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Archived questions from: 11 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help! Is this the end of my marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Help.. I have been married for 12 years and have 4 kids. we went through hell to be together the whole world was against us and now everything is falling apart. He manipulated me thinking every argument was my fault and my whole world came ...

Am I just trying to fill a void because my boyfriend and I broke up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (?) - I'm 16 and me and my bf (18) just broke up. now im talking to this guy tht i have been on and off with since i was 13 and he was 15. hes now 18. we had sex one time over the summer and we sometimes talk, on and off. lately i have been talking to him ...

My husband doesn't appreciate me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3652 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I have been married to my hubby for 3 years, we have a son who is 15 months old, and it seems as though since i have had my son our relationship has broken down, we dont talk anymore, we are having fininacial difficulties that are stressing him out, ...

Is he lying or is does he just want to get my attention again by hurting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - When I discovered that my boyfriend was cheating on me, I became a bitch and decided to talk to guys he prohibited me to talk to. It made him even angrier when I told him I don't care anymore if he leaves me for the other girl, I said I was fine ...

Please, help? I love him but its complicated. I just don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, So, I dated a guy almost year ago after he moved here to start school. I found out after we had been together for a year that he still had a girlfriend back home. We broke up, but remained friends. It has been 11 months, and we ar...

How is the best way to handle her text messages?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - Quick question, I have been having issues with a new girl I met after a really romantic weekend, and when I tried to talk to her, I get these phrases when we tried to talk on Monday (the day after). I'd sent her a few messages on Facebook, sent a ...

Should I tell my gf what I'm thinking about the other woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I had an "emotional" affair which didn't involve any sex but did involve me falling head-over-heals for the other woman. I'm well aware I'm a bastard for doing what I did, but I still need help. The other woman and I discussed things and decided ...

Help! I don't know if I want to be in this relationship any more... I'm so confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months and we've been having some issues recently. Our relationship has been really intense from the start and in all honesty I believe this is the most serious relationship he's ever had. His last long term gf was 3 year ...

Why can't people mind their own business sometimes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Why don't people mind their own business?! It's really annoying. Don't they realise they're hurting others? I don't know what to do? People have been talking about me and writing messages on msn/facebook which are hinted at me! It's not abuse so I ...

Husband filed for divorce, but I don't think either of us wants one. What are some ideas for putting my marriage back on track?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Okay. My husband has told me he has filed for divorce. We have been separated for 8 months now. The first 4 months he did have interest in us going to marital counseling and working on our marriage. We had been married for 11 months when we ...

I am isolated from friends and family, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship that I am not happy in. I feel that my boyfriend does not love me or care about me. He does not treat me well. He hits me and says stuffs to me. When he does it he says he is either joking or was angry but if i do anything ...

My girlfriend's texts to her ex-boyfriend confuse me. Is she cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 10 months and I have go through some serious issues - her manipulative ex disrupting things to begin with, big age gap, medical problem meaning no sex for months, meeting my kids. We've joked about how the things we've go through ...

How can I overcome my inhibitions and keep my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Wel i'm 14 and i have been dating a guy who is 16 for 4 months now the problem is that i act stupid everytime i get a guy who really loves me,wel i get angry at him for making small mistakes and i haven't given him a real deep kiss ever since we ...

Does he love me or is he stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - hi i've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months. everything seemed to be going really well. It seemed as if we both liked each other but I noticed that he seemed a little distracted with his phone, he seemed to be always texting someone ...

Crisis with boys and my best friend! Help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am having a huge crisis with boys and my best friend Holly!! A few weeks ago she asked out a guy that I really like, but before she did... I never told her I liked him. He accepted and now I am really confused. In school they ...

Is my girlfriend controlling?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - Hi All Please help My girlfriend of one year has these traits. She is too bossy * Says I do everything wrong around the house * Housework and cooking have to be done her way * If i clean kitchen but leave milk or sauce out she complains ...

Why am I not enough for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - hi. when me and my girlfriend get horny and talk about having sex, the last few times she always mentions using her toy and watching porn. should i be worried that she doesnt find me attractive anymore or any good in bed that she needs this ext...

I have betrayed my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - me and my boy friend has been dating for almost 2 years now. we love each other and we are crazy about eachother. recently i have moved to another country to study. in here im so free, i live alone. my parents live in another country and i ha...

After 8 years I have finally decided to end it, but I'm afraid to move on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for 81/2 years. Recently, he so-called proposed (without a ring). He had planned a simple wedding with the Justice of the Peace for January 05, 2010. We have never lived together, in fact, I don't even know where he ...

Is it normal 2 years down the line to still get aggravated by my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend cheated on me 2 years ago. We had only been going out for a few months and on one drunken night my boyfriend made out with some girl. The next day he told me immediately and said he was sorry and I chose to forgive him. I'm glad I d...

My views on animal rights are conflicting with my relationship, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I need help! Ive been with my boyfriend for about two years now and we are both so happy together. Im buddhist so i have strong views about a lot of things. One of them is animal rights. I know this is a really extreme veiw but i think animals are ...

My boyfriend has gone from being very sexual to not wanting sex anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. He was a bachelor his whole adult life and frequently traveled for international sex, hetro and transexual. He was very sexual in the begining of our relationship but now rarely wants to have ...

How can I learn to communicate better with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi Guys, I recently started going out (i think...!) with one of my very good friends, and I guess that means things are changing (obviously and hopefully). I (surprisingly, as I'm a girl) have lots of trouble talking, like properly TALKING about fe...

I would already be engaged to her if it wasnt for her past! How do I overcome this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I'll try to keep it short. In June 07 I met a girl at a party and ending up sleeping with her that night. Both of us were sober. For the rest of the summer we hooked up here and there - f buddies. About a month after we first met my good friend told ...

I no longer feel the same way for him, how could I leave without destroying him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. he is 7 year older, our relationship started fast within a month he moved in and after 6 months bought a house. We have been through a lot, his divorce, custody battle (his previous marriage) and him ...

My husband masturbated to porn while my 15 month old watched tv!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I’m at a bit of a loss. I posted earlier about my husband’s obsessive use of porn as well as masturbating to pictures of his ex. Since that post he’s been caught two more times looking at porn. I haven’t seen anything more on his ex…but I could just ...

How do I get past these horrible feelings I have?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I'm disgusted with myself. 5 yrs ago, I got pregnant, it wasn't planned, I was shocked, I was on birth control and there it was. My bf at the time was very supportive, however after a length discussion we decided not to have our child. A year lat...

My husband won't touch me sexually!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I have a very much needed please help save my marriage question. Well here goes,I have a very nice husband, except when it comes to being with me sexualy in anyway shape or form. and WITH HIM THERE'S no talking about it either. he started this abo...

It seems every time my bf and I get close, I lose all interest in him! What do I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - So...my bf is yet again out of town. Yet again I'm having some weird emotions about someone... This guy that I have known literally my entire life is in town with me. A girl that I met here somehow knows him. They have been talking to each ...

Should I visit him and see where our love stands?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - i need help to move on. a childhood friend who courted me since i was 15yrs to 18yrs til i left for canada had reconnected jan 2008. i was still married but seriously seeking a divorce because of abuse and mental cruelty. while husband was on a ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my ex raping me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Should I tell my bf, that my ex bf raped me during my relationship with my ex? I dont know if I should tell him or not. I am afraid of how he will react. At the same time, I also believe that because we are partners we should tell each other ...

Does he think something bad of me? Do I annoy him?

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11 November 2009 (F) - Hello all, First off I would like to thank your time and advice. I have a complicated story and my main question is that I don't know what to do or how to approach the situation and/or whether I should ask him what we are... but first I need to ...

My ex bff is doing things on purpose to make me mad or hurt my feelings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My ex bff is doing things on purpose to make me mad or hurt my feelings. She'll stare at me, walk pass me on purpose, says hi to people that I'm with even though she doesn't really talk to them etc.. NO she is not harassing me, i just want to...