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Archived questions from: 9 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel our relationship isn't healthy at the moment. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Someone please offer me some advice... I'm feeling a little confused at the moment. I'm 25 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and have lived together for the past year. We have a series of rough patches where all we seem to do is argue...

Do you think that my boyfriend being another race would affect us...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I am just here and confused and I really need help from you my cupid friends. :) Well my question is - I am Hispanic (Dominican republic) but my boyfriend is white. Do you think that effects our relationship because we're baptist and do y...

Is this karma getting me back because I flirted with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - To get the to the point, we were dating for 4 years and 11 months she left me for another man (she's done this twice, I took her back the first time) and she won't come back to me no matter how much I say I love her or say I can do this. I'll admi...

My wife and my mum keep flirting with one another!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I've become concerned about my mum and wife recently, as whenever me and my wife go down to my parents some weekends, my wife starts flirting with her and doing faux-lesbian behaviour, much to me and my father's disgust. Me and my wife have an 11-...

Her past FWB, it's killing me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Hello. I'll cut right to the chase. I am falling in love with this girl i've been dating for 5 months. She told me she is falling for me. She is everything I'm looking for in a woman...elegant, smart, driven, charming, sexy, successful. One nigh...

We're trying to have a relationship but he keeps moving back and forth making it very difficult!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy but we have a very complicated relationship. Right now it is long distance but only like two hours. It's just that he keeps moving here and dating me, but it never works out and he always needs to move back home. He has ...

Should I trust my g/f? She got drunk and stayed in a hotel with another guy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend won't come anywhere near me.She treats me like some sort of idiot. We have been together for some 8 months now and haven't slept together. She has had quite a few previous sexual partners, myself having had only 1. Recently she got ...

What could I do to show him that I'm the one for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I used to be with this guy and we were really into each other he loved me and I loved him. Now he says that he doesn't love me anymore but he likes me and really cares for me and that I'm important to him. We're just friends right now because we h...

Am I being that bad to my ex GF?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I posted on here before and came back to get some more advice. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer ...

Any suggestion on how to say "No" to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i need a couple of suggestions and please don't judge me or tell me not to do this.. here's the situation. i started talking to this young man about six months ago. and right off the bat fell for him. i've always considered myself mature and sure...

Do feelings really change for someone who was so close to you?

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9 April 2009 (M) - ok so my girlfriend has broken our one year old relationship ... she said she has started life practically and seriously and she sees me more of a friend now because her feelings have changed for me past couple of weeks... i don't mind her breaking...

Prince Charming must have died

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I've been with my Bf for 7 months (mind you this is my first bf) So the problem is I'm bored. We don't go anywhere And we only see each other at least once a week. When we do see each other we just watch TV and movies (and ...

Is it worth saving my marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - My husband is cheating on me and wants a divorce. He actually hasn't admitted to the cheating, he just said he wanted a divorce because he doesn't love me. I found out he was spending a lot of time with a woman at work, going out with her, talking ...

Why is he always nice, if he doesn't want to hang out with me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - This guy i like, who i speak to online like everyday (we text too). We speak for hours sometimes, and we obviously enjoy speaking to each other. We've been to the cinema before and he came to my house party last week, we ended up kissing and he f...

How can I move on and like another guy?

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9 April 2009 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me because of complicated reasons. I miss him loads and still love him but I really want to move on. I have tried liking new people, but I can't like anyone seriously like I did my ex. This new guy has been tex...

Keep the cheater? Keep the ex? Confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Ok. Well.... Here is my problem. I've been stuck in between two girls for about... a month now. See, I dated one girl for 3 months and then she got into drugs and I left her because it was stressing me out so much. Later that month I met a...

My husband just wants his children's affection but they shower so much of it toward their mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - My husband has three grown children from a previous marriage. Their mother left him and them when the kids were teenagers. He finished raising them with no help from her and she had a good job; was fully able to contribute financially. My husband ...

Is is worth the risk to try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Guys and Gals I really need your opinions of whether this a good or bad idea!! Just a quick profile. I recently went through a mutual break up with my long distance girlfriend, it's been 7 week. We'd been dating for close to 5 years and next y...

I've never met him before and he wants me to move in with him but I don't feel ready...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Ok I'm 18 nearly 19 and I am in love with a man who is 30 and I've know for about 7 months. I've never met him but speak to him every day but I am also an addict to heroin or was, I've been clean for about 4 months (but he thinks it's been a lot ...

Did he lie to me all that time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi cupid readers, here's the story! I was in a long distance relationship and I was so in love with him and he loved me. Then one day he told me a girl asked him out for a meal and he told me they were just friends and I was trying to tell h...

He dumped me but we still act like we're together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years btw (don't know if that matters to anyone) I love my "boyfriend" so much and will do anything for him, he is my home, my heart and my other half..but.. we're together for one year, and this has been my 1st very serious relationship. But...

My friends don't seem to appreciate me... what am I doing wrong???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I would be grateful if you could give me some advice. Here is my situation: I am a reasonably quiet, but kind and (sometimes) funny. Don't get me wrong, I have a lot of friends, but I am beginning to feel that they are taking advantage of me. T...

My girlfriend's friend is a total user but she can't see it at all.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Okay my girlfriend has this ignorant ass best friend who I don't like, she has this problem with speaking to people. She also tried to shit on my mom who helped her ass out when she was out of a job buying her pampers and baby food when she had no ...

Bad text message!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I let someone write a text to my girl. The words they wrote were hurtful but they were not mines and I do not want to lose her because of the the words written by the other person. I love her more than life itself an that's no lie. I just don't k...

How can I make my parents trust him again and how can my boyfriend prove he has changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Ok here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years now, everything was going fine until last october... my 18th birthday. I really wanted to go away on holiday with friends for my birthday and to cut a long story short my ...

How can I get her sister to see I have no ulterior motive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and I'm dating a 14 year old, now I know it looks like im probably just trying to get in her pants coz of the age but I'm not really, we both really like each other but the problem is her older sister, though she has never met me, she thinks ...

I think my fiance is cheating - but I need evidence so he cant deny it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hello. I have been in a 5 year relationship with my fiance. We have a home and children together. I am concerned about his behaviour and am 90% sure he is cheating on me. Here are the reasons: 1.He has a gym in his garage around the corner fro...

My boyfriend has no sex drive but I've caught him watching porn!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - im in a relationship with a man that never wants sex. I am starting to feel very lonely all the time and find myself crying myself to sleep at night wondering what i have done wrong. Yet i have caught him watching porn and relieving himself to it ...

He got hard talking to me via webcam....does this mean he still likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - hi so there is this guy he used to fancy me a while ago and i him but then he went away for a few months and we never spoke as it would cost far too much to text and ring anyways he came back but he had changed towards me he then said he didn't like ...

How do I tell my ex I don't want him back without losing him as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i dated this guy for 3yrs, we broke up 2yrs ago but we were still friends. we've both moved on and are dating other people but yesterday he calls me to tell me he still loves me. he was my first love so i'll always love him but i cant go back. all ...

I sent a fake picture to my boyfriend and now he has cancelled his flights to come and see me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - my boy friend has cancelled his flight today!!! simply because i told him that the picture i sent to him was not of me but belong to someone else,since he wants to meet in person by the weekend, and i have to tell him the truth. he was upset with...

My husband is stuck in his bachelor ways!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have been married a year this month. I learned about 5 months ago that my husband is addicted to porn. He would rather get himself off then have me particpate and enjoy myself. Our doctor who I have taken the oppurtunity to discuss this with has...

I feel like I am the only one trying to make our relationship work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I wrote a couple of weeks ago about me and my boyfriend because we were having problems. We decided to go on a break type thing but still see each other. Recently, we've been getting on fine. We haven't argued or had any real disagreements. I...

Is he keeping others around just in case he gets bored with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi, Ive been in a relationship with a guy for quite a short time, but at the moment am feeling unsettled and insecure about the relationship. As we've only been together a short time i'm not asking for a large amount of commitment but he does not...

I found a picture of my dad in his underwear on my husband's phone but he says it has nothing to do with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I was tidying the house earlier this week, and was surprised to find my hubby's mobile phone had fell down the back of the sofa. It wasn't the phone that shocked me, but what was on it that did - a picture of my dad in his undies flashed up on th...

Should I call it quits now before his feelings for me get stronger or should I work at trying to like him more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have been hanging out with a guy i met at college for about 3 months and we just started kissing and cuddling and getting comfortable. He likes me but hes still kinda hard to read on how much he does and what exactly he wants but he has said he ...

I think my husband is in denial about his sexuality!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i am having problems with my husband of 7 years. i believe that he is bisexual, but in denial what do i do?...

Domestic bliss has turned into domestic hell!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have just recently had a back injury which means i needed more help around the house. Boyfriend hasn't shown much concern and resented the fact that i said the other day how cheeky it was of him to continue to ask me to do things for him. So, he ...

No gift on my 40th birthday.....do I get him a birthday present?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I’d appreciate a few views on this. Ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half. We broke up for two weeks around valentines and my 40th birthday and I cant help feeling miffed that he didn’t get me anything for my birthday. He did send flowers ...

10 years of verbal abusive and now he wants a real relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - What I do not understand is this guy and I had a relationship for over 10 year. I officially ended the relationship last year. We still try to communicate, with one another. But it only leaves me frustrated, because he couldn't communicate then and ...

Though the feelings are geniune, we seem to lack the mental connection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for just under a year now and am just wondering if I am staying in this for the wrong reasons. Two years ago I dated a guy for a month (he went back to his ex) who was insanely passionate. He would sms me all ...

Why is he so inconsiderate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I moved together 3 months ago.I started getting very stressed because he wouldn't clean at all. I told him, we had an argument he got a bit better,but later he keept neglecting everyhting.We had around 3-4 arguments about this, ...

Cant get my boyfriend to come...what am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - No matter what I do it takes my boyfriend ages to come or he doesn't come at all. We do every position known to man, heaps of foreplay (at least half an hour of mutual kissing, touching masturbation), I give him oral sex for ages but I just canno...

I want to go back but I'm scared

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, First I want to apologize for this being so long but I wanted it to be clear. I have been with a guy for 7 years. He was my high school sweetheart and my first love. Our love for each other seemed to slack off a bit but I thought it...