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Archived questions from: 18 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He only wants sex and attention when it suits him. I am also feeling unappreciated, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My fiancé and I have been together for five years now. I just had our baby a few months ago. Lately I don't feel appreciated. The only time he ever shows me any love or attention is when he wants to have sex or touch me. When I'm exhausted from ...

Should I just let it go or do something about it?

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18 November 2009 (F) - There's this rumour going arounnd school and everybody has finally left me alone about this but one kidd. Every time I see he him he starts making fun of me for it. My friends said I shouldn't take shit from people like him. Should I just let it ...

Why was his underwear all sticky?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My partner of 4 years and I have a kid. My partner is 31 and i'm 28 and i'm ok looking not to me but he thinks i'm ok so anyway i wanted to have sex a few days ago he didn't. Now when i was doing his load of clothing i found his underwear sticky ...

Please give me tips on how to not beg my boyfriend to take me back!

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18 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: Four different posts from the same person have been combined into one.] Iv been in an on/off relationship for 2 years. I recently came to realise that he basically loved the control he had over me. He has no respect, puts me down...

Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...

My boyfriend puts alcohol before me and his children!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months is a raging alcoholic and I dont know what to do. I did not know that it was this bad until recently. He is always putting his friends and his drinking before me. The other night he called me and said that he was on his wa...

I need a friend to talk to, but my friend always steers the conversations back to her problems!

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18 November 2009 (F) - I have this friend who i've known now for nearly 7 years and shes one of my closest friends, shes 3 kids 2 of which are my godsons and i do love her to pieces however i am at the end of my tether. She is forever ringing me and texting me telli...

Why do women sleep with married men?

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18 November 2009 (?) - Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

I love my boyfriend, but I am tired of staying home all the time!

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18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. When we first started dating we went out often. As the years passed, we found ourselves staying home more often. Recently, I have wanted to go out, so when the situation presents itself, ...

Problems in the family...

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18 November 2009 (M) - I am turning 22 this January. I have a problem with my dad. He has a mistress. My mother is always upset with him. My father left our house and went to live with this new mistress. I am really bothered, because I don't want my family to come to ...

I was MIA for 6 weeks, but she broke up with me for an older rich man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl for over a year. The status of our relationship has varied from lovers,to close friends, to 'just friends' to 'seeing each other.'. Around 6 months ago we broke off our relationship to become just friends. After ...

I'm sick of living like this, I just don't know what to do anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long term relationship for 5 and a half years and I think it's over. We're more friends than a proper couple. We don't do anything together, we don't go anywhere, he doesn't speak to me when we get home from work - he's too busy on ...

How should I act around her when we hang out? I want her to want me back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago, but we still talked a lot and hung out and she still tells me she loves me. We broke up because we were fighting a lot (which was usually because of me being a ass) but since we have broke up I have ...

He can masturbate without a problem but when it comes to sex he cant keep it up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - This coming Friday is mine and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary. I've been living with him for a while now and I love him so much. He means everything to me and we can talk and be together all the time and never get the slightest bit tired of each ...

Am I more committed to our relationship than he is?

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18 November 2009 (F) - this is an update and question in one. i wrote once how my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years and i only see him once during the week and on the weekends. he doesn't feel the need to see me more. i got brave and asked him to ...

Am I wasting my time with him? Why would he cut off contact all of a sudden?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I met a guy a few weeks ago and had a lovely first date. We stayed up until the early hours just talking and laughing and kissing. He walked me home and gave me a kiss goodbye. Since then, our communication has slowed. He has stopped texting first ...

Is it a good idea to quit my job and let him support me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i been dating for 3 years. we been through so many break-ups. he is a very jealous person. he can be controlling also. he is a great person when he wants to be. there's one problem though. i met him at my place of employment. im a ...

Should I give him time before I walk away?

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18 November 2009 (F) - My ex and i might get back..i contacted him in late august..he said he can't just jump back into things and that we would exchange calls and then meet and see what happens. Sometimes it would take him a few nights to get back to me and i kept le...

Am I crazy for thinking my boyfriend might be gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for ten months now, but i have known him for a long time... we both love eachother, he tells me alot that he loves me, treats me so good. this is gonna sound a bit crazy but i keep thinking my boyfriend is gay or ...

I love her dearly but really don't know if the feeling is mutual anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I am a 47 year old male, my partner is 32 we have been together for about 12 years now and have a lovely six year old daughter. I tell her i love her everyday,she only says this if i have said it first. if i go to cuddle her its as though i am in he...

To others it seems like there is not a lot to lose, but to me its the world!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a major problem i've been in love with this guy for the best part of a year and a half. We were friends and were in the same class, i really thought he liked me, he used to get really nervous around me, like sometimes he couldnt talk to ...

What songs should I listen to after finding out he doesn't like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - To cut a long story short I have recently found out that the person I like, likes someone else, and to be honest... I'm gutted. But rather than moping around any longer [I like him A LOT] I want to move on. I need some songs that I can listen to ...

Am I wrong to be unhappy with my girlfriend performing Burlesque shows?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - hi recenty my girlfriend started doing burlesque shows. i think it's just a way for her to get on stage and strip to her under wear and talk dirty with a room full of strangers. is it wrong that i don't like it, i haven't told her out right ca...

I want to stop cheating but my boyfriend doesn't satisfy me sexually!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (?) - hi evry one i have a serious problem,my boyfriend have got sex problem first i thought may it was me then i cheated with another guy but dat guy was fine.i love him and i want to stop cheating but my problem is he don't satsfy me,i have tried ...

My husband just never wants to sort things out!! He expects me to be fine.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I need some advice here. I've been married for just over 2 years now. My husband is a wonderful man who's totally commited, faithful, caring and hard working. But...if we have an arguement, he doesn't like to talk about it afterwards. Now I'm a...

How should I explain how much this bothers me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Okay my husband of 2 weeks is in nursing school. He started last May. Now before this I never looked at his phone he never took care in keeping it on him. He never really got texts unless I sent them. Things were smooth sailing. So about 3 weeks ago ...

I suspect my girlfriend is having cybersex behind my back, am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - It's a long story, I've been with my girlfriend for the last 6 months, we have an internet relationship and we have met up about 10 times (we live an hour away from each other). We love each other to bits but I suspect her of having cybersex...

Do I give my husband another chance or give it a go with mr perfect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Where to begin. Me and my husband have been married 8 years. But the last year and a half lived apart it started out just for work but progressed to a real seperation. Our marraige has been rocky for most of its duration. We have argued for yrs and ...

Why did he break up with me? And why is he talking trash about me at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy who is 1 1/2 years younger than me. When we first became boyfriend and girlfriend his mom told me 1 month into the relationship he had gotten in trouble for drugs prior to us dating but that he had stopped. He told me he ...

Insecure & Losing My Mind...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Please help me... I'm really suffering. I have done countless Google searches, read through hundreds of forums and advice columns, and sought the help of family, friends, and even my significant other, but nothing will silence my thoughts and ...

When is this man going to feel like having sex with me? I'm considering an affair just to get some action!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - im tired an sick of my sexless relationship! I have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 years now. we have a 15 month old baby together. we r not married yet (dont ask) He is been working a lot lately, and I do understand that, but I do too, as ...

Is he too dominant in bed?

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18 November 2009 (F) - i think maybe my bf is to controling in bed. wen we have sex he is always moving my body into positions and he dont ask me if stuff is okay. sometimes he pushs my head to his penis and then holds it there and then he thrusts. sometimes this hurts ...

I don't know how to handle her and her lies anymore!

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18 November 2009 (?) - First of all, trust is very important to me in a friendship. A friend of mine, who is in her mid 20's, is a HUGE liar!! She tries to avoid conflict or make herself look better, but she still lies. For example, the things she lies about include: at ...

Am I wrong for thinking we had something going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Im really confused about this guy.He says he is scared of a relationship and doesnt want one,but to me I think a relationship is pretty close to what we have already been doing,except without the title! Let me explain some of the details with my ...

My girlfriend lives in a defense mechanism and won't let me inside.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I've been in a somewhat new relationship. We've been talking for months and months, but only a few back actually made things officially exclusive. Anyway, my girlfriend has a tendency to keep to herself about things that bother her. She remains ...

I have a great relationship with my boyfriend... but there's something missing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have a sweet, loving boyfriend who worships me. He is trying to improve his life, it took a while, but in an effort to not lose me he started community college six months ago,is maintaining a steady job although it doesn't pay much, and has ...

He wants me to change everything about myself!!!

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18 November 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a baby together but I'm not sure if he still loves me or not?? He tells me that i need to change and dont know what i need to change?? When i ask him he tells me "everyth...

Confused about what's going on with my relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I've known this girl for years and she's my best friend n all. She recently wanted to give us a try n 2 months into it I'm just not sure about my feelings! One minute I'm like yes I want to be with her, then the next minute I dont. Small things ...

Does my boyfriend not care any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and we've gone through some tough and good times. Like at first he was the one that was all over me, telling me how much he liked me and so on. And I was always the 'mean' one if you will. But then he kinda ...

Overly jealous fiance???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Why does my fiance keep wanting to know about my past. He wants to know was he the first to finger me, had I ever had sex before and such. I don't understand how my past has any effect on me and him. He refuses to accept that he is my first and he ...

My girlfriend's mum is a pain in the bum!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - ok i recently posted about my gf and her mum well her mum has used her brains to get her daughter to think she was ok so she could text me. The following thing: I am warning you... dont ever contact my daughter again... she is 19 and does not ...

They wont let us see each any more!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Okay so, I've been in my relationship for 1 year and 2 months so far. We've gone through a lot and overcome it all. The fact we didnt see each other after we met for 5 months, was because we had to get each other's parents to like us, and the fact ...

Am I being too sensitive? Has she lost interest in me?

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18 November 2009 (M) - I'll start off by saying that I am a sensitive guy. I get my feelings hurt fairly easy (though I rarely show it.) My girlfriend and I have been together for two years. We were friends throughout high school, and we each had a crush on one another ...