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Archived questions from: 6 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Me and my best friend...I just wanna know why...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so my best friend and I haven’t been friends for about 6 months because I was a bad friend and she chose her boyfriend over me and everyone else. He told her not to be friends with me anymore and she listened to him. She would have never ever ...

How to make this situation better, how to explain where he understands?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have an ongoing problem and I can't deal with it at all! I was going out with a guy for a year: and he was great and I was happy with him. One weekend things took a different turn - all of a sudden I started feeling bad about him. Loss of attra...

I told her how I feel and she pushed me away. Now what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - I love her so much but we're just friends. Now that I've told her how i feel she has pushed away what do I do? ...

Biological clock in overdrive - please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I'm a 30 year old woman in a committed 3 year relationship. I have lived with my partner for over 2 years now, and moved abroad to live with him. For the past year I have been struggling with increasing desire to have a child. Please understand that ...

Help me from the torture of my Psycho ex...Is there a womens organization or something that can help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - hi, i am 26yrs old female From INDIA, Andhra pradesh. i have this serious problem with my X-boyfrnd we broke up 5yrs ago but he just dosent seem to accpt it and keeps interfiering in my personal life, keeps threathning me to killing me.he t...

She has broken contact with me...how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - (Mod note: Name has been hidden to protect privacy) so theres this girl. wwe have like eachother since the 7th grade. i love her. we got intamate twice. and then we had sex. all this was happening wile she was with other people. i have had sex ...

Help me please...I don't want to break his heart but I am not ready to settle down. I want to experience life! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 months now and when I got with him I thought I really liked him. He allways liked me before we got together anyways, and hes such a nice guy who has allot of respect and allot of asperations in life. So I ...

I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...

Again I made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Again i made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker....and again i didnt enjoy it and felt sad and upset.... I t really gets me down.. however this time was different .... I again didnt enjoy it but this time she asked me ..... " You seem ...

Does this mean she's not in love with me like I thought she was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - I've been in love with my best friend ever since i met her 3 years ago. She was in a relationship, i'm not the relationship type, things were really complicated because of many things and i never confessed how i felt about her. I'm pretty s...

We both have commitment issues, but is it still worth the risk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - So, I started fooling with this boy and things got serious. I've always had commitment issues. So has he. His stems from cheating and mine from a fear of intimacy in any form. Even though feelings developed on my part; it was never mentioned and I ...

Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (?) - I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...

My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...

Why can't she see that her actions and lack of consideration are a huge cause of our problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - My gf did not come home last night. We live together. I called and left a message when I arrived home form work and then I waited until 10pm before trying to call her again. She would not answer my calls or return my texts. I texted her to ask her ...

She had a month long fling with her ex, should I take her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - i broke up with my gf after one year but hours later i was texting her and calling her telling her i was sorry and it was a stupid mistake. 12 hours later shes texting her ex bf and after 10 days of us being broken up, she is already having sex ...

I am thinking bad things about him, what do I do to erase it from my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i love this guy very much that every time i think of him i cry.. he has told me that am madam boss but i find it hard to believe. he also told me that he loves me and that if i do not know i should know its true he loves me.. the thing is am scared ...

Can anyone help me, or give me any advice on changing the way I perceive sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have always had a problem with sex, it was something I'd quite happily let guys do, but it was something I let happen to me (hoping there was a hug and the end), rather than something I felt part of. I got together with a guy 8 years ago. We'd bee...

The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the...

Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...

He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A ...

How do I stop putting people on pedestals and have more realistic expectations?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 November 2009 (?) - I often put people up on pedestals and have expectations about how they should behave. Then when they don't live up to my expectations, I'm disappointed. I know it's their life and we're all human, make mistakes, etc. But how can I stop doing this? ...

Has my bi-polar boyfriend left me for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Is it worth waiting for for is it over? my bf of 2 years has broken up with me. i love him to bits and i KNOW that he loves me more than anything too but he says he needs a break and thinks it's for the best. he's been under alot of stress; famil...

Why am I losing my sexual attraction for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. Things have been good between us. I think we have a pretty good relationship. There is only one problem. Lately I do not feel sexually attracted to him. I am usually a very sexual person ...