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Archived questions from: 10 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I Allow My Boyfriend to Swing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a wonderful relationship with my bf for 16 yrs. People remark how close we are, how loving we are to each other. We do everything together including our work. We have a great sex life and family life. He's always there for me and ...

I am love sick for this man. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I am 38 years old and from the minute I met this man who is 55 I felt a connection. My friend introduced me to him when we went to see him play. He plays Irish music which I didn't even like when I met him so I know it is not a crazed fan kind of ...

He is complicated...drinks a lot and ignores me for days! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Since the beggining he messed up. Stood me up, would make plans and ended up getting drunk, getting drunk all time,even once when we argued and i left,he spent the night with hes ex (but this happened in the first week we met, not a relationship ...

My boyfriend slept with a girl when we'd just started dating. Is this an issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - my bofriend and i have been dating for a little over 8 months now and i recently found out 3 days after he asked me out on a date he slept with another girl should i confront him about it or leave it alone since me and him are living together now ...

How should I feel about my workaholic boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - It is about 3 month i found him . Infact he wanted to be with me .He hasnt said to me what kind of relation he wants yet . I told him to think about it for a week, to know what he wants. I am not sure he loves me .Also he's crazy busy working and ...

My husband and I are on different ends of the spectrum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my hubby for 17 years (married ten years and have children. In the last 6 months things have just got worse. I admit that I no longer want to be intimate with my hubby and he has got more annoyed saying I need to see a sex therap...

Should I believe and trust my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I am 41 my boyfriend of 8 months is 27. I am married (partially seperated). I recently got an apartment with for my boyfriend and I. We seemed to be getting along great, then his friends started coming around. I noticed a change in him. One ...

Things went well...until she blocked me on Facebook! Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - Morning all, I'm in a dilemma and I think I did something to blow a potentially good thing. I have been talking with a girl for the last month or so, and everything was going so well -- chatting, chemistry and what not talking on the phone, plus ...

He's going on another 'lad's holiday' next July and I am against it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - hello, im a 19 year old girl, been with my boyfriend for about 4 months, we have a good relationship, however he has a big ego he does love himself to bits, he has an extremly good job for his age of 19 and is a good looking guy, however he told me ...

She messages me all day while I am trying to get my work done..how do I tell her nicely, to cool it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - My GF and I live together and spend each evening together, which is great. However, she has a boring office job and texts me and IMs me all day long, five or six times an hour. I work at home on my computer as a freelancer and HAVE to get work ...

Should I confess to having read his emails?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been together for 4 and a half years, 2 months ago my bf dumped me, and went away on holiday alone, but we got back together again. 3 weeks ago though he was on a study trip to barcelona, and i read his emails when he was ...

My husband is on a number of dating and sex sites, what are the chances that he has cheated or will do in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hi cupid, I have been married for 7 years and have always been honest and faithful to my husband. My husband is extremely possessive and controlling, he does not even let me wear any thing that I look sexy in when we go out. He gets angry if any m...

Will my boyfriend's family ever accept me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My bf's parents don't like me and have made no effort to welcome or include me in their family. The thing is, I think it has more to do with his parents than it does with me. I get the feeling that it doesnt matter who my bf dates, no one would ever ...

He cheated on me all through our seven years! And he doesn't feel guilty! What the?!?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hi Aunts/Uncles. I discovered my long term partner had been cheating on me all through our relationship (7years). I turned to all of you for advice. Which you gave me and I greatfully took. The problem now is, he says he didn't feel guilty wh...

I am thinking of rekindling my romance with my ex, how do I tell my family who hate him and end my current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Right the brief version if this, met guy 19, fall for each other, then he got married, had affair, I broke it off, now I am with someone else, so is he, but his left the girl, wants to be with me, I want him as well, as never loved the guy I ...

I still see something beautiful in our relationship but he just is not committed to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - He is the One.I knew it right when I met him the first time. He was trying to forget his first real important Love that HE decided to end because bored and unsatisfied (too young to just stay settled with just one girl). He wanted to move o...

Should I ask him if he wants to get back or wait for him to speak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Just to repost this for more replies from our aunts: My boyfriend of 1 year and I broke up 6 months ago. For 4 months, we remained in contact though he expressed twice that he wished for me to stop contacting him. On the 5th month apart, hav...

Smitten after 2 weeks of dating, how do I stop my insecurities from ruining this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have met a guy I'm totally smitten with after only being together for two weeks. I think he's about to dump me due to my own stupid insecurities and related behavior (constantly seeking reassurance and doubting his motives for being with me). I ...

Is my boyfriend breaking up with me for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. We met in high school, and now we're both in college. We've had trust issues because we both have made mistakes in the past. However, our love for each other is so strong that we are inseparable. He's ...

Age difference has become a problem - after 5 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 17 years my senior. For most of our relationship, this was never a problem, but lately it has started to really bother me. It has nothing to do with our different interests or anything like that, and he certainly doesn't act his ...

Six months and no I love you

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I know that every relationship moves at a different pace and you can't put a time limit on love. But I think it is typical of most relationships that after six months you know someone well enough to know whether you love them or not? It's not ...

Disagreement with girlfriend. Is now a good time to send flowers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - I'd been going out with a girl for a little while but we ran into a rough patch. We're both in our mid-30's. We both have said we care for each other and hope to work it out. She was just about to go on vacation for a couple of weeks and we ...

My boyfriends love of butts makes me insecure!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have a petite butt, small and a bit flat comparing to most women. My boyfriend said he loves my butt and he can't seem to keep his hands off of it. I'm just wondering why he seems to love my butt when my butt is smaller and not as nice as most ...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me !!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Im 17 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me at all. I tried talking to him so he can tell me what are his concerns or fears and come up with a solution. But when i asked his answer was " i dont know" and walked away. th...

Why is my ex-best friend trying to provoke me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My ex best friend is doing stuff to make me mad or hurt me/ make me jealous on purpose. She stares and walks my way on purpose, tries to make me jealous by talkin to my friends or other people etc.. Why is she doing that and what should I do?...

I cheated so why isn't my wife angry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - I had an affair. She ended it. I was no longer in love with my wife. The situation wasn't fair to either of us, so I told her everything and that I was ready to leave (she'd had her suspicions). She broke down and couldn't really function, so I ...

My bossy boss!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have a boss that is very emotionally abusive towards me. I can never do anything right it seems no matter what. I have talked to her only once about it but it still occurs. I do my absolute best to please her but its not enough. The worst is she ...

My bf's mother said I was good for nothing..that I ruined her son's life.!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - well im 18 years old and i have a huge problem, me and my boyfriend, have been together ever since we were 14 and we moved in together about a year ago. Our relationship with eachother is sometimes great but we have our ups and downs like some ...