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Archived questions from: 27 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help with snogging and relationships...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - 14 nearly 15 and i remain loveless, iv been in one relationship and all we got to was just kissing on the lips no snogging ect no ones really wants me andi dont know why i spose im not bad looking im not fat im fairly thin and athletic tall i dont ...

He wants to watch dogging or go to a swingers club and I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - well, im 16 and my boyfriend is 19, basically we've been sleeping together for 4 months of our 7 month relationship and its been good. But lately he has come up to me and asked if he can go to watch dogging or go to a swinggers club. its hard for me ...

I am a lost soul and need some guidance.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - This is kind of long and complicated, but I am a lost soul and need some guidance. My last relationship was not a good one. There were a lot of ups and downs, but mainly downs. We broke up quite often and got back together every time becau...

What have I done wrong? I don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I'm scared my boyfriend of 8 months will leave me. I'm 16 he's 19. When me and him first got together he was all lovey dovey with me talked 2 me all the time texted me a lot, told me he loves me a lot and he cudnt bear not to be with me. But now ...

We're having problems right now, how can we make things better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend were perfect together but now because of things i said over a year ago she says she feels different about me. she said she's sure she still loves me and doesnt want to break up but we dont know what to do. we decided not to talk ...

I just feel everything has been left to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I've been married nearly 25 years. We met when I was very young and I loved him from the first time I saw him. We've had some really bad times. We have a disabled son, we've lost a daughter and a grand-daughter, who my daughter had when she was 16. ...

Suspicious texts on his phone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Well this is more of a gut suspicion than anything. My boyfriend and I welcomed our son into the world 8 days ago. I had a rough labor that ended up with a c section . I came home from the hospital last Friday and our son came on Sunday. This ...

What happened? We never got together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Here goes, I met this guy on a music download site and we hit it off right away. We exchanged numbers and our picture were up on the site so we knew what the other one looked like With into weeks he was telling me that he had strong feelings ...

My boyfriend had one previous relationship with a man, and I can't accept it...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - hi, so i have a bf which really loves me and i feel great with him, but my boyfriend in the past had one relationship with a man and i really cant accept this thing. if it was you would you stay with him? however he confessed that it was his only...

Boyfriend says I'm a controlling person, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - i have a problem with my boyfriend we've been dating for 3 years and he says that i'm a controlling person and he states that becuase i told him to stop talking to one of his girl friends because she hurted me so many times and we broke off because ...

I feel used and stepped on by my partner of 6 years. Am I a sap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - someone please help i feel so down ive been with my current partner for 6 years for the past 4 hes been very cold to me emotionally ive tried everything i can to help. ive put myself in terrible financial hardship to help him but when i...

My girlfriend has told me she just doesn't want or need sex anymore...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Ok so this has been going on for a few months now. My gf and i have been together for about a year and we've lived together since august of last summer. We used to have sex without discussion and anywhere from 3-6 times a week. The first night we ...

Ex bf says he will change his behaviour, is it possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - My ex whom I was with for 2.5yrs is begging me for 1 more chance. He was emotional abusive but was always saying things as "jokes" n I told him this is unacceptable but he says he didnt realize it made me this upset til now. He's 26 but is very ...

Overwhelming sexual chemistry...should I do something about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Is it strange to get in contact with someone you met at work a few months ago and found out they were interested in you but couldn't reciprocate because i was in a relationship at the time? A girl was doing some surveying at my company a couple...

Grilfriend physically cannot give head. Move on, wait, or accept it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Hey I have posted this question before but didn't explain enough so the advice I received wasn't particularly relevant. The problem I seem to have is that I am in a 5 month ongoing relationship- we are both 21 and I have never received head to...

Why did she treat her scumbag ex better than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Hi, New to these forums, but I guess my answer is straight up is; Why did she treat him better than me? What's he got better than me? So, rewind, The story goes like this... (try to make this short as I can) Ive been with this girl about 6 months...

My life is in ruins, how could another human being do this to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - i had been happily married for 12 years to a beautiful woman who i loved dearly, something i always thought was mutual. we had about 5 years together before we both decided to start a family, and were overjoyed when our first child was born in ...

Why is he acting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Ok so I met this guy a month and a half ago!!!! The weird part is I met him at church with mutual family and friends sitting all together after mass. I noticed he liked me b/c he said hi to me twice!!!!! After a week or so he kept on calling my mo...

I cant let go of my younger lover

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - How do I let go of my lover? I am in an unhappy marriage. I have asked my husband to leave so many times but he refuses to because according to him, he wants our family to be complete. We have one son.We talk only when absolutely necessary, mo...

He is withdrawing from me and I am worried it is because of my weight

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - So, I have a great relationship with my boyfriend. However, lately he has not been talking much with my. I feel like he is withdrawimg from me. He is going through a lot of stress, due to his mom being sick. SO i dont press the fact that he isnt ...

Is it wrong for me to be texting other guys when my ex is still in the picture?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - My ex want me back but until he proves to me he changed im not sure. Deep down he prob wont and i kind of no this. Anyway do u think it wrong 4 me to be texting and possible other men that could possibly give me what i want. I dont know why i feel ...

Is it unreasonable for me to have such a serious expectation from a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - I realli need advice. Ive been with my gf for 4 months now and we are very busy with final year of schooling, so we get like once or twice a week where we talk on the phone, and once to be together on the weekend. I find Im puttin all the effort i...

Sister rivalry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I am the younger sister (19) and I am finding it really hard to live/get alone with my sister at the moment. There seems to be a tense horrible rivalry and jealousy between us. She has admitted that she has always between jealous of me, ever sinc...

Stuck in a room, doing absolutely nothing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - I apologize for the long post, but I have a few relationship problems that I am seeking some help with. First of all, I love my girlfriend very much and moved out of my home state to be with her. She is very sweet and compassionate, but she seems ...

I scared and there's something not "normal" in my room

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - okay so this is very akward for me to ask help on. So lately i've been feeling weird things.(i do not have any disorders nor am i on drugs) it only happens when im in my room. I feel like im being watched i feel eyes on me..I get scared like i feel ...

Why did the guy I stood by do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (?) - well there was this boy who i've know since the 3rd grade and now im in the 7th grade (in other words from year 4 to year 8) and well we wern't good friends in the 3rd 4th and 5th grade because not many of the girls liked him and some of the boys ...

Why can't I leave my ex - even though he cheated and robbed me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I WAS DATING A GUY FOR THREE YEARS. He was so nice and he surprised me with gifts and he was the best at first. WE LOVED EACH OTHER ALOT, WELL atleast i know i did. I found out later in the relationship that i had an std...called herpes. I passed it ...

I am leading on all the guys I am dating, just so I can break their hearts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I have issues... I am a love at first sight type of person. I have only really like two people and both of which are love at sight. I barely knew them yet I really liked them. Anyhow, none of those really developed into anything, I was ...

He's totally changed, I can't even talk to him about a problem without fearing he will get mad at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together, exclusively, for a little over years steady. Up until this past year, things have been wonderful, but it's suddenly all starting to fall apart and I don't know why. We've been great friends before we started ...

Whats going on with my best friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...

How do I prove I won't break her heart again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - how do u prove to a grl that u wont break her heart again? i have explain to her how i feel and how much i care but idk.......

I want her back, she said no. Is it NO?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Ok, so here is the deal. Im 20, shes 21. We were both truely in love and have a child together. I became a BAD alcoholic, and treater her horribly for a long time. A little over a year ago we split. I stopped drinking, and we went 6 months without ...

Is there a relationship here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about six almost seven years now. My problem is he has a job that requires him to be out of town for weeks at a time and then only gets 3 or 4 days home before he has to leave again. My problem is I don't know if I ...

Is he getting ready to leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Is there any signs, when your husband is thinking of leaving you? I have a feeling ,that something is going on in my husband head, but he wouldn't tell me what it is. He would be doing it in secret ,just leave a note, as he is not the kind of guy,...

He's beat down with addiction, but I love him. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - have spent 7 years raising child alone .casually dated over years never introducing child to any dates. lived next door to man a year in a half ago.hated one another.he was a single dad raising two teenagers on his own.daughter started watching my ...

I feel used and abused emotionally...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - This started a week back. I had asked a guy who worked at my school if her drop me off at my bf house because i wanted to see him. When i was aking my bf how do i get to where he live, he asked me who was bringing me and i said a friend. He then ...

Opinions please. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - I am in love with a girl who was once divorced. I am single..i love her so much that i can't stay without her. I hid this fact from my family that she had an ex. I am planning to get married to her. But i feel sometimes that she gets sad when she ...

Why does she mean so much to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - im 15 and i have a girlfriend who i care about very much and i think i love her. i know im young but i just know it. okay well we got into a fight yesterday. she blew things way outta proportion. but i still took the blame. i always do. i apologized ...

How do I win back my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Hi. after over a year of dating and talks of marriage, my boyfriend breaks up with me. We had had a huge argument that we never seemed to get over and things fell apart from there. Well, in the first few weeks I tried to win him back but he was ...

He never seems to "finish"!!!!! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Is there any condition or anything that makes it really hard for a guy to - finish- , i'm asking cause i just cant get my bf to finish, i would give him a hand job and he would pre cum and then a little fluid but doesnt finish, stays hard, we dont ...

Help with better self esteem without therapy!?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Please do NOT judge me. Okay, so I know I have an eating disorder- not like anorexia- but I won't eat in front of anyone (including my parents) except my sister. I mainly eat infront of her because she was anorexic and I'll do anything to keep her ...