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Archived questions from: 24 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Does X plus naked pics on pc equal no relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much. We've been together just over a year and i honestly dont know what id do without him. However, lately he's been less committed than I. He took his ex out for drinks then went back to her place and I found half naked ...

Why does my boyfriend have these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Me And My boyfriend have been going out for nearly a month but have both liked each other for about 4 months, we've gone out about 3 times now within the past 2 months becuase he says he keeps gettin a feeling that it's wrong but gets Really ...

My cheating man says he will change his ways!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I got my man in our house with a lady in our room,they admitted they had sex without condom?it was not for the first he cheated on me.he started cheating on me previously with his ex-girl friends.i do nt find a place in my heart this time to ...

Only 23 and already slept with 40 men, I cant stop cheating!

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24 November 2009 (F) - iam a 23 year old woman who had slept with about 40 men and am not proud of it, but i cant seem to stop and i need help, i cant stay faithful to one man coz i have a six year relationship that is terrible and my partner cant seem to care and dont ...

I don’t know what to think about him now! I am so confused!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 ½ years, and we have been living together only 2 months, but its going really well. I thought things were perfect between us.. he is sweet, kind, thoughtful, considerate and the perfect gentleman. Really ...

I found pictures of my boyfriend having sex with his ex. Help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Ok. So. I stumbled upon pictures of my boyfriend having sex with his ex girlfriend. It was an honest accident, I wasn't snooping. Long story short I was fixing his old computer (from 3-4 years ago) and they were on there. I wasn't, and am not, mad ...

It scares me that he will break my heart and go back with his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I need help asap. I have been with my boyfriend for the past 7 months. things started out going great, he even came to the point telling me that he loves me and wants to have a future with me since I am the only one with him through his hard times ...

Have her feelings changed?

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24 November 2009 (M) - We haven't been together long and it has been a whirlwind romance! Now in text messages and emails she says less and less she loves me or thinking of me expressing affection etc. Should I be worried?? I would like her to say such things. ...

How do I get my self-esteem and confidence back after all life has thrown at me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - When I came to this site, I was rock bottom in life. After going through so much adversity, in my life my self esteem plummeted. After visiting this site, I learned that so many man and women are going through similar problems and issues. My ...

What can I do to make her realise that my life isn't really one to envy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - ok at the weekend there me and my friend sort of had a heart to heart. I had went down to her house to get ready to go out and we had a bottle of wine as usual, then we sort of had a conversation which left me really ocnfused. She just came out wi...

I'm worried he has developed feelings for my best friend, after he performed oral sex on her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for the better part of 5 years. I recently finished school and he asked me to move in with him so I agreed. It has been 5 months and were both under the impression we were heading toward marriage. For ...

How do I tell my friend that her boyfriend kissed me while she was asleep?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - hi my friends man kissed me while she was asleep how do i tell her??? here's how it happened... we was at hers with ma friend and her man and some of his mates we was all drunk she went upstairs with him later he came downstairs was talking to h...

Why are women labelled as "shallow" if they voice their opinions on their partners appearance yet men can judge women entirely on their looks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - So my bf knew I didn't like facial hair on guys and found it unattractive. He grew a beard. I had to admit though that with his messy mop of dark hair it actually really suited him and he looks great. My bf knows I hate long hair on guys. So he an...

Is it possible for someone to have accessed porn because my router has no password? Or is my boyfriend lying to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, I am looking for a little bit of advise. I have a very strong view on porn n I total hate it. Personal reasons of course. Do not want to offend anyone who enjoys it. Anyway, my boyfriend of 4 years knows my view on this but I went for a...

I'm scared to go against Indian society and marry a white man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - hi, im 25 yrs old indian female. i was in a livin relation with a white man who is 17 years older than me for about 8 months and we didnt have any fights or arguments during that period of time. this was in USA and after completion of my studies i ...

One nasty mess - please help me sort through this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Okay, I can't believe I am doing this, but am desperate to say the least... I will do my best to keep it as brief as possible, but it is quite complicated. Bf of 3 yrs broke up with me 2 months ago, since then I have felt nothing but hurt, confus...

If we have to work this hard to change, is a relationship even worth if?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Is this relationship harder than it should be? My boyfriend is great. He wants to get married and has told me he plans to propose within 6 months. He says I'm the woman he's always dreamed of marrying. He is also an excellent boyfriend and ...

She just admitted she loves me but she is thinking of going back to her ex

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24 November 2009 (M) - I'll try to make this as short as possible, but I might have trouble... I have been kinda seeing a girl for the past few months, who only recently came out of a long term relationship. I know you're probably thinking "rebound" but we did hit it of...

We've been 'dating' for 2 years and he still doesn't want to make it official

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost two years now. keyword dating. We have never been official boyfriend and girlfriend, though we act like it and call each other it. we both have made many mistakes in this relationship and have gone our seperate ...

How do I deal with his infidelity that resulted in a baby? I can't stand the pain.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3 years. I recently moved in a year ago with my 2 daughters. During one of our break ups he had sex with a so called friend, results a one year old son. Even though i tried to hang in their it was very hard. I ...