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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why can't I find a guy who wants to commit to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 28 year old female, who is a single mother to a beautiful daughter. I left her father 4 years ago, and for the first 2 years i have enjoyed the single life. However for the past 2 years since i have felt ready to settle down, all i seem...

Please help me, my heart is broken in pieces.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Hi guys, About 4-5 weeks ago me and my girlfriend of 2 years agreed to go on a 2 week break. At the time I was glad because I felt like I didn't want a girlfriend anymore. I didn't realize however that I had been goin through a stage of depre...

I'm almost at breaking point...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - ok heres the situation im a stay at home mom to a beautiful 2 year old girl. I have no social life whatssoever I have one friend in the state i live in and she lives over an hour away from me and is busy with her own life. I'm so bored and lonley i ...

How would you react to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Okay, some useful info, I'm 20 finished 3rd year at University, my girlfriend is 17 finishing Grade 12 High School, dating for 2 and a half months. Now apparently and I just found out about this today, she's going with a guy friend to Prom, ...

He cheated before on his wife and on me, now what is up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - has my partner really changed? we have known each other since he was married 6 years ago. i was also friends with his wife at the time. they split up on several occasions and this resulted in me and him sleeping together. i concieved a baby but was ...

My ex is beginning the process of stalking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - My ex is beginning the process of stalking. The only reason there hasn't been any physical contact is because his son is in town, but only for 2 more days. I am scared. He has a short fuse. I know any response even negative (i.e.: changing my phone ...

Should I break things off before he does go elsewhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - My boyfirend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. He has a really strong sex drive. And my body sometimes can't keep up with it. So when I deny him sex sometimes he'll make me feel guilty about it. Not in a really harsh way. But it still ...

Head over heels in love with a guy who doesn't love me back

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I've tried eveything possible but i can't help it, i am totally head over heels in love with this guy that clearly doesn't love me back. He could make me the happiest girl in the world if only he loved ...

I want my ex gf back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Alright so heres my story. Im 17 and Basically me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months on and off. Weve stopped talking twice before this relationship. The first time was for a week and the second time was for a month. But both for the ...

I want another child but he says he is too old

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I am about to get married again to a chap who already has children. I am in my early 40's and really want another child before it is too late. My fiance says his days of young children are over and that I must choose between him and being with a man ...

A tactful solution to my b/f constantly talking about work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hello all! I've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months. He's great - really smart and has a very intense job, with tons of pressure and a bizarre management structure that cause a lot of stress. He talks about it constantly, at length. I try to ...

Could hefall for me in time or is there just no hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - hi all! im 35 years old and my boyfriend is 43 hes been single for a few years now and was just enjoying dating women. i have children from a previous partner he hasnt got any. we've only been together nine months and in this time it took months for ...

We are so well suited... But he's not content with JUST me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - I'm a gay man in SF...I'm in a relationship (5) years now with a man who confuses me. I'm 38, he's 53 but the age difference doesn't really matter...in many ways we are well matched. We disagree about sex...I want monogamy, he doesn't. The...

He abused my trust -- how do I got over it?

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7 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been struggling to deal with what my ex has put me through. After we broke up I tryd to get on with my life even tho deep down inside I still loved and wanted him. He was the father of my child we had built a life together. I went thru ...

Why do I wish for more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year. he has set me straight on wanting to take it slow. no ring in the near future. he enjoys his alcohol and that won't change. i go to church and he only goes on the holidays. he has been ...

After 3 years he's not acting like a b/f anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hey everyone I really hope you guys could help me on this one cause I really don’t know what to do..well I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I love him more than anything he means the world to me, but recently things haven’t been the ...

The first year was great; the last few months not. Am I losing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Does she still love me? I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years and for the first year and a bit we were inseparable. Over the last two to three months we haven't been anywhere as near as close as what we used to be, we haven't had se...

Why are the first few months the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - In a relationship why are the first few months the sex is the best? And after that new love thing is over why do I suddenly get over it and not want to have sex with him anymore? ...

Balance between friends and the relationship - has he gone too far?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I’m having a rather annoying problem with my boyfriend. We had been best friends before getting together, and during the time where we became good friends he began to ignore his male friends. For the past few months, 2 or 3, he has been spending a ...

Not together but know he is the one

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Recently things have got so weird..we went on a brake as he is having a breakdown right now with work and having trouble sleeping it caused him to be very off with me.. when then a couple of days after the break i couldn't take all this stress ...

Age difference. Great relationship. What do I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Hi all. I am a 50 year old man, who has just had a 3 month relationship with a 27 year old woman. We hit it off straight away and have enjoyed the most fantastic three months together. We have had numerous weekends away in romantic venues and roma...

My friend is in my dreams...is this a sign of reconcilliation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hey! me and my friend fell out 10 days into this year and we havnt spoke since, well nice words anyways. But i keep dreaming of her. its kinda weird. but im leaving school on the 15th of may and ive built a few bridge's with people and because ...

She is ignoring my calls and messages - should I be worried or am I just being immature?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - My gf is mid 30 and I am mid 20. She is married and divorced with a daughter. She been through a bad relationship before. Added with the age gap, sometimes, I don't know if the things I expect her to do is correct. I need some advices bec...

Pregnant again but the relationship is very rocky at the moment

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - im a 33 year old woman. 18 months ago i got into a relationship with a 20 year old guy and he moved in with me i know he`s alot younger and i wont lie, it has been hard(even thou i look alot younger than i am) about 9 months ago i found out that...

Is my man gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Is my man Gay? I've just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years has been calling a gay chat line every time i'm out of the house. this has been happening for about 5 months. He tells me that he had an addiction to sex chat lines about 8 years...

Very complicated question, for a complicated relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - A little note about myself I've had a long history of depression through out my life. I've been dating a girl for almost two years now. She's 23 years old and I myself am 21. The relationships is a bit odd since we met through the internet and...

She went back to her ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - She Went Back to Her Ex When I met Dee, she had been out of an abusive relationship for six months. Her ex is an unemployed alcoholic who used to physically and mentally abuse her. She had to take out a court injunction and seek Police help to prote...

I would be the luckiest girl in the world if I married him....but I cant express my feelings to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hi guys.. i need a big help.. i love my friends.. i have a guy friend.. i like him a lot.. i use to tel everything to him always. but he is not. he is very calm and stubborn. but he likes me a lot. he use to say that am his dear.many of my friends ...

My fiance hasn't even told his mum that we have set a date for our wedding!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - the problem is my fiance and me have booked our wedding for next year. And i asked him if he had told his mum as he sees her more than me and he said he hasnt when i asked him why he said i told her before we was getting married. which i dont ...

He wont even kiss me in front of his friends because he thinks it is a sign of weakness!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Im so confused bout life that its making me dizzy literally in my head! I feel im always running out of time and that if i dont settle down get marrie and another child by 30 it will be too late. My main problem is that im really not happy with the ...

I feel like I am wasting my time!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - when I met my boyfriend 11 months ago he said he was seperated and he and his wife had agreed to a divorce but as neither was in another relationship he did not start any divorce process. He claimed his wife left him, took the kids and lives in ...

Am I just being crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I am currently in this long distance relationship with a guy across the country. I am planning to visit him for 10 days in July and when i had planned the trip originally i didn't know that there would be any problems with schedules. I just found ...

Finally moving in with my LDR boyfriend, but I have my doubts he is not the "one"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I have been in this long distance relationship for 4 years, and now we are finally moving in together. But, our relationship has not been in our best. He has lied to me several times, and it has been hard for me to trust him, and we are constantly ...

I feel like I always have to follow others or wind up walking alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I was brought to the States by my parents when I just turned 18. I have been living in the States for almost 5 years since then. I went to a local high school for one year and now I am almost graduating from a prestigious college. Through out the ...

Living apart even though we have a baby and are working things out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - my ex boyfriend and I are trying to get work things out but some of his actions confuse me. we have a 10 month old baby together and he moved out into a house by himself. i have been left to take care of the baby and my other two children.. he ...

What is the process on IVF? Is my boyfriend lying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 10 years. He says he loves me and one day we will be married. He says he has a shitty relationhip with his frigid life. His wife went through IVF last spring and they were succesful in Nov. He now says he new nothing ...

Would this be considered an abusive relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I already posted a question, but it's getting worse.. This clingy, attatched boyfriend is getting rediculous... My phone was messed up and basically unusable. And so I got an old one a friend had given me. It was tmobile, I have att, my boyfriend ...

My girlfriend got involved with another girl and it is troubling to me, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Me again. My girlfriend came back to me, you could say. We were going pretty good until this other girl came along. My girlfriend told me she only liked one girl, and that was me. This other girl [Let's call her "Girl B"] claims to be madly in lo...

We are living together and I feel he takes me for granted, please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I am 24 yrs old my boyfriend of almost 10 yrs is 27 yrs old, and we've lived together a little over two years with 0 children. When we werent living together it seemed as though he wanted to spend more time with me, now that we live together he's ...

My long distance relationship is beginning to suffer, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I live in different country from my gf. We call, text and chat online. She usually call every few days by using a prepaid phone. She always text and despite those, we still chat a lot online. Few weeks after that, the text ge...

He won't stop drinking...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - ok so i am 18 and i have 2 kids, and am now with the guy i had a crush on for 8 years. hes almost everything ive ever wanted sweet, smart,fun but he cheated on me when he was drunk, and i forgave him, except he still continues to drink after many ...

Is this why he's suddenly given up on things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm an 19 year old girl and I've been seeing my new fella (he's 21) for about 6 weeks. He's amazing :) However. The sex started off great - loving, sexy, respectful, lots of foreplay. Now he is still loving and sexy and respectful, but he ...