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Archived questions from: 26 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He thinks I slept with someone else at the party but I didn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - alright so my friend had a party on sunday. the kid that i really like was going to go but didn't end up. he got mad at me for something and wouldn't text me back or pick up my phone calls and i didn't know what i did. so today he texts me and says ...

He won't tell me if something's bothering him, how can I know for sure that something is bothering him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - This guy I like is almost 16 in september and i'm 17. Do you think that he would act differnetly towards a girl he liked because hes younger? He likes me but he doesn't talk to me anymore and I don't know why he would be playing mood games with me. ...

I love her very much and don't want to lose her... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for just under 8 months. everything was perfect up until last friday. before we started going out i thought she hated me because we had gone out before and broken up. i said some things i shudnt have and i ...

Why is he acting like I don't exist...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - My guy friend still isn't talking to me! I haven't been texting him in a week and I saw him today at school. He walked by my classroom but he doesn't do it often. i'm sad that we had to be apart. He talks to me a little when were on the bus but ...

He SEEMED like a genuine, caring guy, but I'm starting to feel that his words don't match his actions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I feel a little lost. My (ex-)boyfriend of two years recently broke up with me several months ago. During our relationship he cheated on me and disrespected me in many ways. I have been very down, but I have been going out with friends and trying ...

Married to the Mob

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I was married to a man whom I felt I no longer loved, so I divorced him and a couple years later, I met whom I felt was my dream lover. He swept me off my feet for 3 years we dated then finally I agreed to marry him, well almost immediately he ...

Heart broken in two...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I need help I cant decide between two guys. I was dating this guy that I was totally in love with but we had to break up because he was going to rehab we had been going out for a year and i really thought he was the one my family wasnt too fond o...

Feelings are fading... how can I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

26 May 2009 (?) - Hey, its really wierd. I love my boyfriend I do. But thinsg lately have been so...normal. so causal. I dont feel excited or passionate when I'm with him anymore.. it is like things are cooling down and I dont want that to happen. Feelings are ...

Am I wrong to want closure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I really need some advice. I posted on here before. My partner left me about 3 months ago, just suddenly ignored me then got nasty when I asked him why. I am still really upset because we were so close for the 6 yrs we w...

How do I boost my self-esteem and rebuild the trust with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I'd appreciate some advice, and male opinions would be interesting - basically, I'd like to know how to work on boosting my self-esteem and my trust in my bf. To cut a long story short, we were together (living together) for 8 years, until we broke ...

My alcoholic husband is not the same man I married and I'm not sure if I love him anymore

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I have been married for 2 1/2 years to an alcoholic. He has tried to get sober in the past and always goes back to drinking. I have even given him the altimatum and left for 3 weeks until he stopped drinking, but he only stopped until I came home. ...

Lost and confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - i found out my girl of 11 months had went out with her old boyfriend from a 1.5 years ago.they went to dinner and she doesnt drink but she had a glass of dinner wine and was intoxicated,so she ask to be brought over to her girl friends.well she ...

Addicted to porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - About a month ago my boyfriend and I talked about how much his watching porn bothered me, he said he would stop because of how much it bothered me. After several weeks of assuring me he had not watched any porn, yesterday I found out he was lying...

She wont stop lying!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - Im just so messed up right now. i just don't know how someone can do this or its just me... a girl i was seeing typical was great to start. Then just too many wierd things and hearing things that she had done or lied to me about. could never get her ...

He wants to leave if I don't do what he wants....please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - we got married 7 months ago.we meet every 3 months,its long distance marriage,cos im waiting for spouse visa. any how,before i meet him i was in relationship and he did read the emails i had with my ex which i sent and received before i met with my ...

She wants to be single! I want her to realize she wants me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - I was with this girl for 7 months and we had been discussing marriage. All of the sudden she changes and blows me off for about a week. Next thing I know she says she likes another guy she has hung out with like 3 times but never done anything with. ...

I'm never able to say what I feel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Hiya, Okay a lot of my relationships or soon to become relationships end up failing because I never let them know just how I feel about them. I've never been one to show my feelings as I see it as making myself vulnerable to getting hurt. I do no...

Having a very difficult time disconnecting from him emotionally!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I need some support and advice. I have been in love with my boyfriend for 10 years. We have split up before mainly due to the way he has treated me and his emotional cheating with other women-cannot verify that he physically cheated. He got very ...

Going through a divorce and his wife is a "princess"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I wanted to ask for a mans view on this one..... I've met and am living with the most wonderful man, thought they didn't make them like him anymore but poof here he is. Anyhow, he is going through a divorce at the moment and I have ...

My mum thinks my boyfriend is abusive but I want to move closer to him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - okay my family LOVED my boyfriend up until we had a massive argument and I told my mum everything that he's done (he's not done anything abusive, but he does small things like reads my texts, hacks my email, reads my msn history, doesn't let me talk ...

Should I wait a while and hope things change or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Im really in a confusing situation. Ive been seeing this man for a while now.he says he loves me and i love him. We do have a special bond and i just cant c myself with anyone else.prob is hes been a bad lad in his life. Had lots of women and hes ...

Bad reaction from my family about our relationship, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - I am 20 years old.I am in love with my GF who is 34 years old.She is divorced and not having any child. Her husband was impotant hence she didnt have sex before.She loves me lot and she is very much caring for me too.I am from middle class brahmin ...

I found condoms in my husband's pockets and he says they were for a friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I Found 6 condoms in my husbands pockets and he said his friend asked him to bring it. I didn't believe him, and he was crying. could he be telling the truth?...

Does he actually care about me if he is ok with me having other boyfriends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I don't live in the same city. He says he is completely in love with me, but he doesn't do anything about us moving together to share a relationship. He is actually in the position to do that, to create a circumstance for me moving ...

Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Dear cupid One of my relative told me that my hubby was riding a lady with him, after knowing this i asked him but first he lied but after making cross question he said yes, but that was only coincident, she is just a friend. After going thro...

Handsome boyfriend and lustfull female colleagues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Hi guys, this happened at the weekend and I just want your thoughts. My bf and I went to his works do at the weekend and there were five women there that he works with. One of the lady managers had gotten quite drunk and every time she talked with ...

I'm in love with my close girl friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - we are on the same dormitory but diiferent rooms. we started hanging out until one day she wants to sleep beside me every night. i was used to it that she always sleeps besides me but then as months past by she told me that she don't want to ...

How do I get over my boyfriend, he is all I've ever known

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Hi all. Ive just broken up with my boyfriend of 1 year. To put it simply, im devastated. In hindsight, the relationship was going downhill since christmas. I think maybe we got two comfortable with eachother, the spark was gone, we were more or less ...

I need help to get this man out of my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - hi all, i posted a question on the 13th sex while i sleep. it is a long story and there is much more to it than that, but i tried again to end the relationship i was focused and 100% sure i was doing the right thing, but he asked me for sex one last ...

He's only interested atfer I stopped making the effort with him....should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Ok so I was/am dating this guy, who for the last month went all weird saying he was too busy to see me etc. It took me by surprise because just prior to that he was saying how much he liked me and how he'd miss me when I went home and how he couldnt ...

Violent boyfriend has left his things at my house but I don't want to be near him right now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half. i am 20 and he is turning 23 next month.he suffers from depression and anxity. today he out of the blue got really mad and broke his computer. he smashed it and ran out of my house. later ...

He has never lied to me before but I'm finding it hard to believe these text mesages are just a misunderstanding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - This is my strange story that i really need help with.... Okay, my boyfriend and i where out on saturday, we went to one of the local car and bike show, he parked rather far from the pits, he asked me to go and get a few things out the car after ...

Is there any hope for this marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Dear all i need your advice please 15 months have past since i found out about what my h/b had been up to in the 21 years of marriage(cheating,lying,)he has told me some details of the things he has done and i cant get over it.Things are ok for a...

Is he going to break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so I have a theory that after the 5 or 6th month of a relationship, it either finishes or it blossoms. I'm in between the 5th and 6th month of a relationship with my current boyfriend. We haven't said "I love you" in a serious or formal way, but ...

Emotionally unavailable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I have told to the man i was dating last year that it's better to stay friends, since we meet each other for very little time and he usually doesn't have time for me. Sometimes suddelny he wants to be together and i try to avoid him although i like ...

Broke up, back together, he is distant and non-responsive, did he stop caring for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - We broke up. I asked for him back because i still loved him. Then we got back together. But he never calls me. Only I call him. He never tells me that he misses me anymore. What does this mean? i don't wanna be annoying so I would let a week go by ...

Met a guy over World of Warcraft while yet in another relationship, things got confusing, what is your opinion of the state of affairs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I met a guy over World of Warcraft....he was amazing. He became my best friend and in no time we fell for each other. Well at the point in time, he was in a three year relationship, where I was in a one year. We still continued to flirt, until ...