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writes:Hi.I'm usually a self confident woman, who reaches every goal in her life. However, from 5 days I hurt. Here the story:Jhon, my friend from work introduced me to Mike a couple of weeks ago. Mike was not really my type, but he's not bad at all. The day we first met, we found out that we had some things in commun. No phone or email exchange. I honestly never thought I would see him again that shortly.But it happened. 5 days ago Jhon invited me to hang out with him and some friends. Mike was there. The conversation went smooth, one drink and the other and suddenly I was kissing with Mike in that club. My friend Kelly was making out too, with Mike's friend, Sam; so at a certain point, the 4 of us decided to go to Sam's place.Between us there was no sex. We kissed, hugged and slept together (just slept).Mike knows I dont want a serious relationship, since I'll only be in town for a couple of months. Mike doesnt want anything serious either, since he's also leaving. Mike was so sweet to me, told me this was to be continued, "to chill". He told me very sweet stuff (even called me sweetie and hunney when I was leaving). He said he would call me in the coming days. (He'd get my number from Jhon).Mike never called me.That night I forgot my watch at Sam's, so 4 days after he didnt call I wrote him an email saying "hi there.hope u had a nice weekend. BTW any news from my watch?" He answered some hours later saying "Hi sweet lady. how are u doing? I've got ur watch in my car. Call me..(his phone number) I'd love to chat :)". I got excited again!..BUT... I called him: no answer. Left a message saying that I was calling to say hi and that he may call me back to (my phone), Right away I sent another email with my number, just in case he didnt get my voice message.That was more than 24 hours ago...and he still dont call!...I know he's read his mails, since he sent some to Jhon today and I actually know he is online!! So he CAN indeed call me! Is that me that I'm weird and the guy wants me to call again??I really do not expect anything serious, just chill, having a sweet company for these 2 months and good sex (I never do it the first night, but of course I wanted to get there with him very shortly).At the beginning he was not my type. After that night, I feel I would like so bad to be with him!..even to fool around! I just dont get how a man can be that sweet and then just pretend nothing happened! What do you think? What should I do now? Should I eat my pride and call him or should I just let go the hope to be with him...and my watch (LOL)?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Aww- his replies all sound very positive! It could be that he's just being cautious to save his own heart since you're both leaving in two months!
I'd just play it by ear. If he does call- then fantastic! Maybe send him a quick reply to reassure him that you's till like to hang out some more, and then wait and see!
If he doesn't, put it down to the awkwardness of the situation of your both leaving, and assume that he likes you too much to risk getting hurt in two months when you both leave!
Hope it goes well for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi!
Thank you both for your comments! Satindesire:I do think like you, that is why these are NOT their real names :)
UPDATES:
I sent him an email today: "Hi dear! So, I guess u loved my watch and wanna keep it, since u never got back to me :p LOL. No worries, could u at least send it to me with John..plz?Thx! Take care hun ;)"
The guy immediatelly replied: "So so sorry babydoll, been real busy, I will send it with John. ANd I promise to call you back soon so we can hang out again if you want!?!?! later hun!"
What does it mean?? what should I reply to this? or should I even reply? if yes, when?
Thanks in advance for your help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Dear honestly,the man does not love you! but you say that you are not interested in a serious relation so go for it. just dont fall too much 4 him though cause you might get hurt!
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