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writes:I met this guy a while back. He lives in a different state, one that is right next to mine. Since we cant see each other all the time since he went back home, we talk on the phone and on the computer. My problem is I have trust issues! I dont think that he is telling me the truth sometimes. There are several occasions that he has promised me he would call me(no specific time, just that he will call me tomorrow) and I would not get a call until 2 or 3 days later. I started getting suspicious. so I decided to get on a different account on the internet to talk to him. I know it sounds wrong, but I did act like someone else. (i am going to start off by calling "myself" Sarah, [if i need to same my name] and "the other woman" that is also ME Breanna) "I" was talking to him, and Breanna was talking to him at the same time. He told "me" that he was going to bed and that he will call me tomorrow, but yet he stayed on with Breanna. "Breanna" asked him why it shows he signed out and he said "because this B**** wont leave me alone" (talking about me) I then asked if he wanted me (as Breanna) to talk to her, and he said "no i know her, she is just drunk and I'd rather talk to you" I was not drunk, I wasn't even drinking. Let me explain a little bit about this. He doesn't know anything about me (me, as Breanna) all he knows is a fake name. Please help me.. IS he just wanting to play games with me, or do you think he is just a two timing low life that will talk to anyone he can?? Should I move on, or confront him about it??
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Have a look at the book 'He's just not that into you.' He isn't calling when he says he will so doesn't sound as keen as you'd like. It could be he's just chatting and going no further with these other women, but in any case he isn't keen enough for you. Why not try and meet someone nearer to where you live, who you could see more of in any case.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 I think you already know the reality. Sign off on him and get someone who appreciates your worth. It's a long haul so find someone you can trust and live with. It is going to save you so many sleepless nights.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 Well, considering you have trust issues and have 'proven' that he cannot be trusted, stop making contact with him and move on with your life.
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