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Archived questions from: 29 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why am I being ignored all of a sudden??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now, and I thought everything was fine between us, but suddenly he has been completely ignoring me for the past few days. We live two and a half hours apart and only get to see each other on the ...

How do I tell him the truth? Please help.

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29 April 2009 (F) - I work in a small shop with a male lead sales assistant. We get on well, and ever since I started he made me feel welcome and comfortable. Also, we are both very shy and can be quiet. The problem is I blush when we talk (maiden shyness etc) which he ...

I need help! Why doesn't my husband want to have sex with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My husband never wants to have sex with me. Our sex life consists of me giving him blow jobs and very, very occassionally he might grace me with a couple of minutes penetration to stop me grumbling. I am sooooooo sexually frustrated and m...

Can someone give me ideas on how to perform better to either save my job or to build a relationship with the big boss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - This time it is a work issue. I have been with this company for 8 months. I have just received feedback from the executive boss, who wrote very harsh words that left me feeling distraught.... This is a mid-management position. it is the first tim...

Opinions needed. Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I will be there at 3.30pm. He doesnt respond it and he doesnt pick up my phones either. so I went home without seeing him. he texted me back and he forgot to take his phone with him while he was eating thats why he couldnt respond so we couldnt ...

Please tell me if you can think of anything I can do to try and make up for what I did.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - About 4 and a half months ago my wife cheated on me. The affair had been going on for almost two months before I found out. When I found out I instantly forgave my wife and asked her to stay with me. She was going to leave me for him. However he ...

Why is he scared to come near me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have a class with this one guy. I've just recently noticed something. If I'm around he won't come near me. If I'm talking to his friends he will either go sit by himself or he will sit off to the side and wait for me to leave. There was a seat ...

Secretive boyfriend makes me paranoid

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hopefully someone can help me.. have been with a guy for 2years broke up (for the 100th time) recently bcos theres is no trust what so ever, i know yer probably thinkin "no trust no future" but god do we love eachother!! We have tried to end it ...

Deteriorating relationship already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Two months ago I started dating my boyfriend, and it was going pretty well. We live about 2 1/2 hours away from each other, so we would talk on the phone every night and then take turns visiting each other on the weekends. He hasn't really ever ...

Man whore got me knocked up!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - sooo im not in the best situation right now im a very privalaged kid. i have alot i have a nice flexible job my own car my own house a nice allowence. yeah i have my far share of partying and all that jazz. but i have been hooking up with this guy ...

I cant stand living with my ex now he has a new girlfriend but he doesn't want me to move out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I'm really confused and am wondering if anyone can help me understand my situation more please. I split up with my boyfriend in September 2007 but we stayed friends, then in November 2007, after a short relationship with another girl, he asked m...

I tried to slow down our relationship and now she has moved on to a 60 year old guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I met a woman about a month ago - we got along great. I had reservations because her previous boyfriend had left her just 2 months prior and she would talk about him often and how bad he treated her. I did not want to be her rebound guy...

Unemployed boyfriend is being too picky about what job he would take!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - my guy has been unemployed for about seven months now. he has been looking for a job but not on a consistant basis. he is still living with family. when we are together i pay for most of our entertainment. i don't feel obligated to do it but i ...

She claims she really wants to be with me but I don't know if it's real!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - This Is a bad situation to begin with i know. About 2 months ago now i was reintroduced to my friends cousin who is/was Engaged, Red flag right there i know. Last time i met here was a few years back, I always had feelings for her, and i find out ...

My boyfriend told his lover that I was a homeless transient who slept on his couch!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend through my brother in law and he came from NC all the way to MO to meet me. We fell in love and he wanted me to move to NC with him. I quit my job that I had for a long time and left my family and friends to be with him. ...

Baby daddy crap!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of 1year has two kids(9 and 10). their dad is in prison.he wants my girlfriend to come visit him.She claims that him and her are best friends.the problem im having out of the situation is that I've been feeling disrespected by her kids ...

I feel like he is putting everything else before our wedding!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I have been with my fiance on and off for around 6-7 years. We are planning on getting married this year, however I feel he is not putting in that much effort when it comes to the wedding plans by putting his plans and other things frst. We h...

My boyfriend claims he is the shy type in the bedroom yet he likes discussing porn with his friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hello, I got a question about my bf. We together 1,5 years. Our sex life was very good when we started and we did allot of stuff in the bedroom. However, my bf made me believe that he is a quiet and shy type, as he was not into experimenting with ...

To all married men who have cheated.....please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I know I may be asking you to step outside your comfort zone here, but I'm sure you'll be doing more than just ME a favor by answering these few (not so)simple questions as HONESTLY as possible. What makes you cheat? (Of course everyone has thei...

Pretty obvious she has been cheating but I cant bring myself to break up with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Ive been with a girl for a month or so (known her for alot longer) but recently ive had my suspicions that she might be cheating on me. Things like saying she was at a friends because she wasnt feeling well and needed to stay with her(i heard guys ...

I cant get this girl out of my head....Am I just feeling rejected or is this something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Right... now I can't get this girl out of my head. We met about a year ago, I was going to the pub she worked at to see a friend play guitar. The first night I saw her I’d mentioned to a mate that I thought she was hot and that I was going to h...

Trust is not possible for me without evidence!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have been through one hell of a difficult few years and so has my little 8 year old son and his sister . My second husband was dreadfully abusive and we were quite ill by the end of it. Now I am with someone who seems to care about me very muc...

My boyfriend wont spend any time with our baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hi..... i need some advice on my relationship. my boyf and i have been together six years and we have a seven month old baby. when i was pregnant we discussed what i would do when the time came to go back too work and he said i could stay at home ...

I'm stuck watching as this guy uses and abuses the woman I love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - ive been on here before asked a question about a girl. "this is my life is there something wrong with me?" i unfortunately got stupid tried to drown my sorrows in a nice tall bottle of jack and top it off wit some hard tequila. i drunk texted her. i ...

Lied to him about smoking and now he doesn't trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - when I met my boyfriend we were both smoking until I fell pregnant and decided to stop for my babies sake. a year ago my Mom passed away and the stress made me start again, I have have been smoking for a year now, lied to my boyfriend that I have ...

Angry boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hi Guys Please some advice as not sure If i am over reacting here!! Well my boyfriend obviously can be lovely very sweet etc always complimenting me. But he gets angry and irritated by the slightest things, if he calls and I miss his call he will ...

Only dating her because I wanted to experience a lesbian relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Im 24 years old and I have been dating this girl for the past two months now. Everything was okay until lately where I feel distant from her. Im starting to feel Im only dating her because I wanted to find out how it would be like to be in a ...

All I want is some attention, is that too much to ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - me and my fience have been togehter 3 years we've recently been looking at places to live together. he's just started a new job and he's being sooo werid when he get in from work its like a 5 minute conversation then he wants to go to relax then i d...

Text message from his so called "boyfriend" claiming he is gay!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I started using a dating website a few months back and after a while met this guy who was very friendly, attractive and got on with me so well. He was willing to wait to go on a date with me because I'm in my 3rd year of university and need to ...

I could be gone for 8 to 24 months...how do I stop our relationship falling apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - my girl and i have been in a serious relationship for over 8 months now, everything has been going wonderful, we love each other dearly. But, today I just got word that I got into Job Corps, wonderful opportunity. But the problem is that I leave ...

We're taking a break from the relationship; how do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - My gf of one year and I had some problems. Shes 2 years older and we're around 20-24 We were too dependant on each other for happiness. We actually started living together the last 4 months of the relationship (doing everything together, scheduling ...

He slept with someone else after we broke up and I can't shake it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I am a twenty-two year old, single female whom just earned her Bachelor's in English. This past Fall, I started work at a local high school where the majority of faculty men are either already married with nearly grown children or in some way ...

I let the relationship get physical without commitment, now I want to back off from sex with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Theres this guy ive been seeing for umm maybe 4 months or so.We started having a sexual relationship after a few dates.I know,dumb on my part.He seemed interested in more than sex,and still does seem to be.Sometimes we just go out and do things ...

Don't think I can have a baby that's a product of rape

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have an issue I hope you can help me with.I am currently pregnant with my second child. My first is almost 7 months old-I am about 2- 3 mo along. Dilemma #1 I am seperated from my husband and divorcing him as soon as the papers get thru...it's not ...

I love my b/f, but my ex is in my head all the time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I saw someone post a question kind of like mine but a little different. I am going to be 20 in a few months. I have been with this guy for over months and he is living with me. We planning to get married next year. But for some reason my ...

One night "make out" broken heart. Please Help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm usually a self confident woman, who reaches every goal in her life. However, from 5 days I hurt. Here the story: Jhon, my friend from work introduced me to Mike a couple of weeks ago. Mike was not really my type, but he's not bad at all. ...

I've fallen hard for her -- why won't she leave him for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - I fell in love with a girl that was my best friend as well. She has been dating my one of my ex-friends(we had a falling out a few months ago over her) for a year and a half. She loves him even though he treats her like crap. She has told me many ...

I've been done wrong so often I'm thinking about same-sex dating.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Every person I've been with has did me wrong so I'm thinking about dateing my own sex should i do that or just stick it out??? All my boyfriends I've had has cheated on me and used me 4 sex and money so I'm tired of it help me ...

Is he just a two-timing lowlife??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy a while back. He lives in a different state, one that is right next to mine. Since we cant see each other all the time since he went back home, we talk on the phone and on the computer. My problem is I have trust issues! I dont think ...

My kids hate him, and I'm beginning to hate him too. How do I move on?

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29 April 2009 (F) - I am a common-law wife of a man that is like Jeckel and Hyde only when he drinks. He drinks everyday. None of his family talks to him anymore, so myself and our two children are the only ones he has. They hate him when he is drunk and are afraid of ...

My sister is being played -- how do I help her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ok this is not about me its my adopted sister she is 30 years old and is in a long distance relationship. The guy is 26 and is a truck driver. They have been together for 4 months and he proposed to her they have only seen each other twice since ...

I'm pregnant and he leaves me home alone every night!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together more or less two years with tons of ups and downs. We've lived together for a year and a half. And we more or less were together every night. I'm 8 and a half months pregnant now and the second one of his ...

Very much in love with someone who does not treat me the way I feel I deserve to be treated.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Feeling a little depressed. Very much in love with someone who does not treat me the way I feel I deserve to be treated. I know we all have our faults but I try to be supportive, kind, calm and loving towards my b/f. He swings from being funny and ...

I want to take her to the prom but my parents hate her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - I want to take the love of my life to the prom, the thing is that my parents hate her and i have no idea how to tell them im going with their consent or not, for goodness sake in 17!...

Gay unrequited love problem.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Quick details: 16 years old, 17 in August, England, Currently in college studying IT in hopes of going into industry. I have a case of homosexual unrequited love. He's straight, i'm gay, iv'e felt like this for about 8 months now, except then ...

Do I have to tell my boyfriend everything about my past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have a serious question that I need advice on. I am in a long term relationship and I'm starting to get the feeling that my boyfriend is going to propose. I love him very much and definitely want us to get married. I have two things that I have ...

I can't stand her ex to be around her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - I fell in love with a wonderful woman when i was going thru my divorce but I have a major issue. She was separated from her husband when she was with me and went back and forth a couple of times but now she assures me she is done with him and we ...

I don't think marrying someone I can't have sex with is a smart choice... do you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - okay so i was confused and was with a guy for a year and 2 months..still had feelings for my ex..and i felt bad..everything was just wrong so like i was saying before here i was confused didnt know who to be with..now i broke up with my bf and my ex ...

How do I make my ex of 2 plus years choose me over my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

29 April 2009 (?) - Instead of cutting straight to my question, I am about to explain the background of my situation because I feel that it is unique and should be fully understood if I am to consider advice. If you are going to give me an answer, please do not skim ...

I'm 19, he's 36...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - When I meet my current boyfriend i was 17 and he was 34 i am now turning 19 and he is turning 36 i live with him and have for 11 months. He has a 5year old son and its hard because he only has him half the time. whenever his son is over i feel ...

How can I apologize to someone I haven't spoken to in a while?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - To give a bit of back story, I'm a gay guy. I'm 21 and the person I need to apologize to is 15 (please don't turn this into a moral issue, my intentions are only amicable, and I would never force him into any sort of situation that would be ...

Is a polygraph test the answer?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I am in a real dilemma and don't know what to do. I am engaged and have been with my fiance for 9 years now and never imagined this horrible nightmare i am now in. We were shopping on the weekend when some girl approached me and said your ...

Lies, don't know where I stand, friendship doomed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I'm at uni, a popular girl in my final year. We've all had exams and work sabbaticals and I've been away from my group of friends revising and working. I'm about to return to uni and my friends. In the time I've been revising for exams and wo...

When he gets intimate I don't feel anything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ok, i am dating a really great guy and I like him a lot. The thing is just when he gets intimate I don't feel anything. I really like him. I like kissing and touching but when we go any further it stops. I don't feel anything. I'm not repulsed or ...