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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I need your views on this. Is he still in love with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Ok my guy and I have been together almost a year, we are engaged and buying our first home together. I'm kinda scared to go on with this because I think he misses the first girl he was engaged to in high school! They were thogether 3 years and he ...

I'm not ready to be a middle aged old bag!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I just had my 30th birthday last week, and it's a shock to reach that age where you have to feel ashamed of how old you are. I'm not ready to be a middle aged old bag. I wish and wish I were a young girl again. I've been extremely depressed, and ...

How can I get these girls to stop kissing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are very happy together, but girls keep coming up to me and touching me and doing other stuff when they know I have a girlfiend. Like today this girl from a different school came up to me and kissed me on the lips!!!! and my gf ...

Should I tell her about this lap dancer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - I've been with my current girlfriend since last September. We get on great and I'm generally honest with her. With one exception - sex. Before I met her, I was single for a year and during this time I visited a lap dancing club and paid for an ...

Girlfriend is sabotaging relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - My gf and I have been happily dating for nearly a year. Recently though, she's been out of sorts, crabby, non-loving, and generally miserable. She has self admittedly never been in a good healthy long-term relationship, and in fact, her life has ...

Help! How can I put his mind at ease?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three months now, but lately we've been having problems. Back when we first kissed, I was officially seeing someone else, so in effect I cheated on my last bf. I broke up with him straight away though, and have ...

An affair like no other!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I recently discovered that the relationship I’ve been in for the last six months is not at all what I believed it to be. The man I have been seeing is married to a woman who lives in Europe, but he lives here stateside. This man lied to me and y...

He lied! should I forgive and trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Last night, my boyfriend went out to play cards with his friend at the Legion. Before he left, he said depending on what was going on, maybe he would give me a call to come down once cards was over. He called me about 2 hours later to ask me to do ...

Should I just not get in touch with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Really feeling not so great at the moment... I wrote last week about seeing a guy, thought he was great, told me he had a girlfriend, went mad, calmed down and he said he'd be going back home to sort things out with her with the view to possible ...

This whole thing stinks of dog doo-doo..WHAT is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Im so neglected by my guy who use to show and tell me how he feels. I told my guy this and he says its because I complain to much. Well excuse me, I think talking and complaining r2 different things. Last week my guy and I was suppose to order ...

B/fgoing on craigs list and looking for men/women to hook up with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of one year has been gpingnon craiglist and talking men and women to hook up with. I just recently searched through his phone and decided to check his emails he has 14 unread messages so I was curious. I föhn out more than what I needed ...

You think he likes me or is he a complete idiot that I should cut out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, plz help with this. I had a drunken 1 nigth stand in uni with the guy who lives in the building opposite. We decided it was a mistake but decided to remain friends. We txt over Easter and when I arrived bk 2 uni after Easter he was wait...

If a guy is into you...wouldn't he text you a lot!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - its been just a week and i have been seein a younger guy (14 years) he is so sweet and attentive when i see him and says he wants to see how things go, but when we r not together he is very quite maybe a couple of texts a day, if a guy is into (like ...

I get jealous of anything my boyfriend does with out me...do I come last, in his life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I get jealous of anything my boyfriend does with out me! If he texts his friends more than me. Or goes out without me. Etc Things like this. I feel that if he does stuff without me he will want to do it all the time. And i come last! Its like ...

He hasn't texted me like he usually does! What's happening here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I know this might sound slightly petty but here goes... Ive been with my boyfriend for eight months. He has a full time job and I'm in six form. He's up early most days for work, and he always gives me a morning text and to see how i am, then h...

I have no more tears and I'm heartbroken! How long should I wait for him to call? .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Hi after 2 weeks I have not called my ex boyfriend. I have good days and then I have bad days. I'll briefly explain what happened. I dated my guy for 3 years, there have been good times and there have been bad times. But at the end of the day, we ...

I need help with my trust issues...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - help! im a 29yr old woman with a 10yr old daughter from a previous relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend (the 2nd one ive had since the split from my daughters dad when i was pregnant) for nearly two yrs...but i still dont entirely trust him and ...

Should I break up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - Should I dump my girlfriend? We have been together for about a year now. My problem is I always feel I am the one driving our relationship and organising things for us and doing things for her. My bday was on this sat just gone and she didnt...

Staying together for the kids....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - I haven't been in love with my girlfriend for a long time. We have just had our 6th anniversary, we have 2 kids, 5 and 4 years old. We were friends for many years before we got together. We are not married but have lived together and shared ...

I'm not sure how long I can continue being punished by him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I need some advice please. My bf wanted to know everything from my past, every last detail of who I was with, what I did with them, when, where etc etc. When he asked who I had slept with I lied. Reduced the number mainly as I was ashamed and regr...

Am I overeacting or should I just wait for him to open up to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for two months. we met in January, constantly hung out i seriously lost count since then till he asked me to be his girlfriend. within dating him for a month i told him i loved him because i couldnt help ...

Is it me....or him? What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years now...we have had our fair share of ups and downs and have split before for 3 months, but started to see each other again because he said that he really loved me and that he has really ...

He hit me several times but I cheated on him....what's worse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - He hit me several times but I cheated on him once. Whats worse ?? I cheated on him first month we got together and i continued to like the same guy for 3 months while i was with him. He forgave me and we stayed together. We've been together fo...

Is she playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - ok this is the last time. im too confused and in love yet I feel like im doing a pop quiz I didn't study for. so I wrote two other questions I would appreciate if they where read before you continue reading this one. I feel it would help you to ...

Should I give him another chance after he broke up with me and slept with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for almost 5 years and we lived together for almost 4. Recently I moved in with my mom to save money and he broke up with me and immediately slept with someone else. Now he wants to earn me back and says hes done with her. He even ...

Are we really meant to be? Why do we keep coming back to each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I will try to make this brief but there's a lot of history ..I have an ex boyfriend who I started dating about 10 years ago the first year or two were rocky...then had some really good times for about four years. The happiest times of my life where ...

She cheated on me and now I can't come up with a good bday present for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - hey every1 i posted a question last month abt a cheating girlfriend whom i was meant to propose to on d 20th of this month on her 21st birthday! she cheated she says she made a mistake i believe her but g part of me is stl very angry at her! ...

Ex having midlife crisis and now wants to be friends

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11 May 2009 (F) - i have been with my fella for over a year.. his best friend has just been sentanced to 9 months in prison and has received a letter from him explaining he wants to start a new when he gets out.. this has made my fella want to think and has ca...

He doesn't take me seriously

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - ? continue to see the man I dated last year although there isn’t a relationship between us. When I tell him that I want to see him more and be together he doesn’t take me seriously. Sometimes I try to be more hard and serious so as to make him ...

I don't want to leave her behind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - "the greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return" -from the movie "Moulin Rouge!" Oh it is so very true. I am 18, a German student that is 3 weeks from finishing High School in South Carolina, USA. I have lived in ...

Saw my ex and now I am unhappy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I Just saw an ex of mine for the first time in 5 years last night and now I have mixed feelings. He broke up with me 'cause he said he had some personal issues and needed time to sort things out. I was very sad 'cause I really liked him and I ...

How to help when she doesn't want consoling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is very upset. There is this lady she has tried to be best friends with for over 4 years now. I say "tried" because all this lady does is use her to watch her kids or do some labor around the house or lately borrow money from. I hate ...

Texts me all the time but makes excuses not to see me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I met this guy about 3 months ago he is a very shy guy I see him once or twice a week watch movies at his house he has even cooked me dinner he will text me every day morning noon and night he use to work nights and I worked days so our scheduals ...

He had an affair before we married... should I just come out and ask him if it's true?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - My husband Mark, and I have only been married for 5 months, we have a great sex life and we spend a lot of time together. A few weeks ago a female friend of mine that I have known for 6 years told me that she saw Mark with another woman at a ...

"What should red do...?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - What would you do if you have two friends one is named blue and the other is named green blue had a boyfriend who she broke up with because she couldnt take the fact that he has another baby with another girl. green is with blue's ex boyfri...

I'm heartbroken, confused and don't know what to think or do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend who is in the middle of his divorce decided to go away for one week to Europe after finding out I had gone on a date several months after we started dating. At that time, December 08/January 09, he had been acting standoffish, distant ...

I really don't like femdom but it seems a big thing for him..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Alright, i'm so totally confused I need to ask for help - and help from males as well as females would be appreciated! My fiance says he's into D/s with me being the submissive, and says he hates dominant women, but sometimes when we're having sex...

Am I being pathetic or is there something going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend nearly ten months. And everything is perfect. He's so loving and we have up to now not had one argument or anything. When me and my friends get together and have boy talks, i always say how much i trust him and ...