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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do you think he'll miss me enough to give me a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - As soon as I met my now ex I had a huge crush on him, but he completely dissed me. So a couple of months later when I had completely forgotten about him I had him for a class. We started talking for about two or three months then he asked me to be ...

Is it more simple that I'm thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - I have recently started seeing a women who is in her early 20's. We're very different, but she always has a way to make me smile. The problem is she does confuse me in the way she acts around me. For example she goes very hot and cold. We'll have...

Gambling & trannies and its left me broken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - i'm writin this as i would like to know if this has ever happened to anyone else? i was in a relationship for 4 n half yrs we have 2 kids.i knew he gambled a little but i was in for a shock last yr i found out he had remorgaged his house and blew...

Have not seen my pregnant girlfriend in a month

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - I met my girlfriend and we hit it off right away. She is 28 and i am 29. From the day we met we spent every day together for 45 days, and fell in love. She was on birth control for 10 years and never got pregnant but for some reason she happened to ...

Am I overreacting to him choosing his acting passion over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now, and living together for a year. He's my first long-term relationship so I don't have much experience. I went on an exchange program to Japan last year and that's when it all star...

Girlfriend entertaining 'dirty' chat from other man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - (Please see the 'Can you trust a serial cheater' thread for background details if needed) In summary, I am in a relationship that lacks trust. I have basically been forced to check up on my partners phone and email etc. in order to gain any trus...

Did she do all this as a trap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Hiya guys, i really need some help on this one, im compleatly devestated over this, my ex bf of 9 months has just told me that his new gf of 4 months is pregnent, im more upset because he told me that he didnt want anymore children, The other th...

Did I push my husband into having an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - My partner for three years and 2 children has told me he has had an affair with a co worker more emotional than sexual ,it was coming that way so he finished with her.It lasted a couple of months and the reason he says he told me because I was ...

Meet up with him again? Or just forget it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I was seeing a guy for about two months. He is a teacher and is a lot older than me (I am 19 he is now 28) but this was not a problem when I was staying with him and around his friends. He got freaked out however when he came to stay with me at my ...

The pain that doesn't seem to go away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - hello. let me start off with im in love with a girl. I unwillingly fell in love. she works with me. she's my friend. we've agreed to only be friends but there has always been a very strong sexual tension aswell as a strong attraction between us. I ...

Why doesn't my b/f want to say "I love you" anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I love my bf 2 death i love him more than i ever loved anyone else in my whole entire life and i truly think he may b the "one" 4 me and he says he feels the same way about me..But last nite he said something that makes me doub his love 4 me.. We we ...

Will he ever forgive me and take me back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - On May 5th my boyfriend of 2 years dumped me. I feel like my wold has fallen apart, can't eat or sleep and the doctor has me on 3 types of tranqulisers.. Another couple that we had associated closely with split up 4 weeks ago - he just wasn't in l...

We meet up 20 years later...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - I loved a girl some 20 years ago. She said she liked me but was already seeing someone. I left it at that and we never met for the next 20 years.In the meantime, i married (happily). I happened to return to the same city as hers after these 20 ...

Never reached orgasm..giving b/f confidence issue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - anytime i make love with my boyfriend i dont reach orgasm easily except he plays with my clitoris.dis is giving me concern cos he feels i can neva be satisfied with him wat do i do?...

He stopped talking to me because people gossip all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I have guy friend he stop talking to me b cause people gossiping about us he never respond to my call I'm 5 years older than him we love each other I don't why he hate me now .he never had a girlfriend before. Should I keep calling him cause I ...

He takes everything so seriously that a big war breaks out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I'm really in a confusing mode..Between love and friendship..talking about love there are always silly fights in my relationship.. i really dono what to do..every small thing that happens he takes so seriously that a big war breaks out...re...

Does he want out? Or is he just sulking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I really need some advice! My partner, whom I live with, had a big tantrum. He was having trouble with his internet and asked me to call up the provider about it. I used to work for the company and was having a chat with the operator as the systems ...

He's having a baby living with the girl but yet he was still seeing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - i just got out of a two year relationship about 6 months ago and it feeels just like yesterday and still feels the same if not even worse. i just found out about a month ago that he is having a baby and lives with this girl. he never told me that he ...

I thought everything was fine between us, now she's depressed and is breaking up with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend and I have dated for 3 1/2 years. It has been wonderful, we have loved each other so much, we are both each others first true love. She always has said how great she thinks I am and we often enjoy thinking of one day getting ...

I have this huge problem with retroactive jealousy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I have this huge problem with retroactive jealousy. Before my husband and I started dating seriously, we were friends for about a decade. We are both in our mid-twenties, so we have known one another since we were kids. The adolescent ...

I feel like my boyfriend is abusive, so why do I keep staying with him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I have felt for a long time in my relationship that my boyfriend is on the abusive side. He's never hit me but he shout's at me and makes me feel really bad sometimes (this happens if he is worrying about something or feels bad about something he's ...