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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help! How do I let him go...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend, "Chris", broke up with me. I honest to God, truly loved Chris. I wanted to be with him forever, but he didn't see it the way I did. I'm heartbroken now, and I don't know what to do. I've told him before how much I liked him, but he ...

I miss my ex so much, but she wont answer my calls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I miss my girlfriend so much. My girl friend and I just broke up after about 3 years. I miss her alot it hurts me not to be around her we have broken up before and we have gotten back togther but this time feels diffrent she usally calls and we ...

I married in haste, and now he has changed for the worse

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I feel kind of weird writing this but I have no one else to talk to and I seriously don't know what else to do. I am 20 years old and just got married Oct. 9th at a courthouse to the guy I was in AIT training all summer with (for the army.) H...

Torn between two lovers, who do I chose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Do you love with the one you're with or wait for the one you love? Man 1: I've been dating a guy for 3 years. I love him more than anyone I've ever known before. Whenever I see him, I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him, even after ...

I can't resist my cousin, is she leading me on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hello everyone,sorry, its a big question. So, i am 20.everyone say um handsome and all that. But i am single all the way,something happens when i am around girls i am interested in and i feel nervous.cant talk,cant flirt etc.ok, so In short my ...

If a woman asks a man for some space is that wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I am a female who is 38 yrs old. I had recently been in a relationship with a 32 yr old man. We have only been together for a little over a month and told him I needed some space but my intension was not to completely break off the relationship, on ...

He stopped all contact with me. Why could he not at least have told me where it all went wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 44 and divorced for 5 years. While on vacation in Florida (I live in New York) I met this guy on the first day there and we spent the rest of my vacation together. It was great, we instantly hit if off, we had so much in common, we talked ...

Boyfriend of 5 years foresees our relationship ending in a year

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 5 years, since he was 19 and I was 20. We've lived together for approximately 3.5 of those years. 6 months ago, when our previous lease was about to expire, he said he wanted to move out on his own. I was shock...

Am I being emotionally used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - One of my best friends is a girl who I have really, really come to like. We spend a lot of time together. Often times I think we spend more time together than her and her boyfriend. And therein lies my problem. I'll admit, it's a common one so ...

How do I overcome this and learn to feel better about myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - like 5 months ago a guy i reallllly like sat their after we came from a party where i got really drunk! he sat in his house with his friends and told them how he thinks im boring.. this still hurts my feelings up till this day. i dont know if ...

Why do boys always mess me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - The other night one of my friends said something that really made me think. He said; 'Oh Jess, why do guys always mess you about? :(' Which made me think, why do they?! All my last relationships have ended badly. And I dont know what im doing ...

My girlfriend won't open up or relinquish some control!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

30 November 2009 (?) - I am in a 10 month relationship with my girlfriend. We have been living together for 4 months now. My problem is that ever since things have been slowly going downhill. She is a control/clean(ing) freak, she never wants to visit with people or do ...

HELP!! I'm headed for a breakdown!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - right, here goes... i don't know what to do with myself. in theory my life is good, i'm at college, got a decent relationship with my mum, got an absolutely amazing guy who would do anything for me and has asked me to marry him. but undernea...

I love him so much but I want to hate him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I love him so much but I want to hate him. What shall i do to oppose my emotions towards him?! please help!...

My boyfriend and brother don't get along... how can I change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and my brother don't get on, I'm not sure why but apparently there were some messages sent between the two of them but neither of them are willing to say what they were about. My brother and I always fight after my boyfriend visits and ...

Am I right to feel distant towards him for the way he treated me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost two years came with me to visit my mother and brothers for Thanksgiving. The first 3 days were great, he was sweet, he did not accuse me of anything or call me bad names. Then on the third night, he needed cash at a...

His family's jealousy is tearing us apart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and very much in love with my 49 year boyfriend of a year. We've had a lot of ups and downs through having so much grief from everyone. He treats me like a princess and the only issue we have with our relationship is other people. Six mo...

What might of happened for her to lose interest that fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - What do i do? I posted a question relating to this issue a few days ago but now i need to konw what i should do now. Heres the situation. Ive liked this girl for a month or two and just recently asked her for her number, which she agr...

My boyfriend has to leave the country to look after his parents in 2 months time, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - dear friends, I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months.we had really good time together and it was just understood that we will be together in long run. But now he suddenly said his parents are old and they need him so he has to l...

I'm a bit ashamed that I cant afford to buy her expensive gifts, should I tell her I don't have much money?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hi,i'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21 well we are dating together already 5 months, i'm 2 year university but shes already 4 year and working. We really like and even love each other. Recently she wrote me several letters that she's completly in love ...

I want to tell this new younger woman what a jerk this guy is but I'm scared of losing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - i've been having an affair with a married man. he is now divorcing his wife and i found out he is seeing a younger woman. i followed him home from work the other night and he ended up going to her place. i want to confront her and tell her what a ...

How do I change my jealous feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - five months ago I ended it with my boyfriend of 7 years. He had a huge problem with drugs and could be aggressive and abusive. My family begged me to leave him and so finally I did. It felt a relief and I really felt I had moved on. That was until I ...

What are the chances that we will be able to resolve this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - My relationship of 4.5 years had developed some problems a few months ago. I think we just got a little too settled and were arguing about some petty things. Then things got much worse, and it turns out that my fiancee had begun talking to an old ...

On and off boyfriends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - okay i have a big problem. I have been in a relationship for six years on and off, i met this guy the summer of 2005, when my boyfrind and i broke up we became good friends and he really liked me, I lost contact with him for like a year and 4 ...

How can I sort this whole phone mess out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi guys, sorry this is drawn out but I don't think it will make any sence otherwise A while ago (febuary) me and my closest friends had a massive falling out(i'd rather not go into that though) none of them would talk to me unless it was to threat...

I feel there is so much still left unsaid between us, where do we go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. My ex and I were together for 6 years, all lovely at first but he was going through a divorce at the time which took a toll on him individually and us as a couple. It didn't help that he can be verbally...

We both have new lives but he wants to resurrect the old

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi im really confused here dont know what to do this guy was my first boyfriend as you know relationships has thier ups-downs.iwas 14 years when we started dating and he was 25yrs ,as i was young lot of things happens between us until we end up ...

My boss forgets I have a life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boss keeps putting on the schedule with out asking me if I can work. HOw can I in a nice way tell her I have a life? I also dont always get my full 8 hours she is always rushing me through my work. I am thinking about working a different job on ...

My husbands wants to reverse his "op"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - the bloke iv been with for the past 8 years was forced into having a vasectomy from his ex of 10 years,it was a case of if he didnt have it done then she told him she would end the relationship,when he did have it done she still ended the the ...

I am angry at rapist's low sentence

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hey people. I just got something that's kind of bothering me so I figured that I would post it on here. I just found out something and I am not entirely sure how to react. I have known my girlfriend for two years and I can honestly say that I have ...

What can I do to keep my relationship alive?

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30 November 2009 (M) - Wow I don't know, me and my girlfriend we been together for two years and we were happy, by july 19 everything has changed, she acts like she don't know me no more every time I'm talking to her she doesn't listen to me. I love her, we have one son ...

What to do about his bad boy behaviour...im having his baby...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend/father of my unborn baby is a big pothead. I get so mad because he constantly smokes around me. He stays drunk Thursday - Monday. He has no job but is in college 2 days a week. When he is by himself he doesn't smoke weed as much as when ...

How can I prove that I'm not cheating and that I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - ive been with my bf for already 9 months and i kinda have been messing you like flirting around but i love my bf so much and he knows that so he just forgets about it well on one of our dates we were at the park havin a great time and a boy texts me ...

Is it too soon to see a lawyer? He left me 2 weeks ago without any money!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - my husband walked out 2 weeks ago. we were just fighting everyday. we have been married 11 years but together 20 years. i love him and want him home but he wont even talk to me. he came by last week to get his stuff and told me he loves me,hugged ...

Is it possible that my husband is gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have been married for a year. My husband hasn't slept with me most of that time. We have sex then he gets out of bed and sleeps on the coach. He never comes to bed till it's almost time for me to get up. This just isn't a normal marriage. A ...

How do I tell her that I don't want her to always be the dominant one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My girlfriend and I have sex often, however she is the more dominate one I think she believes that she should be the only one who touches or gives pleasure,however I am not that kind of lover I too would like to pleasure her I don't know what to do ...

I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Im 13 and i like this guy but he dosnt know i like him how do i text him and like tell him that i really like him without him freaking out.. ...

I feel used, confused and I'm hiding from this man!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi everyone, I really want to talk to someone about something that has been going on in my life for almost 3 years ago...but no one in my daily life really want to listen; so I've decided to be a part of this website to be able to communic...

He doesn't like me like "that" anymore. Is it over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hello. This is my painful and bitter sweet romance disaster. Well, my name is Jossie and I'm 18 years old. I moved to Wisconsin about 5 months ago so I attended my familys church. When I moved to wisconsin romance wasn't something I thought of. Not ...

Has he just fallen out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - hi been with my boyfriend seven months now, iv never loved anyone the way i love him. first of all things were great, he was always here for me, never let me down. now i just think hes fallen out of love with me, he still tells me he loves me, but ...

Why do women do such things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I don't know why I don't listen to what people tel me. I'd love to know a reason for my stupidity. I fell in love wit ha girl who has a boyfriend. She also fell in love with me. As a fact, yesterday she was at my place. Wonder what...

The thought of her in his bed makes me feel sick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's been really close to another girl and i dont know what to do. We were out yesterday and i was playing with his phone when i stumbled across some texts between him and this girl at his uni. I've met her and she seemed nice enough b...

Confusion here!! Why did he just stop calling me out the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) - Hello everyone! I'm having this problem and would love you guys help with this situation I'm having. First off I met this guy that's a year younger than me, and I'm 22 by the way, and from the first time we met he was up front with me about his ...

Back with my ex gf, and nothing's the same! Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I got back together with my ex (were together 4 years)after a long drawn-out breakup in which we both had rebounds. We both made mistakes, and we both are willing to address them. She acts much differently now though: passive, unenthusiatic, ...

It's so painful that I love him and he doesn't feel the same way! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Ive been with my boyfriend for just about a year, and we haven't approached the "love subject" well he hasn't. I love him and haven't said it, im 2 upset to because i no he won't say it back. This really hurts because obviously im in ...

This is not what I want... but I love him, why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Sorry about the details of name being conor and being male. A friend set this up for me. I'm actually female! Anyway my question is: I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months. We've had several split ups but always 'kissed and made-up'...

I want to talk to him but can't seem to find the words

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. My ex and I were together for 6 years, all lovely at first but he was going through a divorce at the time which took a toll on him individually and us as a couple. It didn't help that he can be ...

15 years together and he won't make a comittment!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 15 years. We have lived together for 10 years. We have a young family and life is good, apart from one major thing. He will not make any form of commitment to me. We could afford to purchase a house but he won't. We...

How do I feel better about facing people who made my life hell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I've recently got back together with my high school sweetheart after 5 years apart. Everything is going smoothly, but in that 5 years, I moved away to London and he stayed back home. I'm planning on moving back home soon as it is so we don't have ...

The baby was born 11 months after I was home, is the baby mine?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I have a question when i was home from Iraq last year 2008 the last time me and my wife had sex was april 4th 2008 when i cam back from iraq ahe told me she was preg and then on March 1st 2009 our son was born her due date was feb 26 2009 now is ...