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writes:I just recently starting dating this girl, she's so sweet and I actually like her for more than her looks, she's really just an amazing person but she does have a kid and only 17, I'm one of those people who usually doesn't care what people think and yet I find myself looking at people when we walk down halls or just when were together and wondering what they are thinking. I don't want to leave her, I wanna be with her but why do I keep getting these urges to worry about what other people are thinking! Reply to this Question
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reader, Sigrdrifta  +, writes (20 November 2008):
Its completely normal to worry about what people are thinking of you, so don't dwell on that too much.
What matters is that you like her, and if *you* dont see her child as a bad thing, whats it matter? I can't say "stop worrying" 'cos you cant, just dont let it niggle at you too much. You like her, things are going well, thats what matters most.
I guess my advice is worry all you want, thats normal. But be happy doing it :)
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (20 November 2008):
 Most of the time, people are not even thinking about you, they are thinking about themselves and worrying who is watching them. Be pround of who you are and who your girlfriend is, and if you are happy that is all that counts!
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