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Archived questions from: 15 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I wasting my time in this relationship, will I ever be what he wants or does this not exsist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - hi, where do i start? i am currently in a relationship that is not going too well in the bedroom department. We have been together for just over 3 years now, not a great 3 years if im honest, i think this all comes down to him, at first our sex life ...

Help me leave for good my cheating husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - please help me... I have been married to a man I love very much for 8 years this is my second marriage, I left my first husband because he used to hit me, the day I walked out on him was easy because in the end I hated him....but I don't hate my 2nd ...

I don't want to come across as desperate so don't want to ring or text him but I would like to see him again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy. We talk but things aint going the way I wish it could.. he doesnt ring much..(sometimes every day other times he goes for days without calling) he wanted to see me last week and I told him due to college and all that stress I can ...

My boyfriend doesn't have time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Hi guys :) Feeling pretty low right now and would appreciate any advice :) I've been with my boyfriend a few months now and I met him last night so that I could meet some of his friends and people he works with. I had a bit of an argument with ...

He doesn't respect me. Should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I am in desperate need of opinions! What should I do with my boyfriend? I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for almost 3 months. On one hand, he is a really sweet guy who calls me in the middle of the day to say he's thinking of...

Should I accept?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Hi this is the first time i am writing here. Well, i am in relationship many years. It seems serious. We had said, when i finish my studies to get engaged. But after the years i rethink again and again if this man is my best choice. A)He is from ...

How can I help him with this depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (?) - Hi im 18 and I need some advice as to how i can help my boyfriend. For the last 2 weeks my boyfriend has changed. i think he is experiencing depression - i come to this conclusion as i have depression myself and i have been learning about it in my ...

My boyfriend is neglecting me and I don't kow what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now but the problem is im not happy. he never has time to spend with me because he always has other things to do like going to play football with his friends, studying or working. i dont want to s...

He keeps hurting my feelings

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Hi. At close to the beginning of this relationship, I set some boundaries with this guy, and one of them was not to call me or even joke about me being a bitch, because I'm not. This guy was my first. We got married and he still keeps joking o...

He says he wants me, but then acts weird

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I am confused. I am getting very mixed signals from someone I have known for a while but only a few weeks ago started sleeping with. It started with flirting, a kiss, a drive and then sex, more texting and ending up spending an amazing night in a ...

My violent boyfriend accuses me of cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - We've been together two years... Tonight, I did not orgasm like he likes me to – it apparently wasn’t strong enough so he told me that I didn’t orgasm nicely – I told him that he was wrong. He wanted to know why I didn’t come nicely – again, ...

Once upon a time...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - i have been married for 26 years have 3 grown children. My husband has always been a little flirter I think everyone does a little. We don't do anything together and are not really getting along very well any more, never talk, all that stuff. I ...

I'm 28, he's 43. He wants to have kids now, I don't. Any ideas to work it out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I'm 28, been married for 3 years, total of 5 years in this relationship. My partner is 43 and wants to start a family, have kids. I want to have kids with him, but I don’t feel ready to do it right now. I understand that cause of his age and all, ...

A serious mishap...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is really starting to detach herself from me and it is really starting to bother me. i was wondering, since weve been together for two months now, ive been realizing that she has almost broken up with me twice and i really love her ive ...

My fiancee is extremely needy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, This is my first time using the site and I really need some relationship advice. My Fiancee, (I have known her for 6 years) and I have a problem The problem is, I'm a lot smarter than her. Normally, in the relationship thi...

Is he wanting to end things and doesn't want to tell me to my face?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (?) - I desprately need your advice. I am engaged to the guy of my dreams but I'm seventeen. we have been together for a while now, eleven months and our love is deep. just recently his mom grounded him and he emailed me on the 16th of last month saying ...

Should I believe him, knowing he likes to lie a lot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I just need some advice on this, me and my boyfriend been together for 2 yrs and we always had trust issues, he lives with his mom and sister and his sister has a lot of female friends who go to the house, now she has a friend who she just met and ...

My boyfriend doesn't do anything for himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, I am now 21. He doesn't do anything for himself or me. He had a crazy past, being homeless etc. What should I do? Should I stick by him or leave? I'm really confused. I haven't been with anyone else....

How to deal with a difficult acquaintance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Being a fairly non-confrontational person, I would normally just be civil when I bump into this person (lets call him Jerkosaurus), but not go out of my way to talk to him when he has made it clear he do not like or respect me. However, he happens ...