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Archived questions from: 29 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I have just broken up with my married boyfriend but I don't know if I've done the right thing...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Last year i met this guy and i didnt know he was engaged,we were seeing each other almost every night in my place,we were getting on with each other so well and after 5-6 weeks his fiance called me and told me that they are engaged but i didnt tell ...

What does he REALLY want? I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - So I am really good friends with this guy, and he lives about two hours away. We have known each other for eight months, but it is hard to see each other. He is always the one to call me and text me though, and it is usually his idea to hang out. ...

Can't forget his ex, even though we are married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and my husband is 21. We have been together for a few years, and been married for about 7 months. At first, I was treated second best to his ex, who constantly tried to break us up and cause trouble between us... After almost calling o...

Is my friend's analysing correct?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - ok well basically I heard a rumour about this guy [sean] who i've liked for ages, the rumour was about him and this other girl, so my friend text him on my phone and asked if the rumour was true and when he replied he said "NO. Definitely not true." ...

Partner had an emotional affair 2 years ago but still talks to the girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - my partner had an emotional affair 2 years ago, but still talks to the girl via email despite my repeated requests for it two stop. my partner told me that it is no longer a romantic relationship and finds it hard to end it as the girl has problems ...

I want some adventure in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have only been together a couple months and already moved in together. At first it was basically just me staying with him, we didnt register me as living here or anything, but now we're going to so i can get work, hopefully. I'm ...

I let a man use me but wanted him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I have let a man use me.because i felt so low bout myself thats how he made me feel. And thought i wasnt worth anything else! It puts me in such a negative state of mind! Comments like im with u cos i like to do my bit 4 charity.i feel sorry 4 ...

Boyfriend fine one minute and flips out the next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 2 years 3mnths. I finished him recently because we were both under a lot of strain and the constant arguments between us were hassling our work. Two days later, I slept with him. He knew that I love him, ...

Why did he say that he wished I was a good part of his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Dear cupid My boyfriend said to me that he wishes i was a good part in his life?what does he mean?when i told him that the meanin is clear that this sentence means am a bad part?he denied it sayin it doesnt mean that and that i always in...

Boyfriend had secret account email but says he was just curious

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 Yrs. we were engaged and everything ready to move in this coming December. He's been the most caring boyfriend with me. Very respectful, gentleman, sweet, always listened to me, in general...I thought he was the ...

Together since we were teenagers, our relationship has deteriorated with time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Ok so I will be as breif as possible. I am 24 and my Special other is 28. We have been together since I was 16 and lived together since I was 17. We were a great couple up until about 3 years ago. Something just changed. Neither of us are interested ...

Stay with the guy who lied to me or marry a person of my parent's choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Hi..! I am in relationship with this guy since 5 months i.e. from Dec end. We got to know each other through phone and usually communicated through phone and after talking thrice or some more times he proposed me. At that time I hadn't seen him...

Do I have to forget her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - Hello to all... I have a problem, i.e. I love a girls too much. but now she get marriage with someone. she was also loves me. we don't have any physical relationship. As i told you she is married now, and don't have any contact with me. but so...

How to break-up without breaking a good man's heart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - who to choose? how to break up without breakign a good man's heart? 5 months ago in Munich I met a silly, skinny Swiss boy. ok, he's 24 and I'm 22, but still... we laughed, got drunk, kissed, snowball fought, poked, and danced our way into l...

Do I let him go? He now wants children and I still don't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now (I am 37 he is 32). At the start of the relationship we had quite an open conversation in which I said that I had never been that interested in having children and that I felt indifferent ...

Why is he keeping our relationship a secret from the people closest to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 10 years on and off. We lived together for two years, but then i left because i felt empty. He was hurt, and after i left, i wanted him back. We both live seperately now,but are back together. In the ...

Is it possible to have a girlfriend for that long and fall for someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - hello, well i have a really confusing situation that's been bugging me for over a year now!!! last year, i met this amazing guy at uni, i liked him from the first time i saw him staring at me. for the first couple of months, i didnt know him...

Why is he waiting for his ex to agree with the break-up before he can be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I been dating this guy and he promised to make our relationship official as Boy and girl friend relationship once he have settled with his ex gf. He mentioned break up with his gf and is not picking her call up, but his gf keep on calling his hous...

I love her, but she's completely inconsistent

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - Hey everyone well how to start im 17.. my ex is 18.. we went out for about 1 year .. i love her to death, i would do anything for her.. she broke up with me about 1 month ago, the day she broke up with me she went to some party,got drunk,high, ended ...

I miss her, but don't think I can be "just friends"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for a month and we had a great time but she is leaving in a year and a half so she says she doesn't want to commit to me, so she only wants to be friends, so we don’t get hurt later on. I can understand that but I can't be ...

My boyfriend can't stop lying to me about everything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - A guy I am seeing keeps telling me lies. Sometimes he lies about things that don't even matter, and I even tell him that if he had told me the truth I wouldn't have cared, yet he still lies. For instance, he and I were laying out at the pool and he ...

When do I dismiss what he said and listen to my own heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I don't know where to draw the line. Less than a year ago, when I started a relationship with my (ex)boyfriend I met while traveling, I told him from the get go that I didn't even want to have a relationship, that I am in a phase of life where I ...

Bothered that the ex remarried, and my current relationship isn't great

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Hi all Please could someone answer this. Recently I heard my ex got married it was like someone had put a knife through me-I don’t understand why when I was with him we had a house-which he later sold-I relinquished my rights on breaku...

Hopeful and in love, or is he just a cheater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfreind for 4 yrs broken up for some short times but we always manage to work it out.i love him and he wants to get married how do i know hes for real and he has cheated before but i got thru it, one of my good freinds says ...

Controlling, disrespectful boyfriend -- or am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for 2 years. We actually knew each other 3 yrs prior just as friends talking. Well, I have many things that I consider a red flag. When we moved in together he became very jealous. He would accuse of doing things ...

Broke up badly, we share mutual friends, and that is becoming a problem, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I had a major fight with my best friend, he finished the friendship and he wants nothing to do with me. This happened 6 months ago. I've moved to the next city so I don't see him anymore, however he still hangs out with mutual friends that I'm in ...

He tells me he cares, but he doesn't think there is any future for us, what is the problem, I am confused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Hiya!! Could someone please help me as I feel so confused! I am 45 and my boyfriend is 50 we have been together for about 3 months now. but have know eachother for about 2 years, We went on holiday for a week and had a great time, Since we got back ...