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writes:Hi Everyone,My last post was an issue with the older ex boyfriend. Since the last post I've been ignoring him and now he's texting me and trying to get my attention. I ignored each text after another. Problem is I just can't understand what's going on in his head. One day he tells me to move and and that he will be dating other people. Next day he send me pictures of what he's doing or ask me where I am or, Thank for you this or that.I mean I had enough of his bipolar/insecure personality,I tried so hard to love this man and so hard to make it work, but I already know it will go in circles.I feel like in the relationship he's playing more of the girl part, where he's hot and cold, I'm just very proud of myself for not answering and being strong and doing what I know is right. I still care for him, but he has pushed me away where I know I deserve to be happy not go in circles of hurt and confusion.Thanks!
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reader, Tyedyedturtle +, writes (22 March 2014):
 He wants the best of both worlds? He's having a hard time dealing with the reality that you two are done? Truly, there are tons of possible reasons.
But, in the end, if you are done with this relationship, you need to not even care. Tell him to stop, or block his number. You have to put an end to it because he won't. Don't sacrifice your time or happiness.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (22 March 2014):
 My standard answer to all the posters in your samr situations ( and they are many ) of not knowing what's going through an ex's head.
What do you care ?! Why does it matter ?
He is an ex. Of whom you are supposedly sick and tired, and who kept you going in circles of hurt and confusion.
Hurt and confusion haven't got much to do with the happiness you say that you want and deserve.
So, if you want happiness, he needs to be gone and stay gone - and that's all you need to know. All you need to know is what goes through YOUR OWN mind, i.e. : the ( hopefully ) firm determination to move on and close firmly the door on such an unhappy , dysfunctional relationship.
So, YOU move on. What he does thinks wants... not your concern.
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