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Archived questions from: 5 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I forget the emotional abuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - i met this guy off the internet 9 years ago. we chatted online and e-mailed each other for about a year. he would say sweet romantic things to me, and i thought he loved me. we went on a date, and had an argument about money. he stood me up for our ...

Has he fallen out of love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I’ve been dating a boy named Coletun for nearly a month. When he first asked me out I told him yes, but then wasn’t quite sure. I was afraid I might have just been saying yes to him because he was the only good guy who had asked me out and I was ...

Drunken mistake won't leave me alone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - This guy i did stuff with while drunk keeps trying to contact me through facebook, but he was just a DISGUSTING mistake and I really don't want to have anything to do with him... How can I reject him without seeming like a bit of a b****?...

Does he still love me? And why is he ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I was with this guy for a year and we both loved one another very much. But there was a lot of struggles we had to go through to be together and we both got tired of it so we decided that we should just stop for a while. Well... after that I text ...

Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...

Why does he not respond? Does he need space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - The guy I am dating had a birthday and I text him happy birthday and something nice at the late evening, on that day and the day after in the morning I text him happy good morning and happy birthday and some very nice sentences about that, he is the ...

I can't tell if he's just not interested or if he really is busy. Do I respond or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we went out and we had what I thought was a great date. So great in fact we decided to go out the next night as well, which in retrospect was probably not a smart move. Then he just didn't call me or anything. ...

My girlfriend is hardly ever in the mood for sex, have I done something to cause this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now and we hardly have sex anymore. she had cervical cancer last summer and since then shes never been in the mood for sex.. is it something i did or what should i do? [Moderator's Note: Po...

Do men that are abusive and violent always act like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I have a question is it normal for a guy to always make me feel like his the victim. The scenario is that I have been with a guy for more than 4 years who is not the father of my 2 boys..Some violent incidents have occured in the past were I ...

My boyfriend can't open up and I feel lonely in our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - im living with my boyfriend for 11 years now,and feel that he dont love me anymore,we never go out together or talk properly to each other,this could last for weeks and then when we make up,it lasts about a day,and then its back to square 1,its like ...

I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...

My fiancé won't spend money on the coming baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - hey, im 30weeks pregnant on sunday, me and my fiance are living in a rented house since august. we have no baby stuff yet, the only things we have got is the things iv paid for. he works and earns £1100 after tax, because of this i cant claim an...

Should I trust my husband or my gut feeling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Hi People i really need some help!!! Please let me know what you think I am a 24 year old mum of an adorable 21 month old girl, and have been married to her father for 2 years this December. since we got married my husband has been lying to me...

Read this email message and tell me what you think!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...

Would you believe a married man who......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...

She had sex with her ex, so I went out and had sex with another girl. Is this relationship doomed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - hi my girlfriend and i are together for like a year. we jumped straight into relationship literally the day after she finished with her ex of 3 years. a few days ago i found out she had sex with him again a couple of weeks ago. in anger i we...

Pregnant with 1st child, Boyfriend distant...I'm so lonley.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I am 15 weeks pregnant with my first child, my boyfriend and I got pregnant maybe a month or two after we first got together and so much has changed. At first he was so sweet and when I told him I might be pregnant he was so excited and happy to ...

Can I get him back? Or is it too late?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I'm 25 years old and at my ropes end. I got out of a really serious relationship about 2 years ago. I gave it my all and when it ended I was devastated. I felt I couldn't get emotionally attached to anyone for a very long time. I dated randomly but ...

Am I being too needy or is my boyfriend slacking on his part?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - To make a long story short... I met my boyfriend almost four years ago. We dated, life got in the way, broke it off, remained best friends the next two years, he was there through it all- good, bad, you name it. We recently got back together. We ...

Have I lost him forever by cutting him off like this?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my best friend of three years/boyfriend of one year over the summer. It was hard at first but our close friendship seemed to pull through, and soon we were able to talk fairly normally again, even after I agreed to give a mutual ...

I am struggling to keep up with my boyfriend's sexual appetite!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I really need help with this problem so any advice would be greatly appreciated:) So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and in the beginning we had XXX almost 3-4 times a day! He is very sexually active and so was I. Now that our...

How can I encourage my boyfriend to drive to see me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months, and we both live an hour away from each other. In the 3 months that we have known each other, I have always driven to see him weekly (sometimes twice a week), and he's only driven down to see me ...

I am concerned my friend needs help, but won't let me help her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

5 November 2009 (?) - I am having friend problems. My family and I moved away and I’m now 30 minutes away from my friends. My friend “Abby” started hanging out with her co-workers and likes this guy at her work- this guy is a total player (he asked out every girl at the ...

Am I selfish for wanting to go abroad, or is he selfish for wanting me to stay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I don't know who is right in this situation !.Me and this guy i used to be with have been together on and off for a few years. We haven't become very serious, such as moving in together, having kids, or doing many sexual things.He has said in the ...

Should I apologize to her on the phone for trying to apologize in a letter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Thanks for all help in advance. I finally managed to apologize to the girl I've been going after, albeit through a letter delivered by someone else. It said something along the lines of "Sorry for being a coward and a fool by having others give ...

I don't want to be just friends! It's too hard to pretend nothing happened!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Ok this is my situation. My ex and i broke up in early june. Im a junior in high school so it so it was summer vacation. She went to school where i went but she lived two hours away so i knew i wouldnt see her the rest of the summer and that was ...

How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?.... I am a 27 year old international student from Norway currently studying and living in Australia. I have been seeing my girlfriend, who i...