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*odiex
writes: Hi I really like this guy but he's 18 and I am only 15. He is 19 in December, which makes it worse, but he doesn't want anything to happen until I'm 16, but I am not going to be16 until April.Does anyone think this bad ? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, rebeccaaa +, writes (6 July 2010):
I am in the same situation. Me and my ex were together for nearly 4 months when he had a warning from a police saying that our relationship was reported. So I know it's differcult, you're going to be worried and paranoid about him moving on, but if he does, so will you. I must say I turn 16 in a month. Good luck, remember it's not the end of the world.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (14 October 2008):
of course it is bad. you may not think it is, but say if your parents or someone found out. they could report him for being with a minor, therefore he could end up being done for rape and end up in prison. he sounds sensible in not wanting to do anything untill you are 16, and it is all down to the fact he could face jail time for sleeping with a minor. so wait till you are old enough or better still find someone who is your own age to see.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (14 October 2008):
Sweetie, a 3 year age gap is fine, and you both sound like you know what you want, so enjoy each other! But please remember, if you are going to 'go all the way' use protection!!Honeygirl
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reader, Boredatwork +, writes (14 October 2008):
Dosnt sound bad to me :) the guy sounds mature in what he says, by wating untill you are 16 for anything to happen. and 1 3 year age gap is nothing once you turn 16 :)
Good luck :)
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