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Archived questions from: 22 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm married but have a feeling when we meet again something sexual will happen.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - When I was 16 I met a friend while staying with relatives for the summer. We both liked each other but were to shy to say anything. We kept in touch .the last 10 years. I am now married with a family and he is recently single. For al long as I can ...

Help! Long distance relationship, I live in US he's in the UK... falling in love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Help! I've been talking to this wonderful guy from the UK who im falling in love with.. the problem is i live in the US! he really likes me a lot as well, but im not sure if he's really falling for me yet. there is a 5hr time difference and he does ...

I'm really upset he lied to me about her liking him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so lately I've been looking at my bfs facebook page, and this girl writes on his wall, pretty much every day, with flirty little messages. (Bit of background - she lives in New Zealand, where he grew up, we live in the UK, but moving back to ...

Help!!! What's going on in his head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - my problem is i like this guy i'm sort of seeing we text, talk, hang out all the time, we kiss and well do everything a normal boyfriend and girlfriend would do so the problem is we aren't bf and gf, and i want to be. I have in the past when u ...

Girlfriend's PMT Stresses Me Out, Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Ok i've just met a wonderful girl, and i'm madly in love with her, i know this because it's diffrent than the feelings i've had with ex gf's, i am 17 and she is 16, shes slept over a few times now, but recently she has come on the PMT it really ...

How can I deal with her harrassment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating someone for a little bit more than six months, we happened to be roomates before we dated and then things got difficult, i saw a side of her i didn't like (a lot of arguing and even physical agressivity). i tried leaving her many ...

Is there a good reason why I should have to wear makeup to please him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Maybe this is a stupid question, I don't know. My boyfriend is 28 and I am 21; we have been dating about 8 months. Lately he and I have been having problems in our relationship, mainly communications but some other things also. A couple days ago we ...

Where do I belong ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - i hate being middle child because i feel i belong no where.i am not wanted at home and i am also compared to younger girls who have more then me and more skills then me.who i know my self is better then me its makes me feel such failure. because i ...

Will I ever be ready for another marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My late-husband and I met in seventh grade, got married a week after graduation from high school. We were married for a year and three months and had one child whom was born on September 11th, 2001. My late-husband worked as a security guard i...

Had sex with my sister, she says if I tell she will cry rape, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - When my sister and I hit puberty we started masturbating together because we were curious how it would feel. It turned out to feel great; but, around two years ago she started to do oral sex on me. On my seventeenth birthday weekend when my parents ...

I feel my husband spoiled our trip!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 8 months. We never took a honeymoon. This past week, I went to a conference for my job held at a very fancy resort about an hour and half's drive away. The room was paid for and so was my food and mileage. ...

Is there hope for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 11 years now. We have 3 beautiful children. Our marriage was a marriage made in heaven. Two years ago we got the internet and ever since then my husband spends hours online looking at other woman. Within the ...

My wife's affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - I'm a 48-year-old man, my wife's 46, and we've been married for 21 years. Yesterday I found out that my wife has been having an affair. A very close friend of mine who works as a delivery driver ("white van man" to us British people!) said he...

Who does he really want...me or my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - i beleive my bf is in love or likes my own cousin she said sick comments about sleeping with him and he says nothing and now like when we are laid up he wont touch me he turns his back to me im only 17 and my cousin is 20 and hes 21 maybe he wants ...

My crush has a crush on my friend should I forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - i have a HUGE prob my bestfriend (iya) has a crush on (edward) my crush. Hi Im hazel it started like this in my school theres a new comer its edward he's sooo cute so I told my friend iya about it, then I planned to talk to edward, we hang out a li...

Dating a guy who shares a room with his so called female "best friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - hi! i have been dating mi guy for two months now and the problm is he is staying with a girl in the same room, and when i ask him he says the girl is her best friend and there is nothing that will separate the two of them,its eitheir he introduces ...

Is being kissed when you didnt want to be cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Cutting a long story short, i was in a strip club on a stag do recently when a stripper kissed me on the mouth. It was for no longer than 2 or 3 seconds maximum (and probably less). She didn't put her tounge in my mouth and i certainly did not kiss ...

My boyfriend sneaks out of bed to watch porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Well I know this kind of situation has been bought up on here before, but would feel really appreciative if i could have some answer's personal to me. See the thing is I escaped an abusive relationship with my ex husband, for example controll...

Karma took its revenge on me so will it take its revenge on my cheating ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - i made a bad mistake in my previous relationship and im not afraid to admit it, than karma came back to me and i deserved it.she cheated on me and treated me like dirt bad, than she dumped me, now i want to know will karma go back to her for what ...

Stressing over the choice between my ex and my current boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I am making myself ill with stress over my current situation. I was dumped 1 year ago by the love of my life and met someone else very quickly, about 5 months into this new relationship, my ex apologised for his behaviour and told me he still loved ...

He loves me but doesn't want to get engaged

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - hi all.I need some help. I have been with my bf for 2 yrs we always talked about marriage, when i sat him down he told me he wasn't ready to be engaged. So I was ok with it but he got mad cause he wanted me to be devastated. Should I stay with him ...

10 years platonic relationship..am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - After 10 years in a kind of "platonic" relationship with a woman 40 years younger than I am,I am wondering if i am wasting my time.We are entirely compatible and anticipate meeting once a week plus exchanging E-Mails and phone calls.We love each ...

Is he with her for revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half the first time. We broke up, he got a new girlfriend 3 days later, I knew that she was just a rebound. Well they broke up after 7 months because she didn't want to be with him anymore and ...

I'm controlling and I need to stop!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Help me please; I beg you anyone, I'm a controlling person but i don’t like it. I don't hit her and stuff I don’t do to much serious but we had an argument on it and I need to change I’m over protective Because of past relationships not so tru...

Plain confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - So, let's say we have girl.A(her) and guy.A(totally not me)... They are teenagers in school Girl.A is somewhat of a sadist, and has done "bad things" to guy.A before(physically, not emotionally or anything else)for no apparent reason Girl.A's...

After 10 years and two kids together, he still doesn't want to marry me. Should I stick with it or move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - First of all, I thought that at this stage of my life things wouldn't seem so bad. But Then again, maybe I'm just looking for problems like my bf says to all the time....that and I'm wrong!!! We've been together for almost a decade and have two kids ...

Should I keep trying to make this relationship work?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Should I keep trying to make this relationship work? I have known my partner for 9 years. We are in late 30s ealry 40s. We nearly got together twice before but remained close friends and then finally three years ago we did. She had many partners...