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Archived questions from: 2 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I just a fool in love? Why is my wife ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - Im starting to wonder if my wife is still in love with me or not. I constantly feel like she is disrespecting me and is simply with me for convienience. Out latest argument was on Halloween when at the bar with her and friends, I would order a dr...

I want my girlfriend to try new things to spice things up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - My wife doesn't like: anal sex (tried once too painful), deep throating, facials or cum swallowing (the last three only on rare occasions, very rare. I don't need her to compromise and do them all, all the time, but wouldn't it be fair for her ...

We only have sex according to a schedule. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - I'm 37 and been married for 9 years. My wife and I went through a rough spot. During that time, she stopped having sex with me. I was hurt. Part of the outcome of marriage counselling was the agreement that we would have a schedule. Wednesdays, ...

Is once a cheater always a cheater?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

2 November 2009 (?) - When my boyfriend and I first got together, I asked if he'd ever cheated on a girlfriend. He said yes, once. He said he was young and stupid. I didn't ask further about it until recently. I was curious about specifics, and he told me that he ...

He thinks I'm boring...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - ok there is guy that i think i like we have a lot of weird chemistry he calls me a "plain pizza" behind my back and even sometimes to my face implementing that im boring i guess or if anyone has any other ideas what that means?? should i still like ...

Just can't figure him out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I just can't figure him out..... I am so confused!!!! I am in love with a very dear friend. There are times where I am SURE he feels the same way about me....then there are times I am sure he has no romantic interest in me whatsoever. We have known ...

Communication issues...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now. For the past few weeks, I've felt that there has been an unspoken emotional and physical distance between us. Both of us have been busy lately, and haven't had that much time, which I ...

Is this a stupid crush or should I question my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I recently moved in with my boyfriend after being with him for just over 3 years and just before we moved in together, I started to get feelings for a coworker. We got on so well and we always flirted. Ever since I left the company (to move in with ...

She left me drunk and defenceless on the pavement!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was broken into paragraphs to make it easier to read. No other changes have been made.] I am questioning my partners love for me. I don't think she loves me with the way she responds to me and also in her actions agai...

I am want to cry, but he thinks it’s silly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - If something is bothering you to the point you feel so hurt and you want to cry but yet, in his eyes, it is so silly, and nothing to worry about. Is it worth getting frustrated over it and confront your significant other and make sure you do not ...

Is this emotional black-mail? Is he too possessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: Location specifics have been removed. Otherwise the post remains true.] I know this i quite long but I really need your help and I don't know who else to ask! My boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and they have...

My girlfriend has rejected me sexually for over 18 months...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - For well over a year my gf has been cold towards me. Some of this I explained in my earlier question - not allowing me to say I love you or express my feelings to her etc. Also she as rejected me sexually for nearly 18 months. At the start she used ...

I'm pretty much in uncharted waters with no paddle...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - dear cupid, I work for a hardware store. while I was with my ex and a girl my age was hired. at first we where just friends. I found out she has a boyfriend. I treated her like a friend, basic bullshiting. we became close friends. her boyfriend also ...

Misbehaviour with sister-in-law...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - I am 20 yr old. I used to have fantasies for my sister in law who was elder. I started touching her whenever i got chance. But one day she asked me why i was touching her special parts. I understood that i was caught. I became pale. Then she was ...

He says he loves me but is chatting to girls online!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - ive been in this relationship for two years now-one of which my boifriend was in the states. he'd tell me he loved me and everything, but after he came back we continued on like he never left. after a while i got ahold of him email addresses and ...

I'm in a relationship that I feel is not good for me.. I'm stressed and have lost my friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - hello i have been in a relationship for 5 year's and i know it's not good for me am stressed most of the time ,i lost all my friend's because of him,when i talk on the phone he makes me stress ,so i don't talk on phone now.am 41 he 48 and he control ...

We've had a baby together and now he's lost all interest in me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Well...me and my boyfriend have been together about a year and a half. I just had a baby with him about three weeks ago and it seems like he's lost all affection towards me. This was my first baby but he has a baby from a previous girl so that puts ...

Should I tell him about my past with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I have been "talking" to a scorpio guy I like for a couple months now, but we aren't together in any way. We have hung out 3 times away from work, and we both have feelings for each other. Before me and him met, I had a sexual relationship with a ...

My friend is driving me crazy! Help!

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2 November 2009 (?) - At first, my friend of 10 years needed help. I gave it to her. The more I gave her the more she expected. Soon she was leeching on, and did not want me to give support to anyone else and monopolized the conversation when others asked me questions ...

Why did I have to fall in love for the first time with someone like him, so perfect but so bad at the same time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much and I have put up with a lot from him, and have forgiven him many times, even though he feels what he did was justified. See we have been together for 3 years, and in the beginning everything was absolutely perfect. I ...

I am messed up here...what does this guy want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, I am so confused about a guy i am seeing. We have known each other about 3months and have met up a few times for casual sex. but he says he wants more than this, and is depressed about not being in a relationship. he usually says this by ...

I'm a battered wife and I still love him! I need help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Where do i start? What is the difference between being mentally abused and battered? My husband puts me down all the time. Anything i do is never good enough. He yells and me and calls me names like whore, slut, b****, c***, liar(i NEVER lie to him) ...

I love my family, but I don't like them..why am I this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Is something wrong with me that I love my family but I dont like them? ...

I'm getting tired of my boyfriend's friend! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I'm starting to get really agitated with my boyfriend's friend. Let me begin by saying I'm in an LDR. We are five hours away from each other. I have asked him to come to this trip that's two hours away for me and three hours away for him. He said ...

He is a father figure to this boy..he calls his son. Not sure where I fit in here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to a year. I love him and we've discussed moving in together... The problem in our relationship right now is his "son". Six years ago, he began dating a single mother. Her son was only 3 months old when ...

He wants our life the way it was before his affair!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

2 November 2009 (?) - Okay here it goes, it has been 3 yrs since my husbands affair, I am in a better place emotionally, problem is he is not happy that I am feeling this way, he wants me to be the same in pre-affair times....everything that I cherished when we were so ...

How do I avoid these friends, that I think are bad for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - what do u do when u dont wanna hang out with the group of people you hang out with because your 100 percent sure that they are talking about you..they smoke but i dont. all i do is drink with them never once tried smokin and because they smoke and i ...

He criticizes my weight and I feel very unloved...how do I get him to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I really need advice on my marriage. I have been married 6 years and am at my breaking point. My husband has gotton to the point that I get tense just being around him. He is constantly criticizing me about my weight (I weigh 112 pounds and have ...

Am I shallow because I like men, based on their looks?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I need some advice/opinions/anything on this issue I have. As long as I can remember I’ve been really attracted to blond/blue eyed/boyish looking men (Brad Pitt when he was young, Jensen Ackles, Patrick Wilson type guys). I’ve ‘chased’ a few guys in ...

Embarrassed to see a doctor about possible damage from anal sex! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I had anal sex for the first time, and we did it with out lube i said I would try it but it hurt so much i couldnt take it, but my bf wouldnt stop , now im bleeding and in pain but i'd be to embaressed to go see a doctor about it, could i really be ...