sell their house which is on the market right now. He says that he has never loved anyone the way he loves me. Should I believe that all he says is true? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Dear Poster
Sorry, you might not like this; but I am afraid that looking at the information available, this guy is not honest with you. To wait until the house is sold, why? Is he scared she will get upset and move out? So what? No, he is playing games with you. I suggest you tell him that he should contact you gain once he told the other lady about you. No, not once the house is sold, but once he told her about you.
Best wishes; Keep us posted.
Always keep SMILING.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (27 October 2008):
Actions are important not words.
Don't get too involved till he is away from her and with you.
If the house sells and then it's the excuse of "I said I'd leave now but I can't because...." then you know he's full of it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Mmmmm.... this man sounds like he lying to you and is cheating on the woman he is living with. I suggest that you tell him that you wont have anything to do with him until the house is sold and he has told the mother of his child... Then listen to his excuses!
Honeygirl
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reader, Mummy to be +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Hi, i believe that this man does love you, however, i know from experience that he is feeding you lies about leaving the mother of his child when the house has been sold. I was in the exact same situation as you are and i chose not to believe my boyfriend. I went round to see the mother of his child and she was devastated, she had no idea he had been seing someone else and they were actually engaged to be married that year. I'm not saying that your boyfriend is doing the same but i would suggest you ignore what your boyfriend says for now and i would go round to his house and speak to the other woman. She may have the same story as him and then you can carry on with the relationship with a clearer vision and be happier about the situation. I hope you don't have the same outcome as me and hope you are happy together. Let us know of any further developments xx
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reader, rugmonkey +, writes (27 October 2008):
He sounds like a man more than willing to lie to the mother of his child, so I wouldn't believe everything that he says. I'd say to him "I love you too, and I will wait for your house to sell and for you to tell the mother of your child." You should find out not too long from now whether his deed is as good as his word.
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