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writes: Im 24 years old and I have been dating this girl for the past two months now. Everything was okay until lately where I feel distant from her. Im starting to feel Im only dating her because I wanted to find out how it would be like to be in a lesbian relationship and I don’t know how to break things off with her. I know it sounds selfish but I do not want to hurt her feelings, how should I go on about breaking up with her?
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reader, redharley +, writes (29 April 2009):
You should just set her down and tell her exactly what you said that you are starting to feel distant. You need to be honet with her. I was in a 7 year relationship before I met my wife. I sat my ex down and told her exactly how I felt and that I wanted out. I was honest with her and moved on. Feelings will be hurt either way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): By telling her what you have told us.... perhaps your heart was not really in the relationship and you were only experimenting... However you tell her, she is going to be hurt, so by being honest with her!
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