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Archived questions from: 8 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He asked to see naked pictures of another woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Well, i just want to ask you lady's out there what you would do if you caught your boyfriend out, that he had been asking your BROTHER to see NAKED pictures of my brother's girlfriend. My boyfriend says that its just natural for a lad, and i would ...

I sometimes feel bad about not being able to relate to my friends when they talk about guys or their relationships.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

8 November 2009 (?) - I sometimes feel bad about not being to relate to my friends when they talk about guys or their relationships. I've only been in one serious relationship, but they've been in more. They don't make me feel bad or left out or anything, but I just feel ...

How do I deal with roommate temperature problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - So I have a roommate who likes it cold and don't get me wrong I like it cool too, but she likes to keep it at 65 degrees Fahrenheit or below with 2 or 3 fans on in our dorm room and the window open even when it's snowing/blizzarding out. I've ...

Help needed! How can I get over her past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my current girlfriend for about 6 months now and everyhting was fine and dandy... We really felt we were in love with each other but we got into talking about our pasts and hers really upset me. She's young and has been with 7 ...

I feel like the whole world is against me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - I don't know whats happening to me at the moment. I haven't written on here for ages, and now it seems that evrything that I've built up over the last few months is falling to pieces. With my parents nothing ever feels good enough for them, and they...

I'm having a strong desire to run before I am hurt. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

8 November 2009 (?) - Feeling so uneasy with this. He didn't say he loves me back, and I'm afraid of how this is affecting me now. Yes, it's important that he treats me well, and he does. He says he doesn't want to jinx anything. Meanwhile, I'm having a strong desire ...

Boyfriend punishing me for the past....when will it end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been on and off for about 2 years now. He is in the Army and ten years younger than me. 6 months into this blissful relationship he got sent to Iraq for 11 months. On R and R, mid deployment he proposed and I accepted. ...

How can I have more regular sex with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly two years now, everything is going well but we have never had a good sex life but this was a mutual decision at first but then we both started enjoying it. But the main problem is over the past ...

What do I need to do to show her we should be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - My ex (4 years together--a few months apart) and I have been seeing one another again and speaking frequently. She has a new BF, but I love her and want her back. She knows this. Our breakup was due to my bipolar disorder, but I am well now. My ex ...

He wants to marry me but chats online to women..help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Cupid Aunt, I (45) have been in a steady relationship with a wonderful guy, about 9 years older than me, for about two years. We are compatible in every way possible. He has even asked me to marry me and we have made future plans. However,...

Married man problems..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - i got accidentally involved with a married man who is my boss too i m 37 and he's 55 we never did sex but ya bit oral activities i like talking to him as i m unmarried he's ask me not to call before his wife and keeps all measures to hide his affair ...

Heard a lot of bad things about this guy...should I drop him or give him a fair shot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Ok this is kind of long but I really need your guys's help. Ok I just started highschool and there's this boy that im very confused about. He's a sophmore but should be a junior because he got held back cause he had to go to rehab......

We made up again, but I am crushed about his fling with another woman when were apart! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - I am in a huge rut. I was with this guy for 2 years before breaking up and we each slept with someone else. The difficult part is that for one we were engaged, and also that we had a child and 1 month and a half after he was born, we broke up and I ...

Do you think he blames me for him getting to work late? What is going on with him?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - So my bf was supposed to come over yesterday night, because he needed me to wake him up at 5 in the morning because he has work at 6, he never came over and i called him like at 10 the next morning, asking him why he did not come over again, he said ...

I love him but am willing to let him go...but he has some college books I need and I can't talk to him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - hey guys i hooked up with mu housemate during the summer but he didnt want a relatiosnhip. recently i saw him agian and it was lovely to see each other but he said its too hard for us to see each other asnd i nearly agree even thio i love him im ...

I want to move forward with our relationship, but I won't until I have some sort of commitment! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Ok.. so my situation is a little complicated i'm afraid. Basically theres this guy, and me and him have been friends for a long time. And he liked me a while back, but I wasnt interessted cos I was getting over my ex. Now over summer we hung out a ...

I want to wait to get married, but she wants it now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years, I'm a really bad person because I lied to her, we got engaged then a year later I said I didn't want to get married, I have a habit of oppressing my feelings, I don't open up or say how I really ...

How can I regain my self worth and self esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - I really dont know how to put this into words except to say that with my current partner of 14 month, I have just lost it... My husband died alsmost 3 years ago. I never thought that at age 50 I would find someone who matched me so well again. ...

I broke up with my b/f because I love my teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 16 years old and am in love with my former teacher. I know there is so many questions on this website about this issue, but I just need some specific help. I have known him for 3 years now, and he taught me for two. I moved away at the end ...

Busy with sick mum for a week so my girlfriend ended it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - Here is the situation, and thank you for reading this and possibly giving me some advice. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months now, and we usually spend everyday together. If not then we talk on the phone often and text. I am ...

Should I be a friend while he goes through a divorce or cease contact until it's sorted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - I'm a divorced single mother of 2 little boys, 6 and 8. I recently started seeing a man who is separated with 3 children but his divorce won't go through until he and his ex have agreed on custody and support issues. I was cautious about dating h...

BF has other priorities than a relationship... should I wait for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - I have been seing this guy for over a year now. its basically an open relationship. it strictly sexual when we first started it. But as time passed by, we both started getting attached. I know he cares for me but the problem is he doesnt show it. He ...

Eloping this weekend... then how do I tell my parents when we get back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - i have been seeing an older man secretly for a year my parents know him but don't know about us he is not married he has a farm right next to us and i help him all the time we our going to get married this weekend when we go to a cattle sale in ...

My live-in BF doesn't seem to feel things... How do I express myself without being rejected?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Hi to all and any who may read this. I am involved in a living arrangement with a man for about a year. There have been a lot of ups and downs as to be expected but I am very uncomfortable with some of what I am experiencing. It seems as though ...

I want a family he wants his career and a harem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - I broke off with the guy i was seeing last December because i couldn't continue living without emotional security and without being able to express honestly my feelings and emotions with him. I want a family he wants his career and a harem. I said ...