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Archived questions from: 24 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I stay quiet as he does his own thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - i dont understand, should i shut my mouthand stop talking about him going out and ido think he is talking to other girls. last month i been talking about it and hes tired of hearing it. are there guys that do there own thing and say anything to ...

Last chance for my marriage if I don't learn to control my emotional blow-ups!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I need advice at controlling my emotional blow ups, it is tearing my family apart. My husband wont deal with me bc i am so emotional and i don't know how to control it. Today i flipped out on him for no real reason. I just freaked! For the most p...

He has hurt me once and now I feel like I want to hurt him too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend cheated on me last year, and looking back over things i feel as though i have been the biggest fool. At the time of finding out i was devastated and just could not imagine living without him, so i ran after him and talked him i...

My partner raped me when I was pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - i am 21 yrs old and uptill a few months ago had blocked out being raped twice by my partner while i was pregnant, to be honest throughout the pregnancy i was num so didnt really know how to eel but now i'm getting stronger and my confidence is ...

Traumatized that my girl had sex with another guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I'm cutting this really short. Basically my girlfriend got very drunk and let a guy have sex with her. She didn't say no but she wasn't exactly saying yes and the cops say it isn't rape. I can't stop playing what happened through my head constant...

Am I expecting too much or is he giving too little?

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24 April 2009 (F) - I dated this guy awhile ago. Very early on, he talked about wanting to be in an exclusive relationship, if that's what I wanted. I told him I wanted us to date first so that we didn't skip all the good parts. However, a week after we met we ...

I just want this horrible pain gone and my friend back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - One of my best friends hates me! It started yesterday, after we had athletics, and he was taking the mickey out of my running. I got really annoyed so I lightly kicked him. He was laughing at the time, but I was still really annoyed. Then, after lu...

Struggling financially with hospital bills and now my wife is going to Las Vegas without me!

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24 April 2009 (M) - Do not Understand whats behind the Las Vegas Trip My wife and I have been marrid 10 years and have always worked together as a team. With children we agreed to go down to 1 income so she could stay at home. . . now being on 1 income money is ...

She said she feels trapped..and now I'm worried about her making poor decisions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Alright so I've been with my girlfriend for a year now. We live together and love each other. I have a 11 month old son and she doesn't have any kids. The problem is that I get him twice a week. Once during the week and once during the weekend. The ...

He said he was "flat out"..why are guys so confusing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I liked this guy not long ago and i finally told him, i couldnt believe how rude he was with the response " im flat out" its not like i said i wanna be with you. I just said you might know this already or you might not but im gonna tell u I like ...

I'm worried about what others think and I don't have strong feelings for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Hi Around 2 months ago i got in touch with an old friend from university. When we were younger i knew that he had a massive crush on me, but i never felt the same way about him so we stayed friends. At first we would just text message each oth...

He's just talking the "tall talk" isn't he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I do not get this situation someone give me some advice its driving me mad! I was with my boyfriend two years on/off we broke up mainly cos he cant give me the commitment dont live in the same town he put his mates first is selfish and he dont ...

Is he protecting his wallet in fear she will take all he has or does he not want her to find out about us again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Here it goes: I met a man with whom I worked with. We both started having feelings for each other. He was married. We went to a friend's house one nite after work and kissed... that's it. He goes home that night and tells his wife that he's having ...

Relationship truth opens up world of upset.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - This problem is so hard for me right now, but it doesn't just effect myself. I have been with my partner for nearly 5 years, engadged for 1.25 years and love her so very much. It is a long distance relationship that goes from UK to the US so we dont ...

How do I handle this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - i met a guy... we lived in same apartment... first... he acted very very nice to me...i have never been treated that nice before... we became friends... he talked to me everyday... it was fun. but things went out of control... he started making me ...

Concerned about partner's nephew's feelings towards me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Ok here's the thing a couple of days ago I spoke about my concerns over my partners nephew, well I have noticed that in the last 3 months he has visited our town 7 times when ordinarilly he normally visit once every so many years. I do try to av...

In love with my boyfriend but so lonely in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend almost a year ago. We worked at he same company but not necessarily on the same "team" or "job". We never crossed paths until a group of co-workers all went out to a new bar opening and we finally met. I am 32. He is 52. He ...

The thought of sex really worries me now because I was scared to say no to my former boyfriends! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Okay so i am not a virgin. I lost my viginity at 13 (young i know). I have had sexual partners and i felt alot of pressure when it came to sex. My first sexual partner wasn't my B/F he was just a friend. We was going to have sex but i said no an...

I discovered he lied and used me, I'm afraid he will leave me alone with our child, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I started dating a 25 year old guy. He was really sweet. We spent almost every day with each other. I even introduced him to my son. He explained to me that his ex girlfriend had robbed him and denied him the right to see his child. I saw that it ...

Is he bi or straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - there is this guy,he is a gym freak,very concerned about his body, but at the same time he always looks at videos of Arnold flexing and other stars who r well built. He gave me some strange looks, given me some hugs, pinched my butt twice. He was ...

Please help! I am getting bullied by this mean Asian girl!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Well I get bullied at school by this very mean Asian girl. Her name is Amen and she is so mean she calls me a fag, stupid, retarded, but mosty she calls me ugly and I don't know what do to =[ What should I do?...

The cheating distance factor...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend lives in Illinois, and I live in California. We've been dating for a while now, without seeing each other, once. So it's officially long distance, without meeting in person :( And recently I found out he was cheating on me. I love him ...

He's financially stressed out and I have higher expectations

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I've just started dating a guy that I've known for about 5 years. I've been mates with his older brother and a family friend for approx 10 years. I'm 2 years older than him, and although I initially had an issue with this I've allowed him to take ...