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Archived questions from: 8 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He always moans about money and never has enough to pay bills. But he has enough for booze and drugs!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Help! I've been seeing my boyfriend for just over a month now and we've already moved in together. I know that seems quick but we really get along and it seems like we've been together for years. The relationship is great, we get along just fine and ...

Big fight over b/f's computer...was I wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I spent the night at my boyfriend's place last night. I was laid off 3 months ago, so I didn't really have anywhere important to go the next day. Well, my bf left for work at 7:15am this morning, and I woke up at 9:30am. I called my bf, as I ...

I'm afraid he'll leave me - he doesn't seem sure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - my guy and i have been dating for at least 8 months now. from the beginning it was wonderful. he is an amazing, creative, kind individual. we've both made mistakes. i've been overly emotional and overbearing because he made the mistake of lying to ...

Single mum can't cope with-out abusive boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - hi all i have made a real mess of things so far, I have been in a relationship for 11 years and it was really bad he was very controlling and had no interest in the relationship. i have been told it was mentally abusive it feels like it was, but im ...

He does everything for her and I always come last

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a year. When I met him he swore he was separated from his wife of ten years, mother of four children. When she found out about me she put a restraining order against him and me and him went through hell to try to get ...

Flirts with his ex in front of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Help, ive been with this guy for only just over two weeks and he flirts with his ex INFRONT OF ME! He seems much more interested in her than he is in me. What should i do? ...

My best friend broke us up then she dated him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I can't get over this situation and it drives me nuts, it's been about 3 years and this is the story. I've had this friend (let's call her X) and we'd known eachother since 4th grade. Inseperable for most of our friendship. In 11th grade I started ...

Issues in the bedroom with my husband of 15 years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been married 15yrs but up to a few years ago things were mostly good. But the last few years hes changed! He has developed walking around wanting to be naked. Sitting downstairs watch tv no clothes on. Even if we have our ...

We only broke up a week ago and she is already in love with my former best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - So me and my ex broke up about 1 week ago. Stupidly I tried to rush things, and ended up making things worse. She said the reason we broke up is because she wanted space and was not sure about the relationship. She also said that we had been through ...

Madly in love with a man who is engaged!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - hi am in the same situation as all of u, i am involved with a man for the past 3 yrs and he is already engaged i am madly in love with him bt he is still with his fiancee most of th e time he spent with me infact when i say i'll leave he come to ...

What is wrong with this woman? I think she has a personality disorder!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - I just received this email from my gf. We just recently got back together after a week apart. We were texting back and forth on Saturday and she ended up calling at 4am after knocking on my apartment door at 3am. Sunday and Monday night she made ...

My future wife to be is still frequenting chat rooms and dating sites!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - After 3 years together and making future plans, for the third time i have found my almost wife to be is still frequenting chatrooms,registering on dating sites and texting men from these (usualy younger). From day one she has denied doing anything ...

How can I boost my husband's confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - My husband and me have been married for 4 years now. He's recently started taking confidence classes after having worries about his confidence in social situations, and has done well in them. Recently we had a dinner party at our house, and ...

Our relationship seems to be going backwards!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a nearly 4 years now and whilst he still makes me happy we seem to be in reverse - we moved in together almost immediately and since then we've taken steps back. Living together turned into living alone which now ...

My wife was doing things sexually with some other guy that she wouldnt even do with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - So my wife and I have been married for only about a year and six months. And just this last summer we had split up over a fight. The break up lasted about three months. And I'm having a hard time getting over what we discussed when we got back ...

Is there life after a marriage breakdown?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - OK, it's over. If you read any of my previous questions you can chart the decay and destruction of my marriage, it's all there. We're now going to seperate. her choice, not mine. She says she needs to "find herself" and decide what to do with her ...

Is it possible to have a LDR with someone you've just met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - About a month ago, I met this guy and after chatting non stop for days on end, he asked me out on a date. We went out on a couple more as well. I think it went really well, and he seemed/seems to like me,as he said he thinks im absolutely gorgeous ...

Worried my girlfriend might be in love with an ex-student of her's!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - I've been dating a woman for one year. We've been very romantic together, the lovemaking was always good, we communicate well, everything seems or seemed wonderful. Recently, however, she mentioned how she is being contacted from an ex-student of ...

Married but attracted to my co-worker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Married HR Rep attracted to Coworker. I have been married for almost a quarter of a century to a man who is my best friend, but with whom no intimacy now, or ever existed. We sleep in separate rooms on two different floors. Because our marr...

How do I get out of my marriage, I'm not happy at all.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - I have been married 4 months and I have never been happy since, My wife and I have been fighting for ages, even before we got married, she terminated the pregnacy a week before our marriage and made things worse, as I crying to have a baby and be a ...

My ex feels I have no right to be jealous...

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8 May 2009 (F) - My girlfriend and best friend prior to us getting together, recently broke up with me because of my apparent jealousy towards her new friend. two weeks later she started seeing this friend, telling me that it was never her intention on being with ...