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Archived questions from: 18 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel jealous when I see my ex with a new guy. Why do I feel like this, and what can I do about it?

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18 May 2009 (M) - I came out of a 3 month relationship with a girl at college. Our relationship wasn't very good. She was always breaking plans, and she had the audacity to tell me that she didn't feel like I'd "swept her off her feet", which is the kind of guy I ...

Ever since her affair I have closed the door to tolerance and patience

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18 May 2009 (M) - I'm making the decision today as to whether or not i will remain in my relationship. Over the past year and a half I've been involved with someone whom i thought i loved. She definitely cheated on me and there is plenty of evidence that she d...

Now he thinks it's all my fault! Help!

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18 May 2009 (F) - ok i dont no what to do! Long story but one of my mates who tbh you probably wont bleieve me but hes the ones of the nicest lads ever! Ok he liked a girl and still does and asked her out but then she changed her mind... and i got an email off ...

2 weeks into my relationship and I've kissed another guy. Now I don't know what to do. Help!

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18 May 2009 (F) - Two weeks into the relationship and i've already kissed another guy whilst drunk... I feel awful I know how bad this sounds I really do. I went over my alcohol limit and stupidly kissed some random guy...It's tearin' me up I know it's only two we...

Emotionally tired and unsure if I should move on?

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18 May 2009 (F) - I have a long, complicated history with my boyfriend of over 3 years. When we first started dating, I thought we were in love. We matched in every way. I later found out, he wasn't completely honest with me and had not made a clean break with his ...

He proposed to me in the shower and then did doggy style!

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18 May 2009 (F) - Like many couples, after sex, my boyfriend and I shower together. This usually leads to more erotic play; oftentimes it is the highlight of sex for me, especially since I find the water incredibly stimulating. My boyfriend is aware of this and ...

Going nowhere...AGAIN

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18 May 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy kind of over the past few weeks and I'm getting the feeling that it's going no where... again. The first couple of weeks were great, he took me out and we got along so well. I thought 'ya know, maybe this is it...' Well ...

Why did my wife ask my opinion and then do the exact opposite?

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18 May 2009 (M) - A few weeks ago, I got an email from my wife asking if it was all right with me to have my 18 year old stepdaughter's 20-year-old boy friend move in with us -- because he was kicked out of his house (his parents are going through a divorce). I ...

My husband told me he's gay but he wants to be "ex-gay"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - My husband told me yesterday that he was gay. It wasn't a big announcement, he just said to me "I have something to tell you, it's important!" so I sat down and listened. He admitted he was gay, and said tearfully "I DON'T want to be this way! I ...

He's more interested in food than sex

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18 May 2009 (F) - My husband does not want sex at all. No matter how I try to initiate it - sexy lingerie, romantic meal, kissing passionately - he just refuses sex. I know why - he's more interested in eating. He eats almost anything - from pizza to curry to a fi...

I told her I had intense feelings but I haven't heard from her now

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18 May 2009 (M) - I was a freshman in college. I say was because its summer time and I am now offically a sophmore. But i had to transfer from my first college because of something at home, but I loved my first college. At this school, I met this girl. She's a ...

I made out with another guy but am not going to tell fiance

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18 May 2009 (F) - So, I have know my fiance for most of our lives. He's one of my best friends, but the other night I made out with this guy I've known for like 12 years (no sex, just making out). Yes, I was drinking, but I wasn't drunk. I only had one drink. I...

Should I just accept that "boys will boys"??

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18 May 2009 (F) - I've just started dating a guy who is very attractive and a huge flirt. He gives girls a lot of attention, and they give it back to him. Girls on Facebook are always asking him to hang out or call him, and every time we go out I catch him making ...

If I think he's cheating does that mean he is?

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18 May 2009 (F) - I sure hope someone can help me or just tell me it's all in my head! OK here it goes: I was married for 16 yrs got divorced after finding out he was cheating ( He left me and his 4 kids for her) I tried to get back in the dating game only to be ...

Going to boot camp! Leaving the guy behind!

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18 May 2009 (F) - I moved to california about 5months ago to start a new life. While I wasn't looking for love, I did find it. When we met, I made it clear to him that I was hesitant about rushing into a new relationship and that I would like to take things slow ...

Do I continue with my new boyfriend or see if I can work things out with my other friend?

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18 May 2009 (F) - So i had this guy friend, and we decided to start a courtship... and it did go well, but later on he made up these stupid excuses like" you remind me of myself when i was like that" and "your voice sounds like a 13 year old, your so imature" "your a ...

Please help, I'm really upset. Do you think I'll ever get another chance with him?

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18 May 2009 (F) - My ex and I have known each other for about 9 months, we work in the same place but in different departments, we were friends for 6 months and we were gf/bf for 3 months. I'm six years older then my bf I'm 28 but we act and look the same age and ...

Commitment phobic...?

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18 May 2009 (F) - Hi I’d like your advice, about 4 weeks ago I met a guy on an internet dating website who I was initially extremely forward with me. I saw his pics on line and we chatted online for a while and he seemed really nice and intelligent as he has his own ...

Is this an STD? I'm scared... help!

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18 May 2009 (F) - Ok basically im 18. i was having oral fun with my boyfriend (my 1st) and then his semen was like white/water (maybe precum?) then dark yellow. he even said oh its dark yellow lol... he's only had a sex with some girls and always used protection ...

Any ideas for bringing this relationship back from the grave?

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18 May 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for nearly 3 years and the last few months he has been completely withdrawn from our relationship, he hardly talks to me, he is all the time saying mean things to me and so on and so forth. Last night i finally ...

I feel threatened by her and I wish I wasn't so insecure.

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18 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been back together for a few motnhs. We have been doing pretty well..or so i thought. My ex best friend had gone out with him behind my back, almost a year ago. I have put it in the past, and i feel like he has earned my ...

We're just friends, so why does it hurt knowing he slept with somebody else?

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18 May 2009 (F) - For some really crazy reason i'm really hurt my best male friend, we had a random conversation regarding sex questions, he asked me how many guys have i ever slept with, i answered him and asked him the same question, his answer was 3. I cant ...

Asked her to meet up but it went a bit wrong, now I've not heard from her.

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18 May 2009 (M) - Hi all, just a strange situation goin on and would like some input. Ive been chattin to a girl and we arranged to meet up, then on the day of the date she kinda gets flaky to which i send her an email stating a few things to put her mind at rest if ...

Is it really a bad idea to tell her I like her?

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18 May 2009 (M) - Afternoon Aunts and Uncles. I'm finding myself in a strange situation. I'm seeing a girl its fairly new. Infact we've had about a 5 dates, and if anyone asked i would have to answer we have not reached the stage of Girlfriend and boyfriend...

He is in a relationship but wanted to sleep with me...what is he thinking?

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18 May 2009 (F) - im still madly in love with my ex and cant seem to get over him at all no matter what i do hes always in my thoughts... we slept together on a few occasions i only slept with him because im still really in love with him and thinking he might be ...

Thinking about changing myself so I can get him back

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18 May 2009 (F) - ok, last time i asked this i dont think i got enough answers, i need to hear everyones opinion, cuz im really stuck and madley stupidly in loveee me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. and during a break in these 2 years i had sex ...

He thinks he can change but is it fair for me to ask that of him?

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18 May 2009 (F) - I was in an online relationship for nearly 4 years until i met and made a friend. Through this new friendship i realised wanted i really wanted from a relationship. It made me realise that my online relation wasn't the "great" thing that i had ...

Why doesn't he get it that I don't want to talk to him?

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18 May 2009 (F) - i'm so confused with guys right now. a while ago i went to a party, drank and hooked up with this boy i met. after that night he kept texting me nonstop. at first he only bothered me by texting twice if i didnt text back within a certain amount of ...

Does he want me? Or just a relationship?

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18 May 2009 (F) - I had an affair while I was married and unhappy. It happened once (he was not from here) and was totally unexpected. I kept in touch with him for a year by email and sometimes phone until I recently divorced. I refrained myself from showing any ...

Can it be salvaged? Or did I already screw it up?

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18 May 2009 (F) - Ok, was seeing this guy for about 3 months- yeah, not a long time (though he'd been trying to get a date with me for 2 years), but I felt we had a good connection, and it seemed like feelings were growing between us...him saying stuff such as "I ...

No romance for me but he's still madly in love. Should I leave?

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18 May 2009 (F) - First, some background - I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 30. We've been seeing each other for almost 2 years now and I'm thinking of calling it quits, but I'm afraid I'll regret leaving. What should I do? From the start I've noticed big differences ...

How do I get along with my dad we always falling out?

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18 May 2009 (F) - Hey, okay so my dad is a douche bag, this is the story. I just moved in with my dad in December, and i've been alright, then he started calling me a liar, and he just never lets me do anything, i have been thinking it's because of my step mom who...

Why has he lost sexual interest in me?

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18 May 2009 (F) - What are the causes for a husband to lose sexual interest with his wife? Any opinion is appreciated....

He said "I love you" and I think it was too soon, what now?

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18 May 2009 (F) - Well I just started seeing this guy and well I really like him. But he asked me to be his girl friend a few days after I met him and then one night I went over to his house and he told me he loved me. I think that was way way to fast. What should I ...

My friend gets nasty when she drinks, how do I deal with her?

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18 May 2009 (F) - Really need some advice please, I have a good friend who has some medical issues and personal and work stress and the moment, somis stressed and likes to drink at her house, (she doesnt go out often) in the evening, I will often visit her at ...

Why did she contact me all of a sudden?

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18 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend who last month turned 25 broke up with me over 4 months ago. It was not a bad break up, she felt as if she wasent putting the effort i was in the relationship. I was sad , heartbroken but went on. We dated for 1 year, well I kept busy ...

Do I treat him the same way he treats me?

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18 May 2009 (F) - I think my marriage is headed for a divorce and we haven't even been married for two years. Our one year anniversary was April 9th. He forgot. Which is nothing unusual, he would forget his own name if he didn't have to sign paperwrk at his job. His ...