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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't want to be in control at all, I want him to control me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I'm definitely a girl with a rather large submissive streak, I can understand the reason he wants me to be more 'in-control' dure in sex....because, obviously it adds variety and spice to the relationship and it's a fantasy most men seem to have. ...

How do I warn this woman off my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a lady that is trying to get with him and he was honest enough to tell me. Now, how do I help him stop this woman from coming on to him. ...

Why am I disappointed? I'm not so excited about the new car!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Why am I disappointed? I'm not so excited about the new car? Ok, so my boyfriend purchased a 'classic' car. It needs tons of repair work. That will take a bit of time to get that baby in good shape again. Anyways, he had said 'first a ...

What can I do to diffuse this situation before it turns really bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months, we spend every Saturday night at his dad's house with his dad and twin siblings (boy + girl) aged 15. Recently his brother has been paying more attention to me, cuddling up to me, playing ...

Does the amount of lovers you've had in the past matter?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

19 May 2009 (?) - Hi, I'm 24 and just broken up with my boyfriend. He made me feel pretty bad a lot of the time and one of the things he said which upset me was that I've slept with loads of people and I'm a slag. He used to count on his fingers the people he kn...

If he thinks I'm that nice why can't we try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I'm confused I wrote a few weeks back about my ex breaking up with me, because I dated someone for 4 months. For those who may not have read my earlier writing... You see when I met my ex he was married and living with his wife and told me they ...

Should I forgive and move on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Sorry this is so long...complicated situation! My b/f and I have been dating for 10 months. I have major trust issues from a past relationship, and in March, I went through his phone and saw that he lied about going out to a bar with a co-worker...

He doesn't believe I was a virgin because I didn't bleed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Hi i am engaged and he took my virginity. i didnt bleed so now he thinks i wasnt a virgin and is getting upset. i think i tore it while stretchin one time and now what should i say/do? please? ...

Male tendency

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been in a relationship for the past 8 years and we are very possesive but he recently admitted that on screen that is tv or on net if there's a nude women he may be tempted to see that as it's a male tendency to see nude women... so ...

Sex life gone bad.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years. we are very happy and are moving in together next month. However our sex life annoys me. when we first got together I used to get oral sex from her but wasnt allowed to cum in her mouth, we ha...

I thought we were so well matched sexually but this is not the case now we have moved in together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - My boyfriend of four years gave a very false impression of his sex drive when we were dating. I had no idea at the time. Now that we are living together and our lives are melded I cop his true sex drive/interest which isn't very much. I was hon...

Recently married and wondering if it was a big mistake

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Hello all, please please can anyone advise me on this. My husband and i have been together for about 5 and half years. we got married about 6 months ago. And to be honest i just think i have made a huge mistake. The months leading up to the...

He broke up with me without a reason but do you think he will come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Hello everyone i need somehelp I went out with a guy for a year and he lives in austria now he dumped me with out reason he broke up with me but didnt explain why? do you think was the reason that he met another girl / is there any chan...

Where is this relationship heading?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - When is a good time to bring up the topic of where a relationship is heading? I have been seeing this guy for about 1.5-2months. However he then had to move for work. We knew this from the beguining and I never intended to fall for him like I ...

Keep my confused distance from him? Or do what my parents want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - So I'm graduating college in June. I have no desire to walk at the ceremony especially considering it's for a blank piece of paper. However, my family desperately wants me to walk and my grandmother even bought my cap and gown for me. To be ...

Confused, heartbroken and wondering if I should fight or walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - For the first time in my life at age 41, I fell in love with wonderful woman. I have/had an attachment disorder and through months of couselling a few years ago, I learned how to connect my heart and head as one. I met this woman and we fell in l...

I want to explore his bum like he explores mines but he's not keen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Hi I am 24 and have been in a relationship for 9 months with a 30 year old man and it has been great. Our sex during this time has mainly involved me being anally receptive, which I have enjoyed a lot. I have recently asked him if we could switch ...

Troubled relationship... my girlfriend is so frustrating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid... My girlfriend is frustrating me to no end. She is super jealous of my work. I work from home as a freelance web developer. I work sometimes 18 to 20 hours per day. I make time to spend with her when I can. Usually every weekend, a...

I'm so confused and messed up what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - argh ok i'm stuck in a rut. there are two guys i like and they both like me. the one i met a few weeks ago he is like really sweet to me and stuff calls me gorgeous and makes me feel great. then there is this other guy he went to my hig...

My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago, I need some advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Please i need advice. Me and my bf broke up about a month ago after a 2 year relationshp the reason was coz he thinks i'm too controlling, well i have to agree sumtimz i was. I still love him to death, i feel lost without him in my life. I know tha...

My fiancee broke it off and I want her back. Maybe send a birthday card?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Hello, My fiancee broke up with me a few weeks ago for reasons i have no clue. Her birthday is next week and i was wondering if i should send her a card? I still love her and care about her and i really do want her back, everyone is telling me...

Long distance relationship - I need help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - This might take a little bit but I'm going crazy over here and I need to know what to do. I've been dating this guy for months now, we met offline, he lives 5 hours away from me. We see each other a lot, so it's really neat, I like the distanc...

Does my ex wife want to be a family again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - About a year ago my ex wife told me she wanted a divorce. It devastated me I lost 60 pounds in a month; yeah I was a big boy. I tried so hard to get her to stop the divorce. I got down on my knees and begged her. I wanted our son to have both his ...

My husband is hiding his marriage from his friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - My husband and I got married five months back..My husband had married once and the got divorced. He told me the reason for their divorce is because his Ex- wife got a better paying job and then they started having problems. Even though I had all ...

How can I get out of this rollercoaster cycle me and my ex have gotten into??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - My ex and I dated for 2.5 yrs, and we broke up 1.5 yrs ago. We've had some time apart, but it's never stuck - he always ends up calling and putting himself back in my life, and then I end up falling for him again. (To be clear, this isn't an on ...

My husband doesn't have interest in me any more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I am 32, my husband is 28, we've only been married 2 months, but I found out that he masturbates on porn sites. I need desperatly help..I cry every night I think about it. I work nights and when I'm not at home, he masturbates. The biggest problem ...

I don't want to continue living with my mother-in-law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Hi every body, I am tired of living with my mother in law at the same house ,and i don't know how to convince my husband to move and live alone. We just got married a few months ago and i moved from another country to usa,befor i come here he ask...

My girlfriend always has to know WHY!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend always has to know why. It seems like I can't ask her to do anything without her knowing why I want her to do it. For instance, we'll be walking along and I'll say stop (because I want the people behind us to pass us) and she'll k...

I feel like he doesn't trust me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for three years and things are good between us, he treats me well and is always there when I need him. But the problem is he always asks questions that I find unnecessary like: "did you meet anyone today and did ...

Shes likes me, but doesn't like it....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - I have started seeing a women who is a few years older than me. Shes lovely, sweet and can just make me smile. Her last relationship was around 7 months ago and ended horribly, from what i am aware of he was strongly violent towards her, causing ...

What did I do to drive him away...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - My friend he is not acting the same. I don't know what to do! I'm crazy for him but he barely talks to me. I feel sad and confused because he likes me. I feel disappointed when he doesn't talk. This problem has been driving me nuts? How can I tell ...