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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I want him to leave but I'm scared I won't be able to cope with my new baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - hi peeps i have just recently had a baby. she is seven weeks old and i am at my wits end and feel like my life is not worth living. my partner does nothing for my baby and does not contribute even though he lives in my house. he is too busy at his ...

I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...

Let him go and hope for his return or tell him how I feel and ask him to stay and chance ruining our remaining time or just let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - My problem is, I am seeing a guy, let's call him 'A', and he is moving to France (both he and I live in London at the moment). I met him through a previous boyfriend of mine, 'C', who I dated for several months, and this prevented me and...

Why does he feel the need to be in contact with her when he knows how I feel about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been married about 9 months. we dated two years before we got married. Throughout our relationship when we were younger i dealt with him contacting his ex's. We were not completely exclusive, I was hardly out of highscho...

My boyfriend is jealous of my best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have always gotten along and have a close bond but theres always been somthing that pisses me off. He's jealous of my best friend who is male and also an ex of mine. I've explained so many times that there's nothing going on and ...

Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and ...

Breakdown in communication? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - I would be interested in your thoughts. Today my gf sent a text to me while I was at work at about 11.50am. She said that due to me working long hours and being so tired when I get home that she feels she never sees me. Then she asked if we could ...

My former best friend not only made a pass at my girl, he grabbed her butt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Ok on my birthday my former best friend not only made a pass at my girlfriend but a couple of hours after he left we were sitting together and she told me that he grabbed her butt. Now what would should i do??...

The last thing I wanted was a sexless marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - i was three months pregnant when i married in december. i can count on one hand the amount of times i have had sex in the last 10 months. i feel desperate to have sex but my husband is always too tired and would prefer to watch tv. i am back to my ...

He said it's in the past, but I saw the text to his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I met my current bf while he was in a relationship. I had no idea until he told me. We both tried to end things and it didn't work. She came out here and I guess they both tried to figure things out and she broke up with him. Since then him and ...

I can't stand being alone in the room with .... myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - So Its been months-maybe years and Im sat here finally recognising that maybe I have a problem. Im quite a confidant person, I can meet andtalk to anyone and thrive in busy environments. yet I cannot bare to spend a night in to myself. Everynight ...

We're drifting apart and I don't know how to change it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - My guy friend has stopped talking to me! He still stares but I haven't seen him in a while. When I left class to be dismissed we both looked at each other and I left. He texted me one day but not much lately. I hope I didn't hurt him when I told him ...

I think he may be still in love with his ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - ive been dating this guy for almost a year now and we have gone threw alot i lost a baby with him and we live 2gether well he had told me about his ex and blah blah blah he said he almost married her and crap well i know i should of did this but i ...

It feels as though my wife isn't interested in fixing our marriage.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone My wife and i have been seperated for about 10 weeks now, of which the first 6 i moved out. i had no other option but to come home in the end. we have been getting on now for atleast 8 weeks with laughter, conversation, fu...

She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...

Through wife-swapping, we fell in love, but are distraught about the hurt we've caused!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Here is my heart-hurting situation. I have been with the mother of my son for almost 15 years. We met when we were in our late teens. About two years ago, we began something that has made me realize I wasn't really in love with my fiancee but more...

My boyfriend took advantage of me while I suffered alcohol poisoning!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Alright well, i'll try to explain this the best way i can. On halloween, last saturday, i went to a party with about.. 6 people. one of which included my boyfriend. We obviously were drinking since it was halloween and just for fun, you ...

My boyfriend didn't respond to my calls or texts in 7 months!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - My bf and i have had a long distance relationship for 1 year now. but in march i texted him normally and waited for a reply. but he didnt reply to none of my calls or text messages. before all this he said he was busy with work and would be free in ...

My boyfriend doesn't put effort into our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was edited for grammar only, and to make it easier to read.] okay so my question is why does my boyfriend treat me like he doesn't want to be with me? he doesn't do anything to show me he wants to be with me he only hug...

She's admitted to seeing someone new and I'm afraid I'm going to be forced out of our house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - After my wife has admitted seeing someone else she says I can still stay in our home together. She will do her thing and I can do mine. Im frightened in case she get serious with this guy and Im forced out of my house...What should I do??? [M...

Have I ruined everything with the man I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months. He's a complicated creature, very sports orientated from a young age so his appearance has always been important to him so he regularly goes to the gym. He has also never been on holiday with anyone and canno...

I'm trapped in a marriage with a husband who prefers masturbation over sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before the wedding. For me the bigg...

When we are together it is amazing, but after a couple of days she becomes more distant! What should I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Hi there all, Sorry for the long story but..... I am desperately looking for some help and any answers would be deeply appreciated. I have recently split up with my girlfriend of 2 Years. It was a very troubled relationship with arguments ...

Who does she want, her boyfriend or me?

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4 November 2009 (M) - Ok recently she hurt me real bad, asked me to move on because she is in love with her bf. I told her I cant forget her and it still hurts me. She told me to concentrate on my studies for now and not talk about this for the time being. Then one day ...

Should I end this now and rebuild our friendship or see what happens next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I have been known this guy since I was 3 years old. I was best mates with his sister right until Highschool. I dont remember him through my childhood years though, he was the shy kid... The last couple of years me and this guy have reconnec...

Wife chooses porn over me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Im 30 and my wife is 24. I found lots of porn in my wife's computer, this doesn't bother me or make mad. The problem is that I don't feel sexually satisfied at all. We have sex once a month with luck. Everytime I want have sex with her she is tired, ...

Four months and no sex - is there someone else??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: explicit language deleted and paragraphs added for easier reading] I am a female (35 years of age)... and I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man (48 years of age) for 10 months now. Sex was GREAT in the beginning an...

Why doesn't he make me feel sexy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - MY boyfriend doesn't make me feel sexy, but gets mad if i don't talk to dirty or try to turn him on. He laughs at me when i try on cute outfits and try to be hot or if I do say somehing sexy he makes fun of me. I want to feel sexy so I can act sexy ...

Should I just come clean about why I renewed my commitment to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I've been going through a rough patch with my boyfriend, and another guy started showing an interest in me. I was very interested in this guy too, and we ended up doing a lot of things in the 'grey area' that doesn't quite count as cheating but is ...

Does this guy want me only if my friends like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - im really not sure what to do.. i met this guy online and he lived outa state at the time. We were talking for like a month or so and every thing was fine we were getting along great.. he's been here for a week and a half, ive met him and everything ...

Is my husband planning to go back to his ex-wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I am going to make this as short and understandable as I can. My husband is not with me at the moment (he is away) I know he has been calling his ex wife that has two grown kids with him because I told him to call and get to know his kids. He...