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writes:My partner of three years and I have recently been having some problems. Now I believe we are genuinely starting to work through them and he is happy in our relationship but I have been left with niggling doubts that all problems aside, we are just not right for each other. I can't live with these doubts forever! Half of me wants to leave but the other half is terrified that the doubts might subside and I'll regret leaving forever. The indecision is driving me insane. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2014): I think you should wait a little while longer. Maybe you should talk to your partner about these doubts. Personally, I think that when a couple can get through bad times and problems, they can get through anything together, but that's just me
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (27 March 2014):
 The classic way to do this is to take a sheet of paper and make two columns....
In one column you list "Reasons why we should stay together,"; in the other, "Reasons why we should go our separate ways".....
Once those columns are filled in - HONESTLY! - then you have your "answer" right in front of you...
Good luck...
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