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Archived questions from: 30 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I get rid of this guy before my bf gets out of jail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - The guy i've been friends with really wants to have sex with which is my weakness but i have already told him i dont wanna have sex with him. I've tried ignore his calls and avoid him. Some how he always finds me. When my boyfriend gets out of jail, ...

Is he just afraid of committment or does he only want sex?

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30 May 2009 (F) - Ok so I've gotten into a real mess recently because I've fallen in love with my ex boyfriends best friend. We have been friends for over four years, and about 8 months ago finally took our friendship to the next level after I had broken up with my ...

I made about every mistake possible! Can I save this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - I met the woman of my dreams and turned something special into a mess. I admit not only is she the first woman I've ever been in love with, but the first I've ever even gone out with. We just seemed so perfect together. Yet looking back I r...

Did I give him too much space..has he lost interest??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend (both 19) have been together nearly 5 years now, we're engaged and are usually fine but lately he's been talking and acting like he wants a different 'path of life' to go down. We're usually the typically 'cute couple' who ...

I need insight as to why my life is like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Why is my life this way? Hi! I must admit I have never really been lucky in love although I am quite good looking with a decent enough figure. To start with I didn't want to lose my virginity until I was 30 and then the guy turned out to be a wrong ...

In love, yet we can't seem to make it work, due to clashes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of two years have had our ups and downs. Everytime things go well in our individual lives [ie: get out of debt, decide to quit bad habits] we work so well together, and I can see a definite future for us. The problem is, when we are ...

Dad wants me to be a nurse..I don't want that! How can I get him off my back over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - i need some help, i posted on here before about this but here i go again!! I am 20, a student nurse in 1st year at uni and i donot want to do this any longer. i don't know why, i just don't want to continue to do this, or be a nurse, which is making ...

I can't trust my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I've recently accessed my husbands Facebook account. I'm stunned, hurt, betrayed and angry! I found letters to and from his ex-girlfriend he found on facebook talking about how much he's thought of her over the years and how much he thinks of her ...

Am I right to trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - long story short, my boyfriend and i had been going out, my best friend was always very 'friendly' with him and caused a lot of problems, after we broke up they both snuck around behind my back and it didnt last long. she told me it was because she ...

Should I ignore him eyeing up other women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have a new partner, every time we are out, i notice him ogling other women who are younger, and thinner. He says he finds me gorgeous and attractive. So why does he do it? last night he spent all evening eyeing up women, and practically...

Does he really want me or her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have a friend who lives long distance. When he moves to my town he always breaks up with his girlfriend to date me, but when he moves home he gets back together with her. He hasn't told me about her but he is from a very small town so I hear about ...

Should I stay or should I go? What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for the past 4 years and our relationship has a very rocky road. After dating for 2 years he asked me to married him without a ring but I a not a material girl so that did not affect me. We have never lived together ...

I still don't know if he was really into me?

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30 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. A bit of an update on the "Angry, hurt and confused..." story I posted earlier this week. The guy had initiated contact via facebook the other night when we were both online, but we spoke briefly and about day to day stuff. I mis...

Am I controlling and difficult to live with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Am I controlling? I have already asked one basic question about my relationship and have had some good responses that have been helpful. I want to ask something more specific now on the subject of control. I want to know if you out there feel tha...

He can go two weeks without talking or texting me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hey people. I need your advice. I was in a 2 year long distance relationship with my boyfriend. But since this year started we have been fighting alot. Once he got problems he would not want to talk to me.Few months he changed completely it became ...

Should I pretend that I am only interested in friendship with her and see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Where to start I wonder? I am a 39 year old male who was dating a wonderful 33 year old woman for around 5 months last year. We had so much in common and spent a lot of time together. We travelled a lot and were making plans to move in before ...

Fiance cheated, I cheated, and now I have feelings for another man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - ok, ive been dating this man for over 2 years we got engaged at the begining of this year. he cheated on me with at least 4 women that i know about, he got 1 pregnant and now has a daughter about to turn 1. he made a complete change and is faithful ...

Does he love me or should I end it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I'm a little lost as to just what this man wants,well for starters he is married and we have been having an affair for many years, but he is in a very high profile job and he sometimes has to work 70hours a week so we don't get to see a lot of each ...

Confused about my feelings for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Alright so I started going to a new church a little over a month ago and I made friends with a lot of people there. There's this one guy that I got along with very well, we have a lot in common and he's like the male version of me. We like the same ...

She wants a break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Ok so here's the rub, I'm a male 6 - 7 years older than his ...girlfriend? It's complicated. She recently decided that she wanted to take a break from the relationship because she constantly feels like a bad person due to the fact I'm making most ...

Should I stay with the guy in rehab or try the new, clean guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have started dating "lee" since dec i actually drove 2000miles to met him he drove w me back to my state to live w me everything was fine til he started his new job which was a nite job which ended up him finding drugs and booze... i kicked him ...

I'm slowly developing a hatred towards women...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - A girl that I've been crushing over for about a year just rejected me. In my lifetime I've developed crushes over many girls and not one of them ever said yes, I can't fucking take rejection any more, I can't even feel the pain, I'm slowly ...

I feel abandoned for wanting a serious relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - So tonight my boyfriend and I broke up, but I'm confused about the whole situation. Over the whole of our relationship he's sort of imposed his ideas (not living together / not wanting children / not wanting to plan for the future etc) and I pretty ...

I had sex with him yesterday and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and old friend just started talking to me again. Me and him had sex yesterday, he's 19 going on 20. I don't know what to do, I have known him for a long time, he doesn't want to hurt me. Can someone help me, please...