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Archived questions from: 1 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Lack of trust is killing our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - hi there I have one big problem - trust. My husband, for over 15 years now, has accused me of having an affair behind his back. I haven't,or ever would, do anything like that to anyone and in his mind he thinks something did take place and there is ...

How can I resist the urge to cheat again?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I really need some help Im a married wowman and have cheated even had an affair. It is not my personality to mess around. I have to admit I do miss the rush I used to get. It was always exciting to me to meet someone new. I feel guilty for feeling ...

We live together and I have no place to go...how do I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - How do I break up with someone that I live with? My boyfriend and I have been together for thwo years now. I think he's a great person but I no longer want to be with him. I know I should just go, but as we live together, and I don't have anywh...

Harrassment from my boss... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I am 18 years old and i work in a pub, in september a new owner took over the pub and kept me on as staff. The new owner is 40 years old, has 4 children by 3 different women considerably younger than him, he is currently dating a 19 year old who ...

I like him! but I'm still so close with his best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hey Everyone, I went out with this boy, on-off, for about two years. He told me everything, and there was a lot of really awful experiences that he went through. In the end, I broke up with him (complicated reasons). We're still really close, I ...

My husband is a neat freak and I don't have any motivation to clean!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - help!i want to stop this emotional maddnes! my husband is a neat freak and i really just dont care. i really cant find motivation to clean the house. i want to, but when its messed up by him hours later i jsut say screw and dont do it anymore. idk ...

I slept with my girlfriend and now she's not calling me back! And also.. my male friend hit on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Hello fellow agony aunts. I have a problem..actually it's 2 and i was wondering if you guys could help. So last night was Halloween and there was a huge party in my town. Everyone..all my friends and people from other schools were there. And i we...

I lied about my age and now I don't know if I should tell him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - so, i met this guy about 4 years ago through mutual friends...when we met i KNEW he was in his 20's and i was about to turn 16...ive always had older groups of friends. well, this guy and i always kept in touch...emailed for a good three months just ...

I love him, I don't want to lose him but I don't know what else to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I am a 21 year old Egyptian girl. A year ago I met an American guy online, he is 26. Since the first night we met we both clicked right away. We talked for five hours and neither of us really wanted to go. I wasn't looking for a relationship nor was ...

How do I get over the barriers I have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I went out with a few friends the other night (even though i wasn't really in the mood as i've been pretty depressed lately and I'm on medication so I can't drink) and I met this group of guys who I sort of know, and got chatting to one of my ...

What can I do to get over him when I've tried everything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hey Dear agony aunts!!!!!!!!! i just want an input on this what would you do if no matter what you do...no matter how many hobbies you may get you can never really get over someone??? what else should i do???especially if this someone was "for...

Jealousy issues! please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Please help me,im 38 have been married and in long term relationships but I cant seem to be able to control my jealous streak.I know im insecure but i find it really hard to trust as I have been let down so many times by people really close to me.I ...

Is there any chance that he'll come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, From October of 2008 to May of 2009, I was in a relationship with the boy that I am thoroughly convinced was my first love. Our time together was absolutely wonderful. During those seven months, I was happier than I had ever been be...

Could it be him that just wants sex all the time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Every time I go to my fiances' house, all he ever wants to do is 'do it'. He never wants to go out or do anything, and he says this is because he never has alot of money. But, yes he works. But he doesn't hardly ever want to go anywhere, not even a ...

Sometimes I wonder if we should break up. Are we doomed to fail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - I am a 30 year old male dating someone in my age range but just a little younger. We have so much fun together and enjoy each other's company. She does so much for me and I for her. However, I think that at times we are both insecure and it ...

What can I do about this long distance relationship?

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1 November 2009 (F) - Hi! Me and my BF have been together nearly 2 years, and we have made some pretty big changes during that time. Firstly, he went off to Uni at the coast while I was in London, and during that time we split for a few weeks to get some space. We got b...

Childhood sweethearts and now we're together, but he says he needs to be alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. We were childhood sweethearts over 20 years ago. Got back together when both our marriages crumbled (both our partners had affairs). His wife left him in Jan of this year, divorced by June. My ...

How can I confront his lies if I sneaked to get the evidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - My partner lies to me. He is really defensive - if i ask anything he gets so angry and blames me for ...anything.......... i have gotten so sick of it and tonight i snooped in his studio and wallet and found the evidence. He says he stopped ...

I'm not responding to her affection but I don't want to lose her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Hi...Iv just turned 60 and have a lovely wife who has just turned 32. Yes a big age gap I know. We have been married since 2004 and during that time have been apart once. I'm having a lot of problems with my age and the fact that I feel tha...

I want to be with him, he broke up with his girlfriend for me but now he isn't replying to me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - ive been in love for months with a boy. he works with me, and has told me hundreds of times he loves me too and he really wants to be with me. but he has a "girlfriend" a girl who he texts constantly but never sees face to face. we have hooked up a ...

He likes somebody else, should I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Ok. So i dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend or not. i think he likes my best friend . i dont know why i just get that feeling like he does like her. I confronted him and asked him if he liked her. And he said "No, she doesn't have all ...

We get on so well! But there are some problems..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I started dating a guy about a year ago. Things went well until he had a problem with ED. He told me he only ended up sleeping with the women that he married. His first marriage lasted 3 years (she ended up deciding to be gay). Hi seco...

She cheated on me and I forgive her, but now she does not know what she wants.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Well here it goes, I was went on vacation and I kept in contact with my girlfriend that I love very much, and i suspected something was going on and I was right She was cheating on me and she admitted it and asked me to forgive her I was raged but I ...

Things used to be so sweet. How can they go back to the way they used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - I miss my girlfriend so much were still together we've been datin for 9 months but this past month just hasn't been the same. We would always do things that we like doin and at the end of the day we would just cuddle and watch tv or a movie. And ...

Does she look at other men? Is she lying to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - I feel terrible. I do not know what to do. I have accused my girlfriend time after time after time of looking at other men and she always insists that she doesn't. But I see her looking around whenever we are outside, so she has to be judging and ...

His behaviour is a bit confusing. What do you make of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - in a relationship with a fairly controlling boyfriend. he gets jealous of every guy i go out with or dance with when we are clubbing. i wanted to try rock climbing and he told me i don't have the upper strength and would suck at it. i said i ...

Is it true he just needs time and no pressure to sort himself out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Basically its a very complicated story. Back in April I almost lost my job twice over and me and my partner were not getting on 2 well. on august the 9th he cheated on me for a week just kissing with one of my friends. I forgave him, but he went to ...

I asked why she wanted to marry me and she couldn't answer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - should i be concern my girlfriend get alone well because i adapt to people well but we are not really compatible and she spend all her time looking at wedding sites,venues shows etc... iask her why she wanted to marry me couldn't really answer....

Am I too naive? Or is it because he's lying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I'm older than him 2 years . We work at the same place . I've known him for 3 months . We rarely talk to each other at working place , but there were a few times when there's only me and him . He "stole" my first kiss. He surprised to know that was ...

Did we make a mistake by rushing our engagement?

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1 November 2009 (M) - I was dating my fiance for 5 mounts we decided to engage we had huge engegment party and after 3 weeks she asked me she isnot happy with me she did made mistake and she isnot redy to talk and she is breaking up i lover her todead and i do everything ...

Pregnant and thinking of Leaving Husband due to his strip club visiting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and waited it seems like an eternity to get pregnant. My husband and I have had our problems, but I always thought he would be a little different when I got pregnant. Please tell me if I am being ridiculous with my ...

He has two kids with two other baby mommas but he's not interested in his baby with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I just had a baby girl, whose absolutely beautiful, for my ex boyfriend. He knew I was pregnant but wasnt sure if he was the father. Well he has 2 other kids with 2 baby mothers but is taking care both of them. He had doubts about being the father ...

Working things with my ex but cut off sex, until I see a change in him, asking to much of him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - So me and my ex are working on getting back together, but i told him that we are not going to have sex until i see a definate change in him, in terms of me see that he really wants to be in a committed relationship with me he agreed, do u guys think ...

Why is she confused and doubting her feelings for me? I have done nothing wrong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating since April, although we were having casual sex for about a month prior. We got engaged in August, just as she moved to China for a year. We had spent almost all of that time prior to her moving away in each ...