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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He just disappears! Is this worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hi, im writing this the night before my finals start.I have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. Every once in a while my boyfriend will go out on mad night (staying out all night and next day doing drugs)and not call. Late the next day he will say ...

I left Uni for this guy and he's treating me like I'm an idiot!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Well, where do I start? I need some advice. i've been with my boyfriend nearly a year and I love him so much and I know he loves me for he tells me every day, several times a day but lately that flair has disappeared. We're supposed to be moving in ...

Why do guys like to play games with your heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Why do guys like to play games with your heart? Its obvious sometimes how this guy feels about me but then it seems like he doesn't like me. It makes me sad when I don't talk to him and he doesn't care until later on. I don't like him playing games! ...

I care about her so much and just wish I knew what she thought about me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Hello everyone, I have been seeing this girl for about four months and I really care about her a lot. Things have been sort of rocky. Sometimes she just doesnt seem interested in me and other times it seems like she is really interested in me...

My friend, dating my personal girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I have a little problem, one of my friends wants to date my personal girlfriend! Please, I need advice on what to do. Please reply as soon as you can. Do I let him?...

What sexuality am I? Confused - lesbian or straight???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Basically ive just started to question my sexuality... ive always been straight and when i was younger had boyfriends but for the last 4 years ive just been having the odd snog on the weekend and foreplay with men as im 16 and just want to have fun. ...

I am in a new relationship. Please Helppppp!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I am in a new relationship, I've known this guy since high school and he's changed so much. When we were together in high school he was so touchy feely and always happy but now six years later he's gotten a whole lot quieter and distant and I don't ...

I can be extremely jealous and controlling...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now and I am extremely jealous and controlling. I was hurt in the past and he used to cheat on girls and has a really bad past but he told all of them about it when it happened and has told me ...

He doesn't seem bothered... am I being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Long story but im giving my ex another chance and we are taking it slowly. We spilt up cos he aint ready 4 commitment and hes had time to himself to work through his issues! But sometimes I feel that after weve had a nice day or evening together he ...

Should I stay, go, or simply give her space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Last year I met someone, me and we instantly connected and became friends. At the time she was engaged, but there was trouble in that relationship. She would come to me for advice and we would just talk about anything. I helped her through the ...

Opinions needed. Why do I feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - I have some insecurities as we all do i guess. However the girl im seeing seems to be hiding things from me. for example we went out last week with her friend and i happend to see a picture on her friends camera of a guy kissing her on the cheek. ...

How can I prepair myself to leave it and start again?

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4 May 2009 (F) - I know, I will have to leave my long term marriage. I have grown kids, and it is not really about parenting any more. But I wonder how can you deal with the regret, you have after you leave. One of my biggest fears, what is actually holding...

I told her the cold truth - and she hates me for it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hey, My friend (not me at all) just told me she is pregnant, with this guy that left her right after she told him. He was never a real relationship, which all her friends kept telling her, but she didnt listen. He had her just for the weekend fun, ...

He has pictures of his ex girlfriend hidden on his computer (but I found them).

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating 10 months now, and he broke it off with his ex approximately 2 years ago. One day, when left alone at his house with his computer, curiousity took the best of me and I ventured on to see what he looks at when...

It's a love/hate thing we have going on! Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

4 May 2009 (?) - Hey, I would really appreciate some advice here! I have been obsessed (this is an understatement) with this guy for a year now and for most of this time we have not been on speaking terms. He claims to hate me and my feelings towards him vary ...

She's doing my head in! What's going on with this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - hey, i am not sure if am doing this for advice or just to get it off my chest. i met this girl a while back. we dated for a short time before she said it wasnt going to work. she never gave me a reason why. i was crushed when she said it cos it w...

I'm shy--how can I ask him to take our relationship to the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - hello there i want to ask am in a relationship with this man and i am very shy becouse i am in love with him and and i dont know how to tell him and i want to move to the next step with him too and he never have the time for me at all but in the ...

Although he used me, I love the father of my child! How can I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - My ex left me, he strung me along thoUGH. He wOuld tell me that he wantd me back and then he would get with someone else. Yes i fell for it. I loved him, we had a child together. I didnt want to let go. I kept hoping he would wake up and realise ...

I get severely depressed at random times and guys run away when they realise they can't help me! Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Guys always run away from me. It hurts. I'm 21 and I suffer from Uni-Polar (Major Depressive Disorder) and I have been on meds for years but they don't "cure" anything, they just help a little and I can't keep a relationship. I'm not ...

Why all the stupid games? Why the stringing along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - What the hell is going on? I met a girl and we were instantly attracted to each other. We gradually got to know each other going out once a week. After about 4 weeks we started spending more and more time together and really opened up to eac...

Does he need time? Or is he fooling himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I'm sorry this is long but I needed to say it all.. please help and answer only if you read it all. Thanks so much :) After 2 years of a wonderful relationship my boyfriend broke up with me because he felt we needed space and time to figure out wh...

He can't get close to anyone... Does he do this because he is insecure about holding down a decent relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend well lets just say has a very womanising past! He has slept wiv nearly 100 people. He was single for a long time and has only had one serious relationship of 5 years! He quite honestly says hes fucked up cos of something that happen in ...

We don't make love any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - I need some advice here. My girlfriend and I don't have sex any more. Well, maybe once a month or so. I've been with her for over a year and a half now. For the first 10 months or so, we had sex frequently, and both put a lot of effort in to ple...

My life is dysfunctional, help me get over him please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I cant seem to get over this relationship, its been 8 years since i know him and he has been the only man in my life. I love him but he doesnt we dated for a year and then he got engaged to a girl who after a year of engagement got married to some1 ...

I want this marriage to work! How do I let him know how sorry I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I really need some serious advice here. So I'm legally married but my husband has been incarcerated for almost seven months now. Our relationship was a little rocky before the incarceration because we weren't living together and I was ...

My bf left me, and I have 6 kids! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - i woke up this morning and my boyfriend has left me.we had a big argument last night and i said things i didnt mean. He wanted to sort things out and said he didnt mean the things he said but i just went to bed. I've just got up and hes gone. He's ...

Can't stop thinking about my bf's friend! Is this fair to my bf-should we break up??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I'm 20 years old. I have been with my partner for 4 years and have two children with him. and i do love him. but since i was at school i have liked one of his friends. and all of a sudden this friend is spending a lot of time with our family and i ...

I ended the friendship because of his dishonesty..so why do I feel so low about it all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - What to do when the EX-boyfriend still lies to you? Why is it so difficult to be just be honest and upfront? I'd told him last year he needn't get back in touch till he was ready to be honest. Well, he did- but the lying still continues. WTH-- we ...

He left and no goodbyes

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - What does it mean when a guy you been dating for 2 years and couple of weeks left without saying goodbye? Should i let him go or find out?...

I know it was to break up with him but I feel so sad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hi, my name is Reyna, i need you to help me. Today I ended things with a guy who obviously didn't care about me. We dated for 4 years and i truly can't remember the last time i felt like i was worth something. I want to give you some quick inside i...

Relationship ended but we are still involved

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - I am hoping that there are people out there that can help me, I am really confused over this situation. I recently broke up with my ex nearly two months ago whilst we have remained good friends, I have still got feeling for him, and I was convince...

My boyfriend is obsessed with the "World of Warcraft", it is afecting our relationship, any advice that can help me deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost 6 months now. He's sweet, intelligent, funny, and all around, a terrific guy. But like everyone else, he has his problems. Recently, he is becoming more and more involved in World of Warcraft. Whi...

I don't know what to do with my relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - A few years ago, i met this guy and we became really good friends and after a while we started to date. we broke up, but still kept in touch and i fell in love with him. we had a on and off thing for around a year. well a year ago, he found another ...

I know he likes me as much as her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - i need help. This guy has a girlfriend. he talks to me more than he talks to his girlfriend. and we have great conversations(usually on the phone or through text), lots of fun together (only by ourselves though). Nobody has any idea that we even ...

My girl friend and I broke up... I miss her but I don't know how to cope

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I just broke up and we were going out for over a year. It started out great and we had many rough spots. She would get depressed a lot because of school issues and friends etc... and I would be her main support force. My friends ...