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Archived questions from: 23 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Casual sex made our friendship sour

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - About six months ago I developed a friends with benefits deal with someone in my dorm. We had fun in the very beginning and then she got attached to me and as much as I would have enjoyed being in a relationship with her I just don't think it would ...

We broke up over my friend. How do I get my ex's trust back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I moved from Michigan to Maryland 2 years ago to be with a man I truly loved. We were supposed to get married but it never happened. Whenever it was close we would argue and call it off. He travels a lot for his job or just to go back to Michigan to ...

My boyfriend's "ex" is returning to the city and I'm feeling very jealous/insecure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's "ex something" is returning to the city and I'm feeling very jealous/insecure. This girl my boyfriend used to have a huge crush on during high school is returning to town. I fear that she's more perfect for him than I am. Let me exp...

Not sure what do to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - So, here's the deal. There is this guy I work with that I am crushing bad over. We've known each other for going on 3 years and have always gotten along. He's had girlfriends, but I've always thought they were for cover. Then after he broke up with ...

I just paranoid of being hurt again or do I have good reason to be as such?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship for a little over 5 years and we have had our ups and downs as far as it goes. She has cheated on me in the past and I am still suspicious of things that she does, my question is am I just paranoid of being hurt again ...

I am wondering when is enough enough? Can a person ever change?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for six years now, we live together and he has been lying to me. He has been talking and texting other women. Comments like hey sexy, hey beautiful. We have been through this before twice already and I am wondering when ...

Even although he cheated on me, now I just want him to hug me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hey... I'm 14 and a 2 month ago I split up with my boyfriend who I had been going out with for 7 months because I felt the love wasn't there and I didn't care what he had to say. He wasn't very smart and didn't care to have a conversation about ...

Help! Who do I believe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, help me out on this. I am in a relationship of one year. We are okay together but my parents aren't okay with him coz they think someone else is best for me. Someone they know who is a family friend though he doesn't stay in the same ...

Why do I still feel like this after leaving my abusive boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have a question which I've asked myself a thousand times..why do I feel sorry for myself for doing the right thing which was leave an abusive man which I've been dating for 4yrs..First of all I have kids who thank god have never witnessed ...

To be or not to be? A question on love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hey guys I've posted a question about being in love before but I think that this is the final straw in my situation. Basically im in love with my friend. Its the first time i've felt this way and to be honest, its crippling me. She has no idea...

My boyfriend affair has shattered my world and I need to know how to pick myself up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt's My boyfriend had an affair on me in may of 2008. I found out about it in January of 2009. It shattered my world, I am now trying to put my life back together and I can't seem to stop thinking about it every day and every night,...

My wife thinks she is in love with another man yet our marriage is still good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - My marriage is in trouble again. My wife had a fling last year with a guy she used to bump into while out clubbing, all very casual, but destructive and hurtful nonetheless. I gradually uncoevered the whole thing, and...I forgave her. She said she ...

I'm too naive and I always seem to make myself to vulnerable to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I had and on and off relationship for about 5 years. It started when we were quite young, so it was nothing too serious and neither were our arguments. But as it went on, just him breaking up with me and getting back with me when he felt like it. i ...

Infatuated with my married boss when I have a boyfriend too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old and I have a boyfriend of three years now. I just did something I am not proud of at all, but at the same time I can not stoping thinking about it... I committed into someone's affair! He is my manager-38 years old--3 children.. ...

I think I need to be single but don't have the guts to tell my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old, I am in a 3 1/2 years relationship with my boyfriend, in which, I love still but than again it's becoming very lame. I feel bad to break up with him because he loves me so much... I decided to go away for College.. I live in ...

Can anyone tell me what this girl is thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hi all, I hav this crush with this family friend. She's 17 and i'm 25. Well basically it's her who initiated and sort of pushed me to say my feeling to her. I didn't formally say that i like her (but we both told a story which is pretty obvious ...

How can I let her know how sorry I am?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I'm in need of some advice a while back my wife found out i was having an affair with a co worker who was also married this is not the first time that i had been unfaithful each time with married women at the time my wife never knew about the o/w ...

Confused and heart broken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for two and a half years and he told me yesterday he needs a break from our relationship. We've been fighting alot lately, mainly about money. We both have good jobs but he wastes his money on stupid things then ...

Is it time to end this marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Long marriage story...should we split and if so how can we make it on our own?? I've been married almost ten years we met the summer I graduated highschool we have 3 beautiful children. I'm miserable he is miserable but we love each other have fun ...

Our break ups seem to be related to her monthly cycle

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - The first 4 months of our relationship my girlfriend was on the nuva ring birth control. She let me know early that she hated it and that she gained weight and lost sexual desire while on it. She is 24 and has two kids already from a guy who is ...

I'm afraid that he's into stuff that's not me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend had an adult friend finder account. i deleted it for him but i just cant get it out of my head what he did. also even after i deleted it i went on his computer and and found really wierd porn and pictures of alot older woman then me and ...

It's great when we talk, but he doesn't have much time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - okay I've been going out with my boyfrend for about 2 years . I am 17 and he is nearly 20 , this whole year all he does is work and ONLY lately like the past few weeks he's hardly been talking to me , im always the one to call him , I always have to ...

I want to work it out; I'm not sure he does.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am under the age of 18 and my bf is 19 and we been together for 4 months. He told me that he will wait for me and that he loves me. But then he tells me that it's not going to work out and he doesn't know what he feels for me because I'm young ...

I have this guy at work that likes me but...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - i have this guy at work who likes me alot he does most of my work for me and does his work he buys me lunch all the time we talk and he is fun but the only thing is he is about 320 pounds and black as the marker your lookin at..he keeps telling me ...

My lover lives far away....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend lives over 700 miles away from me, and I get so lonely sometimes. He is really busy with school, as am I, and it feels like forever since I've seen him last. We talk all the time on the phone and online, but I miss him desperatly...Any ...

Think I scared her off...How do I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hi im 18 and theres this girl whose 16 on monday and who i realy like, who lives round the corner from me who used to speak with me on msn,one time i got her number on msn and we used to speak on there evrey day and i couldnt talk to her without ...