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Archived questions from: 25 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Want someone else but in a long term relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a relationship proble. Ok, so I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. Our relationship has been quite stagnant for a while. About year ago, he told me he wanted to have a break because he didn't even really expect us to be ...

I think my g/f is cheaing, I'm losing her, and don't know what to do about it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. I have never had an online question like this but I think it is a good idea. All my friends won't listen to me they just tell me to get over her. It is not that easy. I'm a senior in high school and have ...

She cheated, I'm worried she'll do it again, want to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - hi this is my history:i met a very beautifull girl i dated her for 3 months she told me she was virgin,well one time she told me that she was not ready to be with me so i understood and left..2 months after she started texting me saying many things ...

Confused relationships, please give me advice to help the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - right i have liked this guy for about 1 year but never really spoke. then his bestfriend who liked my bestfriend trued to set us up then the guy i like got a girlfriend and we only spoke occasionally. well the guy that liked my bestfriend then liked ...

My supervisor asked a co-worker to help me, but he touches me too much, what are your thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I am a married woman. I am quite quiet in my job. I say hi to everyone but i am not that communicative. I used to be very friendly, but was wrong judge specially from men, so I have changed my behave on jobs. Well, there is a man with whom I ...

He says he doesn't know if we will be together in 5 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 years but he wont move our relationship forward and live together. i'm 30 he's 31 and i have a son who is 12. We have discussed it several times but now he says he doesn't want to live with me or have ...

We have a child together, but my girlfriend's stubborness and my defensiveness are hurting us, suggestions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have trouble communicating. Some of the things she says comes off the wrong way, and her tone of voice throws me off. She has an aggressive tone of voice, which she's had trouble with. We get into arguments because, of the way ...

Hurt,confused, angry, sad & lonely all because of him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and this guy and I have been going together off and on for 3years. Last year for my b-day he gave me a ring and told me it was b/c he really loved me and cared for me and wanted me to kno that we were in a serious ...

My boyfriend is blaming me for becoming pregnant, but he didnt wear a condom so arent we both equally to blame?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is blaming me for becoming pregnant but as much as i should have asked him to put a condom on, he didnt think to either. I'm mature about it and i understand that we were both absolute imbociles and we BOTH made the mistake ...

Abusive ex wants us back in his life after four years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - The father of my baby humiliated me when I was pregnant, he said the baby is not his I suffered my pregnancy.I forgave him after I gave birth I accommodated him clothe and fed him.He turned to be abusive I left him for good.He called me names that I ...

I feel that my husband does not desire me or love me anymore, how can I know for sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I don't feel like my husband loves or desires me anymore. We've been together since I was eighteen, and now I 'm 24 and he is 31. Whenever he is off work he wants to be somewhere else with his friends, doing things away from me. We are never ...

We broke up bitterly, I said some awful things, he does not want to talk, should I apologize with a letter and keep moving on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - After dating for 3 years, 2 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. It was a terrible breakup, I still cannot believe how everything went down. I think about it and it infuriates me, that I gave him my love. One day I am upset and then the next ...

I am not American, married to stay in this country, now I am miserable, I need help with my marital problems, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - i don't know my mind and i don't know what to do , i am not american and i come to this contry with work visa for 2 years and then i know with my boyfriend about 10 months before my visa exprise , and then i get marride with him because 2 reason and ...

He is being very distant and I am feeling ignored, what can I do to stop this rude treatment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - My dilemma is with my bf of 5mths. At first, he was the running after me, so i got to know him and liked him mutually back. He's an awesome guy, and things are usually great between us. We both have history of being in relationships in which both of ...

Any suggestions for a self-addictive, compulsive person, who wants a good relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I know it is a ridiculous question really, but I need to hear other people's perspectives. Will I ever be able to be in a healthy relationship? I have an addictive personality. It has manifested in numerous ways. I have sought professional...

Always the lover - not the girlfriend. What AM I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Hi, So I commonly start dating people and fall for them. And they don't want to be my boyfriend, but instead my lover. In the recent instances of this, it is because they don't feel as strong a connection with me as they have previously felt ...

Drama Queen! I'm sick of it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - i am with a girl. we planned a trip to hawaii but she cancelled because she will have her period then. we were supposed to go to a music festival yesterday but she canceled because i would not apologize to her for not opening a door for her all...

What does a girl have to do to become COMPLETELY desired by her man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I believe in some cases that the help provided here has shaped and even changed the outcome of some peoples lives. I desperatly need a little coaching or direction myself and would sincerely be gratfeul for any advice. What does a girlfriend hav...

She has a short fuse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - So... Ive been together with this girl for a year and almost eight months. we have been having a hard time for already half a year, whats bothering me is that she is always on the edge, always annoyed at me, she has a really "short fuse". obviousl...

He hurt me, so will he do it again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - i met my ex last year summer time,he bumped into me in a chip shop got hes mate to ask for my number. i refused to give it. fate brought us together because he found me on a chat site a few weeks later. he was the type of guy that was unique send me ...

Relationship worries! Am I insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - Hello again, well whilst writing my previous question, i began to think, am i insecure? paranoid? scared?? i was wondering if any of you might be able to lend a hand with this, you see, in short, if i get a girlfriend (like i have now) i feel like ...

If I break up with him I don't need to worry about pleasing anyone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I have a problem, a big problem, and I think this will mean I will NEVER be able to be happy in a relationship. Ok, I've only had one boyfriend, we're still together, but I'm thinking of breaking up with him. The reason being I'm too jealous, ...

I know I need to let go of the past, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - Alright, so I've met this girl and she is incredible. We love each other and everything is just hunky dorey. There's only one thing wrong. It's her sexual past. I was a virgin before I met her, but she wasn't.It's not too bad, but it still eats me ...