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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Relationship Insecurity Advice Please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - Hi there, I was hoping for some tips or pointers on how to build confidence after it goes down when being in a relationship. I have a wonderful boyfriend, from the moment he committed himself to me he has been honest, truthful, and nuturing. ...

How much are you expected to spend on your girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - Hi, I need an opinion and an advice, it's a bit long but I would really appreciate your help! First of all some details: I'm in a long relationship, we are about 6 years together (from age about 20), I love her but not sure how much she loves m...

Is this normal male behavior or is this just bad behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - I am a newlywed. I have always known my hubbie is a friendly guy, especially to women but I think he has really crossed a line with his behavior this last week. He says his behavior is normal for men and I need to get over it. This is the second ...

My boyfriend doesn't take into account the fact that I'm very sensitive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - I've been with my partner for eight-ish years. Some of those were long distance; about half were not. We've had some instability in the relationship, from my breaking up with him multiple times but we've also had some good times. About a year ago ...

Have I lost her friendship? Should I give up or contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3926 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi,- sorry for rambling on a bit but this is really badly playing on my mind. A few months ago I wrote this question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-best-friend-has-changed-for-the-worse.html I just don’t understand why I can’t get over ...

Do you my find it appropriate for a woman to sit on your husband's lap?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - My husband and I were with friends last night. We were playing a party game and my husband drew a card which made him "Santa Claus." Two of our male friends sat on his lap as a joke and I also sat on my husband's lap. But then one of our friends ...

Problems with boyfriend, Facebook, and other girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and when we first started dating he would put stuff on his facebook without me having to ask him. But now it's like a war. I feel like its not fair to me that his ex's got sweet statuses and got to be his ...

Why do guys string along lots of women at once?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi, Why do guys string along lots of women at once? I know this middle aged guy who's about to get married (to his dying fiancé) and has kids, and he has loads of women adoring him at work and is sleeping with many women from work. He's n...

I can't block the ex because we work together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Just a week ago my boyfriend told me that his no longer interested in me and wants to move forward with another girl. I have deleted all his contacts and pictures from my laptop and cell. Worst thing is we both are working in the same company. ...

Regaining sexual confidence after wife cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

30 March 2014 (M) - I have a question on confidence lost for a man after my wife of 20 years cheated on me. Basically we had been together for 20 years, I was 17 when we met, she was 16. About 2 and a half years ago she cheated on me with an old friend of hers. ...

How do I just let these go and enjoy my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - In November last year, I had a huge fight with my boyfriend where he then went out and got drunk.. Kissed another girl and took her number. The fight had started because I snooped on him and accused him for a whole year of still having feelings for ...

I try my best but he gets angry and irritated with me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Why is my boyfriend behaving this way? I'm really upset.? My boyfriend is really upsetting me. He's get angry and irritated with me and is making me really upset. I'm a good girl. I try my best with him. I go to gym regularly to keep fit lo...

If he can't stop I wtll walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. My Fiance and I have been together 5 years, we have two soon to be three beautiful children together (4, 2 soon to be 3 and our last due in june) We are getting married next month. My deliemma is that I found he posted a ...

I know if I talk to him I'll take him back ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I am with my bf for almost 4 years. We never really talked about marriage as he has some commitment issues. We had our ups and downs, but for past 2 months relationship is going downhill, he often talks about his boss (lady) with whom...

I feel he has been rewarded for leading me on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was with my boyfriend for 9 months. The relationship ended because I pushed him to move in with me and he was clearly not sure. I was patient but then he decided to end it with no reason as to why. He never formally did this - just ...

My boyfriend wants me to break it off with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Any one good at body language?? I think my boyfriend I had over a decade is trying to get me to dump him but I can't he started a fight today.. even during the fight he said I'm not breaking up with you, your gonna do it this time is what he said.. ...

I need help in understanding ......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker, combined. Firstly let me say that this is kind of my last hope of getting some actual real advice. I have been with this guy for a year now actually a year since yesterday. Lately he's been really distant,...

I'm pregnant, and it's not a good time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - I just found out I am three weeks pregnant - it's not the best time for it in that Myself and my boyfriend have just moved into his parents house for the year so that he can afford to start his own business. (I have a permanent job.) And right now, ...

Should I continue this long-distance relationship knowing we can't be together for another two years at least?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Am I stupid to be willing to wait for so long for us to be together? My fiance and I are in a long distance relationship. We always have been. We are recently engaged. I love him very much, but I struggle with the length of time it will be befor...

I'm annoyed at my B/f and his family's attitude especially when they know about our financial situation. Given this scenario, should I just not go for his mom's birthday dinner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - I was invited by my boyfriend to join in with his family on Mother's Day as its also his Mum's birthday same date. I've known my boyfriend for 18 mths he is 39. I have met his Mum maybe three or four times and she seems nice so I agreed. However ...

My boyfriend seems more interested in crossdressing than in me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I were dating for 2 years and we had sex every day then everything stopped and nothing happened negative between us. I was shocked and beyond upset one day I found erotic pictures of him dressed completely as a woman. He started ...

The man I'm dating belongs to a religion that does not approve

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

28 March 2014 (?) - Im so scared to loose again. I found a man who is nine years younger than I am. I am divorced with one child. He never been married and no kids. However he is of another religion. I am afraid of loosing him because of it. A lot of elder females ...

I love my teen sister, but do not like her behaviour.She disrespects our parents and causes mayhem. What can be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hello everyone, I really need some advice. My younger sister is 13 and she is currently causing a lot of problems for my parents. I am in my 20's so there is a big age gap, but whenever I go home she almost always plays up. She swears at parents,...

I'm questioning my break-up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone, Thank you for taking time out to read this, especially since it is so long. I was in a relationship for 14 months. He and I got along very well. I have never enjoyed someone's company as much as I did with him. I found him engagi...

How do I decide whether or not the relationship is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - My partner of three years and I have recently been having some problems. Now I believe we are genuinely starting to work through them and he is happy in our relationship but I have been left with niggling doubts that all problems aside, we are just ...

They're getting married in nine days and I KNOW he is cheating on her!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - One of my lifelong friends is getting married to the man of her dreams in 9 days. They have been together 4 years and have a daughter who is just 6 months old. This morning I've found out that he has been having an affair. I don't just suspect, I ...

His colourful past adds to my anxiety about my body!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I'm a very insecure woman. Throughout my dating life, I've had nothing but rejection and hurt. As a teenager, I was constantly rejected in favor of prettier girls. I've always felt ugly. Then I had a long relationship with a guy for whom I made MANY ...

Should I give it another try? Really miss him, but he's still broken over his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for 2 months, and i really like him, but hes not over his ex girlfriend. She dumped him and she is now seeing one of his best friends, so he's really hurting from it still. However we had an amazing 2 months together spe...

How can I control the jealousy I feel when he visits his daughter from a previous relationship, especially now that we have a child of our own?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Me my boyfriend have a child together and he also has a child from his first relationship... often he goes to spend time with his other daughter and it's really getting on my love. He loves his daughter very much but sometimes I hate the fact th...

My ex and I made each other miserable, but we had a spark I don't feel with my current boyfriend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - I was completely in love with someone a while back. Person B. It was the first time I had ever fallen for someone, and It was insanely intense. One thing lead to another and we ended it. While we were a rather passionate couple, we made eachothe...

I need some help getting through a terrible break up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

26 March 2014 (M) - I've been suffering through a terrible break up and I need some encouraging words and help to get through it. My gf and I were together about two years. We split on Sunday because she couldn't handle a relationship anymore. She deeply suffers f...

How do I put my family problems behind me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hmm... I don't even know where to start. My life has been all over the place since I've returned to school. I was living with my mother when I came back, for about 2 1/2 months until we got into an disagreement, which turned into an argument which ...

His idea of a compliment left me troubled

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hi. I would be grateful for some opinions please. My partner of ten years has never paid me many compliments but the other day, he said he had been watching me sleep and had made a decision. He said he thought to himself, "Yeah, she`ll do". He said ...

He slept with someone else right before our wedding was scheduled

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I have been married for 9 weeks and now my husband decides to tell me that he slept with a work colleague last year but thinks because its a one off that I should be able to move on and forgive him. Our wedding had to be pushed back due to the ...

I feel bad for making him suffer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - Hi, this is my problem: I was really in love with this bodybuilding guy. He was the only guy who had ever treated me with love and cared and pampered me and spoiled. He was almost perfect. We were really in love and by no means would we ha...

Am I right to wait for this girl after she broke up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - Here's my situation: I've been in a relationship with this girl for 9 months now. She's a wonderful girl, and complements me in so many ways that I really thought we were sort of perfect for each other. I'm more of a cynic and don't get 'happy' ...

I feel like he can't see past our rocky previous relationship, but I want to move forward and start a new one with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - Okay, I'll apologise in advance, because this may take a while. I met my partner when we first started university back in September. We got together in November and the relationship started off okay. There were a few things I felt uneasy about th...

I'm so worried I could not sleep .........

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - What is happening? I've still not heard from him:( I'm worried? I spoke to my boyfriend saturday afternoon and he said he was going to take a nap he will ring me when he wakes up. He didn't ring me in the evening, I tried to call him but I ...

Is he playing games or is it all in my head? Does he like me or is he being EXTREMELY nice?? IDK. Help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

24 March 2014 (?) - Im female, 19, and a college freshman. I have an issue with teacher crushes that i never acted on until this year. My drum instructor and I didnt have much of a relationship at the beginning of this year. Lets just say he was a cocky jerk. He a...

How do I extricate myself from this toxic relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I really need some advice on how to emotionally detach myself from my boyfriend (ex?). We've been together 4 years and things have gotten so horrible. He's not in love with me anymore therefore he treats me like shit. He doesn't care what he say...

My boyfriend told me I'm no longer included in our group vacation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - So I am with my boyfriend for over a year , and its your typical relationships with petty fights about jealousy and everything, but we do have a good relationship. Over the last few weeks, he has changed in some ways, like always saying before he...

If he was really that into me would he be secretly messaging another girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for four years and I've never had a reason to not trust him. Recently things have been rough but we seem to of worked through it together and everything for the last month has been great. However we w...

How should I apologize to him? I wrongly listened to a manipulative ex-friend. He was not in the wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Hi there. I have never felt this guilty in my life before, which is why I want to seek help here. So, there is a guy in my new organization who likes me. It's been only a month now, when I joined a new job. He is different in all the ways. He comes...

I am already pregnant. So how do my husband and I handle his parents who flipped about the pregnancy because my husband is disabled?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I need some advice on how to deal with the things going on in my life at the moment. I Will tell u the back story. My husband and I were involved in an accident a few years ago and it left my husband significantly physically disabled and I'm now ...

I hate seeing this woman hurt and string my friend along. Is there anything I can do to help her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - I need some advice. I have a friend who I am really close to. We share a lot with each other and have the type of friendship where we can speak openly. Recently she told me that she felt she could always come to me with a problem because I was ho...

My ex boyfriend keeps going back and forth between telling me to move on and then contacting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone, My last post was an issue with the older ex boyfriend. Since the last post I've been ignoring him and now he's texting me and trying to get my attention. I ignored each text after another. Problem is I just can't understand wha...

While we were apart, he slept with a lot of girls, including one night stands and gave me an STI when we reconciled. How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Hi everybody any advice will be appreciated. Me and my boyfriend had been together four years when I got into a university in a different country to do medicine. It's a five year course and I would be living four hours away from home. After much...

Are my friends right? Is my boyfriend not treating me right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupids out there, I really really need help :( please help me ...This is going to be a long post.. But I'm really lost at what to do. Ilove my boyfriend very much. And iI'm quite sure he loves me tpopular. He tells me he loves me. Ho...

Boyfriend angry about an incident where he thought I was cheating and its destroying our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Long story as short as possible. Been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. We don't live together at the moment but have been talking about it once my lease is up. A few months ago we'd started fighting and this caused him to distance himself. We ...

My boy keeps lying to me, but insists that he loves me and only me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - Alright so before you tell me to just "dump his ass", actually think about this. Basically, the guy I'm with right now is the best guy ever. I love him to death. And he loves me. He does so much for me, as do his parents. Through his life, he has a...