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Archived questions from: 14 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is he being self-conscious about the age gap or is he trying to hide something from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - So I am dating an older man who is an adjunct teaching piano at a university. I'm 23 and he's 30 and we've been going out for two years. I was over at his place recently and he had to go into school to hear some of his students play in a recital ...

Parents took his phone and now we can't talk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - So I met this boy over the internet. His name is John and I'm absolutely wild about him. the thing is that I know that it doesnt feel right to flirt with a guy who I've never even met but as we started talking we got close. We also texted. his ...

He's happy to tell me what's wrong with me but doesn't want to hear about his faults

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I seem to get into arguments about the same thing. Often it will be about something that I do not like about a situation going on. After trying to talk about things we blow up at each other and start insulting each other and ...

I think he's two faced and not sure tht I can trust him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I am in a very complicated situation and would like some advice. My boyfriend and I are both 20 years old and we have been dating for over a year, starting around winter 2008. When we first got together he was always there for me. He didn...

A great bit of fun and no strings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Im seeing two men, one is my long term boyfriend the other a man i met in a club and have met him a few times, he knows i have a boyfriend but still wants to meet and emails and texts me everyday....im just wondering why he is doing this? do you ...

How do I heal from a long term traumatic relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - How do I heal from a long term traumatic relationship? I just disovered he was always half a person, lieing to me, deceiving me, for 4 years; I left him once but he came back begging an I took him back; he has been sexually abused as a chil...

I don't know how to move past the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - My bf and I met in college. A few months into our relationship I graduated and moved. Things were going well in spite of the distance and we'd spend a lot of time on the phone and see each other when we could. Then he started to get jealous of my ...

Volatile, stubborn, disrespectful, blown out of proportions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Hi.......how can a person who you loved so dearly one day and something ticked him off, he made up these things in his head he became overly jealous, he is going through a terrible loss and not in his right mind. BUt that gave him no excuse to ...

I'm uncomfortable with him going to a speed dating party. Am I overthinking or...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Hey. I dunno if I'm just being a typical woman here and giving this too much thought but would like some second opinions. I've been seeing a wonderful guy for two months now - it's our 2 month anniversary on Friday and everything's goi...

Do I just need to move on from this girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - Hello Everyone I need some help here. OK. I was dating my girlfriend, i met her and she was a stripper and a model. I was into it for the looks at first then it got more serious and i told her to quit stripping and she would give me the excuse of ...

Why does his daughter talk to him in that way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I am dating a older man who has a very nice 21 year old daughter, I have four kids from my previous marriage. And this is my first serious relationship. I have noticed over the 6 months we have been together that he is very hard with my daughter ...

How do I get him to open the door and let me in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - HI. i met someone online hes about my age really cute and a lovely guy all around. we talked almost everyday about this or that and it seemed we got on well, he then sent me a naked pic of himself and told me that he only did that for me and he as...

Drunken boyfriend is a jerk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - hi im 22 and ive being going out with my curent boyfriend for 4 years we have a baby together and hes 1 .i already knew him before so ive known him for about 8 years.ive never been in a relationship like this before he drinks all the time swear ...

Should be upset that after 2 years, my relationship was taken away just so that he could get his child back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I need some advice. My boyfriend broke up with me only because his child's mother came back around and now the only way he can have custody of his son is to be with this woman. Let me remind you that she took him away from him by getting him ...

Can a man forget the woman they loved so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Can a man one dated for 3 years we shared good and bad times. He is grieving over the loss of 2 family members (brother and dad)who died 2 days from one another. He said horrble things and accused me of things that were not true. During this ...

He loves me, but wants to be single....need advice to tame my alpha male

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - We have 4 kids and my husband wants to leave me :'( I am not looking for people to tell me he is not worth it so please just don't. I have heard it enough times and maybe it is true but I think he is. He sais he still loves me , but he wants...

He had permission to get oral from somone else because I don't like doing it but now I'm having second thoughts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Plz help. Ok this is my first time doing this,I really need some advice.So my bf of a lil over a year wants oral sex..I really don't like doing it,so I just tell him no bt we do have sex. Ok so a while back he had asked me to do it prior to u...

Why is she being like this and doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - i was with a girl for over 1 year, and the othere day she broke up with ma. we was on the phone and we had a little bicker because she had to go home from work to get her stuf, so i asked her did she want to come down n see me, and she said she ...

Involved but I think I am in love with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I have been in a long term relationship for over 8 years (not married but feel like it). I love my partner dearly and sex is alright but I still have feelings (not sure what they are) for someone else. The thought of this person gives me butterf...

She can't live with me, but can't live without me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - Hey guys. First time writing here.. I've been in a relationship with a woman for nearly three years now (Long distance)..We see each other every month or so for about a week, but will soon close this gap shorter so it's more regular. Only...

How to overcome obsessive thinking about GF's or Wife's past? The suggestion thread!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - Dealing with wife's or girl friend's past has been discussed in many threads. Yos and Troubledtoomuch have been very helpful in replying to people who have issues in dealing with their GF's of wife's sexual past. However, I would like to have thi...

I just want him to know that our relationship was very special to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - i moved from england to the united states around 2 years ago. i fell in love with an amazing guy around 1 year ago. we were togeter for around 10 months and for the first 7 it was incredible. for the last three we've been consantly on and off as he ...

We messed around and he has a g/f..now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Hey! ok heres the thing...i like this guy and im 16 and the guy i like is a senior and he has a gf, but the thing is we hung out one night and we went to his place and this was at like 11pm and we just talked and watched tv but then he put his arm ...

My boyfriend's soon to be ex wife is causing us problems.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Hi please can you help me with my dilemma. Me and my partner of 13 years seperated last september and we have 2 children. I have been dating a guy for the last few months who is currently finalising his divorce and he also has three children the ...