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Archived questions from: 12 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

After hateful texts messages, she wants to be "friends"...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - My former best friend, turned girlfriend of 3 months dumped me two months ago. Since then we haven't spoken and have just engaged in nasty text message arguments saying we hate each other. Now she seems to want to be my friend again. I quite miss ...

I'm not going to let her push me away without a fight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Ok... I wrote a while ago and things have pretty much remained the same. We've talked a bit more and she told me that she's never felt this strongly about someone this quickly before....but she is pushing me away even more now. I don't call her, ...

I am still young and don't want to waste my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - My husband cheated on me 2.5 years ago with someone he worked with and we almost got divorced, but we ended up trying to work it out. We have kids. Well, since then, he had made some sexual inuedos to some girl that was an ex of his friend via text ...

I am confused. I need advice for me to move on.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupids, I am confused. I need advices for me to move on. I’ve seeing this guy for almost 2 months. He never told me he liked me, but he kept calling me “hon” and he was nice to me, and always wanted to hang out with me. For the past 3 days, we...

Should I wait a couple of days to stand my ground and show her that I'm not needy or clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - ok....i have been seeing this girl, everything seems fine but the re is one problem, HER EX, she still has feelings for him it seems (he is a really needy dude who will make up any excuse to speak to her including lying about me) i told her thro...

I have been feeling insecure about his past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and i really love him and he me but recently i have been feeling a bit insecure about his past. When we are out with his mates on nights outs like most guys the conversation turns to sex wh...

What does this guy want from me? Why does he act this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - My Ex went to Spain a week ago. When he was about to leave to board his flight,he text me to say that he was on his way to Spain. When he returned he called me asking if he could meet out in the area where I live. He said that he had bought some ...

Am I obsessive and invading my bf privacy ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I have so much doubt and mistrust going with my ex,yes,i am still going out with my ex just like we are still together,we sleep together,we talked a lot.I asked him many times that i don't us to be just friends,but he always answer me that he is ...

How do I give her the bad boy attitude without going too far and running her off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 6 months. She recently told me I was too nice and smothered her. I only call her so much because she cheated on me for a month with her ex. She is pregnant with my child. How do I give her the bad boy attitude without ...

It's been nearly two years, but I still feel guilty for cutting off my ex. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. Tonight I've reflected on the break up of my first relationship, which was a long distance relationship which lasted for 2 years, ending in June 2007. I know it's a long time to still be reflecting on it, but let me run you through ...

What do I do in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I really really am depressed right now, i dont know what to do with my life. Im more and more lonely, I barely have any friends left, and none of them cares. I am in a relationship for 10 months now. I always have great support i...

I think I made a mistake in marrying him. What should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - hi im having a bit of a hard time atm....i have been with my husband for 8 years but married for not even 1 and i think i made a mistake marrying him i know its to late to change anything but since we got married he has become rude and very...

Forgive my outporing here, but I need advice on our situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I am really struggling with what to do. I have been in a relationship now for 8 1/2 years. We love each other however we are both unhappy. We have always had a volatile relationship however sometimes it ends up going too far. This isn't really the ...

Someone cheer me up please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Me and my ex-girlfriend have been on and off for the past 6 months but we are very much into each other...too many disagreements and problems with trust have ruined things. I decided to give it one last go instead of giving up on it but i didn...

2 months pregnant and boyfriend wants nothing to do with it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - hi all.i found my boyfriend texting and ringing girls behind my back i've been with him over 7 months, he's polish, i'm not and he's been living here 5 years and i've recently found out that i'm pregnant. it was a big shock but his reaction...

It's been 3 months and I still am not over him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - i cannot take this any more. me and my ex broke up at the end of January. he has a girlfriend now and i am talking to someone. When he found out i was talking to someone he said something to me and said he's still in love with me. he said he does...

I have tried my best and now feel I am just being taken for an idiot

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Before i start this post I would like to just say that i dont actually have problem with potential partners having children etc when you meet them but the problem is this.. when i met my partner he told me he had a child.. the mother of the ch...

She isnt altering her ways, what should I do?????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - I am in bits and need your help.... I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now and in January, we got engaged (she is 24). We have arguments like everybody else which is healthy but the problem is, she never admits when she's in th...

Now I cant connect with people on a personal level. How do I overcome this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hey... I just finished my first relationship. And it went for two years. I know, thats reaaally long for a first relationship apparently. Well, for the whole relationship, i never yelled at her, any arguments we had it was pretty much her yelling...

Why wont my ex help me get a bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - why wont my ex help me get a bf, he recently set one of his new gfs mates up with a guy from the pub, then when i was talking 2 this guy down the pub first the other week, he got him to go and talk 2 my mate, i think he knew i liked him, anyway w...

Is my Mum getting weird on us? She gets angry with me a lot now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - My mum always gets really angry at me when she thinks I'm answering back, when I'm not-I just answer her 'rhetorical questions', and also, when I look away, she says I'm rolling my eyes, when I'm really not! This makes me so annoyed, but I don'...

Suddenly she is not satisfied with our sex life. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have had a really healthy sexual relationship up until this week. I was sick for the first half then Thursday we got in a fight about her having to work until 930 at night. Some questions arose about why she has been work...

I won't come/release orally or during intercourse... please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hi, i've read about this question in another topic but then it was a female who asked what she was doing wrong. I'm 22 and currently seeing my first girl, she's really amazing but when it comes to sex... well i won't come. I can make her come bo...

Sex with my wife is only once a month now. Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - i am a male 28 yrs old and my wife is 26 we have a great son that is 3 the problems i have is that r sex life really suck well is not there hardly any more i would love to stay in this relationship but i can not take the once a mouth sex what shou...

Adopted son caught wanking, now he's acting up around the house

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hi there, i have been through the adoption process with my 13 year old son and we are not fully sorted and happy father/son relationship, but recently i walked into the bathroom to find him masturbating. Which is fine, we all do it, but not he isnt...

Is he trying to make me jealous and see how far he can go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Please help me im so confused right now,im still mates with my ex bf, who sometimes i lv him and sometimes i hate him, he has a gf which he says he loves and she could be the one, But basically he tells me about it and also how shes going 2 buy him ...

She said that if I really want her back it shouldn't matter how many people she has slept with. Is this true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - i am 17 and i was with my girl friend for 2 years but we have been friends for about 6 or more years since primary school. this is the girls that i had the little crush on back in primary school and that continued till high school were she had a bf ...

Commitment phobia? Breaking up? Can this be fixed? Is there hope? HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - 7 months ago, I left everything and moved to Spain to start a new life with my Spanish fiance....so I thought anyway. Things have not been easy for me (no family, no friends, no knowledge of the language, paperwork difficulties, etc) but they have ...

Does she still want to be friends or is she giving me the cold shoulder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Heya everyone, I've liked this girl, for about a year now (I think), I asked her out a while ago and she said yes but we didn't eventually. A couple of months ago she started getting close to one of my best friends (not bf and gf, just close m...

Mature and frustrated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - This is my first post. I have been in a stable relationship for 10 years. My sex life is nil at the moment and seems unlikely to improve. My partner went off sex during her menopause. She won't talk about problems and defers answering any direct ...

Its only been a year. How can he be so uninterested already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i met while working with each other and still currently do. We have been together for a little over a year now. We are both 21 years old and this is the longest relationship we have both ever been in. I think that our relationship ...

My sister's b/f is super jealous. What should she do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - This is for my sister. Her boyfriend and her got into a fight. He doesn't want her to talk to his best friend cuz he is jealous. She wants to still talk but now he gets super mad. He cries on the phone to make her feel bad, but she really want...

WTH happened? Did I get dumped?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Why are guys so confusing? This guy that I have been dating for over a month and last night, we were laying in my bed together. We haven't done anything sexual yet but he started kissing me and asked "When are you going to stop teasing me?" and I sa...

We're getting married in May but people don't think we should marry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I'm suppose to be getting married on the 8th of May. It won't be a big wedding. Just a lil something at city hall. The thing is, my mother and my big sister haven't met him yet. I don't really care about him not meeting my mother. Its my sister I'm ...

Can a relationship work with someone who is unstable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Can a relationship work with someone who is unstable? ...

I found him downloading porn dealing with animals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 and a half years now. I love him with all my heart, but I dont know what to do anymore. Long story short, when we first got together, anytime I asked him anything [about his past, about what...

Is this a red flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I have been in a committed relationship with a man for almost 7 months. We have been trying not to put too much pressure on the relationship, however, we both made it very clear to each other that we our in love with one another and can see a ...

Girls flirt with my boyfriend - but he doesn't tell them to stop.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! Me and my bf have been going out for about 2 years and 2 months. Things have been rocky lately but were starting to get back on track. But there's one thing that still bothers me. My bf has 2 friends who are both girls. One girl...

I feel he tricked me into having an abortion and now I feel so guilty about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Hi, could you give me advice on getting back my ex please? Our relationship ended really badly. I was pregnant and we made the decision together that it was best to have an abortion because we thought we weren't ready and that our relationship ...