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Archived questions from: 26 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

It's like a bad dream and I can't seem to find any way to sort this out or get the truth!

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26 April 2009 (F) - I don't understand. I like this lad more than anything have done for ages! Thing is from everything thats happened and been said in the past it seemed he really liked me and then when he did from what was heard he told some people. After this a ...

Irish spice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hi Me and my girlfriend have been together around 3 years now. We met in Spain while she was studying and I was working. At the time I was earning really good money, the best I have ever earned and she was earning nothing just money from her m...

Troubled relationships...

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26 April 2009 (M) - I'm having trouble with my relationship. we hopped into a love relationship but are laking the friendship. she thinks friends and lovers are not the same. We both have abandonment issues and improper upbringing....(bad parents)....I really need ...

I'm depressed, she doesn't seem to care..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hey there, Ive been in this relationship with my girlfriend for 10 months now. But very often im crying, and she does not seem to care, she just keeps hurting my feelings. I must add that I am depressed right now, im trying to seek professiona...

I feel our relationship is going down hill because he always has his daughter.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - hey just need some advice. ive been with my boyfriend/fiancee for 2 yrs know. at the beginning of the relationship everything was perfect i loved being around him there as nothing i was to complain about,the only thing was his daughter he has a know ...

My husband's parents favor his kids more than my oldest child.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - My husband's parents favor his kids more than my oldest child. I got with him 2 days after i found out i was pregnant with my son (3 years old) he sees my son as his own. He has a daughter that is 8 and we have a 2 week old daughter together. the ...

Developing a roving eye, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hi. I've been married to my wife for almost 3 years, together for about 6. We are both in our late twenties. When I met her she was the most lovely, charming, sexy woman I'd ever met and we're were deeply in love within days of our first date. ...

I feel as if my marriage is falling apart...

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26 April 2009 (F) - More than a question I need advice. I feel like my marriage is falling apart!.. I dont know if its because of the birth control I use. I recently read other womens reviews on the same birth control and most suffered some of the symptons I have, such ...

Help! I'm in a no win situation...

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26 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my lad for 10 monthish. I left a guy(x) I was happy with to go out with this guy (y)because my mum convinced me that he would be better for me. (x)his imperfections but i didn't want to end it. she didn't like him but i gave it a ...

My ex beat up the guy I made out with... how can I make him stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15, and my ex is 17. I recently dumped him, like 2 weeks ago, after 5 months. We both agreed that the relationship was coming to a halt and there wasn't any way to save it. And we've both been getting on fine since then, he's my best friend. ...

Is he just being completely selfish?

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26 April 2009 (F) - So this is the deal. Me and my boyfriend are in our early twenties and we've been dating for two years. We are each others best friends, but lately something’s changed. We used to work together but he didn't make a lot of money soo.. He's gotten a ...

Is he breaking up with me?

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26 April 2009 (F) - I find out my boyfriend breaking up with me in Aug. when the lease is up I'm not on it. And he said no but found a text in his phone saying 'she's going bye bye' and he says that's a joke. Why wait? Why if he is going to do it then why is he saying ...

Why doesn't he want sex with me anymore?

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26 April 2009 (F) - Hi I’m new to this site and I’m in need of help. I’m 18 and I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and three months. I was a virgin before I met him and I made him wait for a good 7 months and he was fine with that. When we finally had sex it was g...

I think I'm in love with this married man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I’m in a relationship with a married man for the past 2 years. I have been pregnant by this man 2 times but had abortions. He tells me he’s in love with me but I don’t think he truly is. I believe that he does have feelings for me the reason ...

He blocks my emails and keeps his distance -- what's up?

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26 April 2009 (F) - Here's my dilemma, I met a guy a few years back, we hit it off immediately. In the beginning we spoke on the phone all the time chatted on line also. We met in person 4 times. Everytime we met in person, he blocked my e-mails and kept his ...

He hasn't told his daughter that I'm pregnant

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26 April 2009 (F) - I am five months pregnant and my boyfriend has told everyone except his nine year old daughter should I feel offended because I do.........

In a 3+ year relationship with an older man, but no sex!

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26 April 2009 (F) - I’m 32 and my boyfriend of 3 1/2 yr now 51 but young at heart and very attractive have a good relation but when it comes to sex well its just not there. We have maybe 3 times in the time we have been together and I need any and all help we talk ...

My family is against our relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 years old. I have a bf, he is 12. Some people think that it's wrong because I'm 4 years older, but I don't care because we love each other very much but the problem is that my whole family don't like him, so I can't come home to him and ...

My husband is converting to Islam and wants ME to convert too!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I was shocked by what I found around the house when I woke up this morning. There were a lot of prayer books and a copy of the Koran (is that how you spell it??) lying around, plus some other Islamic literature. I asked my husband why there was Is...

Porn - I want to be the only woman!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I know this has to be a common complaint, but i found porn on my boyfriend's computer. I wasn't even looking for it...just came up when i was typing in a website. Well i checked his history then, and found porn were all the top sites. The probl...

He told me he had feelings for me... to keep his friends off his back!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Recently, i got told by the boy i love that he had a feeling for me but i found on friday night that he only said it to keep his friends off his back. I was so upset but yesterday we were both at a little social gathering and he got a bit drunk and ...

I don't feel the right things but I can't break up with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - hey! The situation im in dosent make much sense to me so im sorry if its slightly confusing for you guys... ive been with my boyfriend for nearly ten months and it had been !Amazing! we feel so strongly for each other and tell each other absolutl...

I hate my dad because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - hello dear cupid, i am 22 and i have a strange problem.... I hate my dad! i know he is my god and my caretaker...but still i hate him because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream although he has always provided me with the ...

I'm so attached to him... should I break it off or tough it out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. Just to make things clear, I'm 15 and he's 20 (Yes, I know this is illegal). We met online and eventually met up in person. I currently live on the east coast, and he lives on the west ...

I was wrong, she won't forgive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - My ex best friend was being really mean and saying that she was sleeping with my boyfriend. So I asked someone for her password and hacked into her Facebook account and messed about with it. I KNOW IT WAS WRONG!! But it was fun at the time I guess. ...

Afraid exs family will cause problems for my family

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26 April 2009 (M) - i am in a predicament as i have not seen my kids for nearly 3 years and i am getting to the stage that i want to see them again,my new partner has her reservations regarding me seeing the kids and not a selfish level but on a level that we used to ...

Do I go home and live my life without him or stay with him and be unhappy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys, i have an issue that has been bothering me for some time and i dont know what to do and how to deal with it. The problem i have is i have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and at first everything was ok, a bit hard because of my ...

I feel he's getting too friendly with this girl...

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26 April 2009 (F) - Okay I'm new at this so I dont really know how to write what I want to so I'm just going to give it a go. In November my boyfriend of two years left to go travelling around the world for a few months and he will now be back in four weeks. I didnt go ...

To listen or not to listen? Is he really as bad as everyone says?

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26 April 2009 (F) - Hey there, a few weeks ago I went to this party and saw a lad that I already knew but never really spent any time with, well we really hit it off and now spend an awful lot of time together, but every one of our friends is warning us from each ...

Mental illness/trust issues

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26 April 2009 (F) - I am looking for advice on what to do about a relationship which seems to have become very complicated due to mental illness/trust issues. The main thing is that I love him a lot and it would have been 8 years together this year and to me it see...

Why would he leave me to be with women that treat him like crap?

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26 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I am so confused. My ex and I were together for 7 years and our relationship wasn't a bad one although it was rocky towards the end. What I want to know is why he left me to be with women who treat him like crap. I was faithful and I loved him ...

I'm falling for a guy that my sister used to fancy! What do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I have started dating a guy I really like and things are going really well. He is really into me too and it would seem I have nothing to worry about at all. We have a sexual relationship and things are great in that department too. The problem is ...

Men!!! Strange creatures!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Why wud a guy u been seein 5 wks suddenly change and go off with sum1 else out of the blue and then constantly watch for ur reaction all the evening? And be jealous if someone even as much talks 2 u? ...

I'm in my fifties and he's keeping me on hold

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Although I've answered many questions on this site I now have one of my own. I'm 56 and I went out with a man 7 years ago for just 5 weeks until his ex partner intervened and claimed him back! It hurt me very deeply at the time. He has now asked me ...

I'm in love with my b/f's uncle!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hi , well here's my situation ... I'm 14 years old, and I'm completely in love with a 24 year old. Believe it or not, I know its not an infatuation. If you, yourself, are in love- then you KNOW you are in love, you don't question it. Now, this...

Who's baby could it be?

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26 April 2009 (M) - Got a situation.Met a girl who is married but seperated from her old man because he is in prison for beating on her.She just had a baby a few months back, he is like five months now.She got an order of protection..etc..I was his buddy long before he ...

Playing games with my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i hav a problem with my ex. We were together for 6yrs and we have a child together. Our relationship was a bit rocky towards the end but i never thought ov being without him tho he thought differently. He started going out a lot and staying ...

Flashbacks of my stepbrother who raped me !

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26 April 2009 (F) - I'm 19 even if my age says I'm way older.I have flashbacks about the time when i was raped. Heres how the story goes. I was about 13 and a half. My step brother Brendan who was 18 always babysat me. I know him since I was 11 but he didn't do ...

My married boss wants to take me to dinner and to his beach house.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I think my married boss likes me. He wants to take me to dinner and to his beach house. I would normally think this is wierd and way wrong but he has also said his intentions were just to be friends but he also said I cant tell anyone that we are ...

I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her (overweight).

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her(overweight). She loves me so much and she will do almost anything to make me happy. She has even offered to let me bring over an escort once a week. I do ...

Even although she smokes pot, I still like her. Should I ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - I know i've posted other questions involving a girl, but now there is a new one. We both have known each other for about a year now. we both work as lifeguards and we have training this weekend. i think i told her that i liked her last year in a ...

My girlfriend's best buddy is the guy she lost her virginity to?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend, who is 25, and I are in a serious relationship. My problem is that out of her two best friends, one is her ex boyfriend. On top of that, it's the guy she lost her virginity to when she was 20. They dated about a year, and then a year ...

Should I really have my phone attached to my hip and check it every five minutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - My bf is very impatient and has a short temper. I'd also like to mention he has never been abusive to me physically, mentally, or emotionally the past three years we've been together. I wish I could say the same for inanimate object. But... he...

I cheated, tried to fix it, now he's planning a secret tryst...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I cheated about 7 months ago. I had been unhappy for years, tried to tell my husband but he brushed me off. Not that he's bad, he's great, just oblivious. He told me he always thought that the fact that he loved me so much was enough, he didn't ...

I'm feeling so so guilty, please help.

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26 April 2009 (F) - Hi, im in a little strife lol. in a nutshell... I recently confessed to my longtime bf i pecked another guy on the lips (i was drunk, i thought he was gay based on what a friend a while ago had said turns out he's not, he's not my friend anymore we ...