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Archived questions from: 21 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Love triangle, my boyfriend, me and his sister?!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I've been there for him through a lot of family problems. He lives at home with just his sister (with no parents) and he's 19 years old. I just feel like his sister takes full advantage of him...

Why is she doing this now after being so cold towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - I was very close to my friend and still have feelings for her. We had had a short romance earlier in the year that sort of turned to friendship. A few months ago, I told her I still had feelings for her and she let me down softly. She said she ...

He asked me why I was so quiet and I told him... did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend sent me a message two days ago asking why i had been so quiet with him recently and he knows i find it difficult to express my feelings face to face so he said to tell him in a message. So i did. I told him that i feel like i cant...

Do you think that telling him what he did wrong will make a difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Do you think that telling him what he did wrong will make a difference? Don't want to bother with details, but a few weeks ago my bf tried to break up with me for things that I had been doing that hurt him. I didn't know that these things bot...

Dating again but fear looking inexperienced and self-concious to the new guy! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys...I could really use some help please. I was with my ex for 4 years, and we broke up 2 years ago. It was generally a very happy match and I was pretty gutted when it ended. While I've dated a few other guys since we broke up, I've only ev...

He forgets to text me and he forgets our dates! Is he seeing someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - i've been texing and meeting this boy for about 4-5 months, last week he told me he liked me but didnt want a relationship yet... all of a sudden since that he's been 'forgetting' to text me or ring me and tonight he even forgot we were supposed to ...

I'm jealous as my cousin gets to go out more than I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - I don't get out much often and I get jealous when other people do. My cousins they go places all the time and I get a jealous feeling towards them. My cousin tries to make me jealous because she gets all in my face saying imma have fun and what all ...

How can I improve my sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Me and Boyfriend have a strange sex life. we have sex but im not sure if its enough or too much sex. he likes the whole bondage thing with rope... don't mind it at all. hes also in to sexy clothes and stuff. but my question is i want sex more than ...

Anything can start a fight with us now. How do I sort this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Alright, my girlfriend and I have been dating for around four years now. Things have been pretty awesome until recently. It seems that lately everything, from going grocery shopping to our puppy can start a fight. She always accuses me of ...

How do I proceed to go out with this guy... and how is my ex going to take it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I was just hoping some people would have some advice for me on a subject. So I had the FINAL/6th breakup with my bf about 2 weeks ago. 6 breakups in 6 months because he was so immature, a liar and a control freak. I have been emotiona...

My girlfriend has gone off sex and I don't know why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Well I've been with my girlfriend just over a year and our our sex life was very good excellent to say the least, I am 36 and my girlfriend is 49 and i love her so dearly but recently she has gone off sex and has lost all interest in making love as ...

My boyfriend has double standards!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - My bf, 25 years old seems to have double standards. It is ok for him to flirt with other girls and lead them on, yet its not ok for another guy to even just say "hello" to me. Why does he do this? I dont want to flirt with other guys, but I feel...

How do you tell the one you love you love someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - How do you tell the one you love you love someone else? I have been with my boyfriend a year now and I'm very happy. I started talkling with his best friend and I'm starting to have really deep feelings for him and I don't know what to do... I'...

How do I convince him it wasn't me who text him?

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21 November 2009 (F) - Ok everyone, I need help in trying to convince this guy that I wasn't texting him from another number trying 2 be someone else, It happened to2 be my ex bf doing this, I had only met this guy 3 times and was beginging 2 really like him. The last thi...

How do I approach the topic of LOVE with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - How do I approach the topic of 'love' with my bf? He hasnt said "I love you" and neither have I to him. We have been together about 8 months now and I think I do love him and want to say it to him but I am so afraid he wont feel the same way...

Will he ever give compliments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I'm wanting to know why my husband doesnt tell me that I'm beautiful or give me any compliments for that matter? We have been together 5 years, married for 3 years and he still to this day doesnt make me feel like im special. I know he loves me, ...

Why does my boyfriend still want to talk with my ex knowing it bothers me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - My bf talks to my ex knowing it bothers me. I don't know why he's keeping in touch with him after trying to steal me away from him. My main problem is that I feel like garbage. Because my bf basically tries to give me away. Like if I was an object ...

I am so emotional and upset with every click of the mouse when he looks at other girls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - My bf looks at other girls in front of me and that makes me very sad and uncomfortable. He also browses for naked girls on the net... and constantly buys porn magazines and videos. It really bothers me! I have told him about it but it just seems ...

My friend is engaging in prostitution..should I tell someone so he will stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid This is really more a friendship question more than anything. One of my really close friends has recently been alluding to the possibility that he is prostituting himself to other men. (He is openly gay.)He makes jokes about it, and ha...

If I take my ex to court..can I get sole custody of my daughter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - my ex and i have been divorced for about 4years. our daughter is now 9. we have split custody but he hardly ever comes to see her, call her and hasnt got her annything for her bday xmas. Or helped with any of her school, personal expences, doctors, ...

My friend has gotten cynical and bitter! What can I do to help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - My best friend has been acting very weird lately. She has just gotten back from being overseas through volunteer work and she seems very moody. She'll have these random outbursts. For example, tonight I was downloading something on her computer and ...

When my boyfriend is away I get used to feeling 'single'. Does this mean I don't love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend and I have been together 11 months and 2 weeks. We have a sort of long distance relationship, but when he comes home he lives next door to me. But, ever since our relationship started after awhile i get over him being aw...

I work two jobs to pay for everything while my boyfriend has no time for me!

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21 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has changed so much since ive had 2 jobs. He is always busy and now seems so into himself. I had to get the 2nd job to pay for things. He is always busy if i have a night off, has already made plans and doesnt invite me. We live ...

Lately I've been paranoid about my long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Lately, I've been really worried about my boyfriend. I feel like I have an unfounded fear... a couple of weeks ago I tried to break up with him and after I started talking to him I realized that he really does love me when previously I had been ...

My mate lied to me and it cost me my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Hi, when i was 22 i bumped in to my old school friends and became good mates again like we were back at school, 2 years later i was still single and my mate jess promised me to set me up with her mate and she said her mate claire is interested in me ...

How can I learn to take a step back and 'chill' before I ruin it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've been single for 2 years.. I had 3 long term relationships and all have cheated on me. This has left me so insecure and when i meet someone i tend to be quite 'clingy'. I fall for that person quite easily, like i crave to be loved..:-(. I'm 35...