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Archived questions from: 19 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why is she always so mean to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I just started seventh grade, and some mean girls have started making fun of me. One of the girls lives by me so its really embarrassing. She's started telling people I'm a lesbian. She's also saying she's scared and that I ask her a lot of ...

Should we just be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I have this problem.I started dating a coworker when we started working together,he was just getting over a divorce.We had a relationship for two years and right before I go for a family visit he was telling me about his plans for us and talking ...

Has anybody taken a break and everything worked out in the end?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm 23 my bfs 25 we were dating for 4 months yet we have gone thru so much in so little time... yet he asked for space to make sure what he wants n to see if he's ready to make the next step which is marriage, yea sounds fast but we know each ...

The sum of al fears... My obsession with relationship (sexual) past.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - I've been on this site, and a few others for a while. My question I guess is a combination of many questions, and I'm not totally sure where to begin. Let me start by saying that I love my girl. If I didn't then I wouldn't be worried about an...

Help needed!!! How can I improve my relationship with my in-laws?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I've just recently got married. My husband is Hispanic and comes from deep religious background. His parents are pastors. I am African American and I was raised by a single. We had talked about married when he proposed I said yes but he didn'...

He never does his fair share around the house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - My husband says he is not taking care of any chores because he has to work. When I tell him, that is not right and he needs to do something too around the house etc, he says you are bitching at me all the time, why would I spend time with you? He ...

Why doesn't someone gimme some lovin'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - ok guys. im really frustrated im a fine looking girl, everyone says im a nice, honest and a confident person who enjoys a laugh. (im 18). i havent had a boyfreind since i was 14. i have a lot of boys saying how nice i am and they end up te...

Let down again... I feel so ugly, as if no one wants me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Weve spoke on msn and have been texting for about 2/3 months but i never thought anything of it in that way because he's well out of my league, lots of girls think hes good looking. But he mentioned getting to know me more. Then he asked me to go...

Why is my friend's boyfriend being so frigid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - ok so i have this friend who actually is a friend!! She's my best mate and she has had a boyfriend for the last 6 months. The problem is (and I wouldn't be writing this all over the internet if we couldn't figure out the problem) but her boyfriend ...

I ended the relationship, now how can I get him out of my system?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - i was in a long term relationship with a guy for almost 15 months, during the relationships there were ups and downs, i believe i was always treated second best to everything else in his life. and i was treated terribily, loads of times i cryed ...

He is a liar and a cheat! Now how do I get over him for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm hoping someone can help me with this. I broke up with my bf of 3yrs. last week. I just got so tired of his behaviour, he is 26 but has hissy fits like a 2yr. old when things don't go his way, he does "baby-talk", he thinks its funn...

Out of the blue he tells me "I don't deserve you". Why would he say this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend very much, we been together for almost 7 months but i have always known him, he loves me too im his first love and first serious girlfriend, we have fun together, can be ourselfs around eachother and he always makes sure i come ...

My Boyfriend stopped giving me attention, what should I do?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are in a comited relationship since 4.5months and he lives 545km away from my house..we both really love each other and we can even die for each other..but now a days my boyfriend doesn't give me much attention as he used to ...

Are these good reasons for breaking up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 3 weeks ago and have been riding on an emotional roller coaster since. One minute I'm so happy and excited to be single and the next I can't believe what a great thing I threw away. Mine was an am...

Will he ever come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were wonderful, he started to have financial issues in his family and then decided to take some finacial moves to help, one was moving away. About a month or two before he was to leave he told me we couldn't be together, i deserve ...

Are these doubts to be expected when you are entering into a life-long comittment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I am engaged to a really great hardworking man, we are from different cultures which means there has been a lot of learning in the relationship about how we each do things, what’s expected of each other and so on, some of those expectations we ...

We've only been back together for a week but already she is showing signs of her old behaviour!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Hi, need some advice about what to do next. Me and my ex were with each other for 3 years but broke up 10 months ago she is very insecure no matter what i do to comfort her or resure her, in the end it tore us apart not saying i done nothing wrong ...

He wants to get married in the near future but he's not sure if I'm the One!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating my bf for two years. I am co_dependent /insecure so breaking up has always been hard for me. We have a very loving relationship, except for the marriage issue. I am 28, he is 29. He tells me he wants to get married in the next...

My fiance thinks I'm crazy for feeling uncomfortable with his ex's presence at all family functions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - My fiance and I are both divorced. His ex is very close with his family. His family feels obligated to invite her to every function because she has no family in the state and no friends. She has lived her over twenty years so go figure. I am ok ...

Am I stupid to still care about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - i was in love with dis guy 2 yrs back,he showed me love he made me forget about all my past we had 5 mnths but it was like many years.everything changed when he want to marry me cuase he wnt kids i suggested we get tested before.he tested positive ...

How many frogs do I have to date in order to find the one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I have written for advice in the past and still need it. I dated a great guy and we broke up afte six months of dating. He only was divorced one year. I have been single for ten. He went through a lot of bad stuff with his divorce. He never ...

Advice please... How can I make it up to my girlfriend and also to karma?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (?) - Hi, I fell in love with my best friend's girl but somehow knew it was wrong the first time (The hardest thing I have ever done and the most pain ive ever felt) and was frightened of the fact it might blow up in my face so I went after someone el...

No gift from BF on birthday....?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my BF for three years. He has always been really romantic and thoughtful in the area of giving gifts on special days. However, our 3 yr anniversary passed about 6 wks ago and he did not get me a gift. A card, which was nice, but ...

New girlfriend vs daughter from ex wife

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - I've been divorced for over 2 years now. I've got a 4yr old daughter that lives with mom. I see her on Mondays and have her every second weekend, holiday etc. The divorce was easy, friendly and we're still friendly. I've been dating the girl of ...

I'm not a liar but I can't justify my actions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Today is my boyfriend and I's ten months. We've been going strong so far, but tonight tests us... About a year ago (before we were dating), I was trying to get into modeling. I went to a photographer who was fairly well-known, and seemed professio...

Should we stay friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I've been friends with a guy for the past 3 yrs. When we had met he was interested in me but at the time I had my mind on another guy so we just stayed friends. Now, 3 years later we've been getting closer and yesterday I texted him and told him...

Does giving a girl space work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Does giving a girl space and time work...

Losing hope

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I've been in an on/off relationship for almost 4 years now. We have never really officially to others called each other boyfriend/ girlfriend which doesn't bother me because I know what we have. I love the guy, I'm so happy when i'm with him ...

To trust or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I have had some hard relationships in my life and all but one man has committed some form of cheating or lying to me and it has caused me to have some issues with men. The man I am seeing now is wonderful but I have pissed him off a time or two by ...

I think about him all the time...even when I'm with my husband. Am I wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Ever since I've meet my professor two years ago I've had a crush on him. I'm in college and majoring on the piano, he's my piano teacher as well as the teacher for a few other classes. At first I wasn't worried about it, this isn't the first time ...

Its my own fault he cant trust me, how do I make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do, i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i realised how big a mistake i'd made and left him straight away. i talked to my boyfriend and he ...

He cant cum when I give him a blowjob because of the big "mental' component to it! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Hi Guys, I've been going out with a friend of mine for about a month now, and although we're both VERY different we get along great. However, the other night I decided to give him a blowjob, which he thoroughly appreciated (OK, who wouldn't), but a...

My girlfriend had a one night stand before she met me and my family knows about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - I lost my virginity to my recent girlfriend and she has slept with two people before me. Only one of them bother me since it was a one night stand which she ended up having sex with twice. My cousin was there in the same house the first time she did ...

I'm so dependent on my boyfriend and now he only wants to be friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

19 November 2009 (?) - My bf asked me to be friends because there were too many problems in our relationship. The thing is we have been living together 1yr. and 1/2... I love him very much, but I am so hurt. Every time I try to work it out with him he wants to, at ...

How can I stop feeling so jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I get so jealous with my boyfriend and it's making me feel insecure. I get annoyed feeling this way. We've been together for a little over a year but we are getting into too many fights because I fill my head with so many things. Before it was ...

Please help me... he hits me on a regular basis...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, i love him very much even though he hits me on a regular basis, I'm 17 he is 23 so when he does this to me i cant stand up for myself because hes too strong, i cant leave him because i have no one else to ...