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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He cheated on me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - hey, i am 13 years old and i have been having problems with getting over my ex who is 16 years old... he cheated on me with a girl his age. my bff thinks its because i wasnt giving him what he "needed" if you know what i mean. is there any way ...

I was forced to lie because my boyfriend thinks even a simple hello to a former crush is something major!! How can I regain his trust?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I've got a problem. I know, though, that it's mostly my fault, really. See, my boyfriend and I have a troubled relationship. I broke the trust, and now it seems impossible to get it back. Ok here it goes... From the beginning of the relationshi...

My girl has double standards - how can I make this better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I love my girlfriend but i guess she feels like she has to lie to me about things. Like I use to smoke weed and when i meet her she said that if we were going to date that i would have to quit well I did cold turkey. I had no problem stopping she ...

Do I tell him I slept with someone else while we were on a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years. we have broken up a few times and been on and off. i cheated on him 1 year ago whilst on an "off" stage. we have just got back together after 2 months from splitting. should i tell him or keep it to myself ...

Confused about money morals....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Hello I dont know how to tell you my problem but here it comes, my new boyfriend of 6 weeks earns £30,000 more than me a year, as i earn alot less than him i cant afford to have beauty treatments or have my hair done when it needs to be done, my b...

In a drunken call, I told my ex I missed her. Now she won't talk to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I went out with this girl for 1 year and 5 months we loved each other, but we broke up because we were both stressed and we didnt know how to deal with each other at the time. we understood we needed time apart.. We broke up in august and start...

He wont have sex with me should I seek it elsewhere?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a few years and we used to have sex a few days out the week if not everyday but now ill be lucky if i get it once a month sex or any type of affection and we have been arguing alot but still im not feeling loved im ...

Will I ever get over this and/or will I ever be able to trust him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for two years. It's been very hard. At the begining he got hooked on drugs (light drugs). He begged me to help im stop. I did, but I went through hell trying to get him off them. He became abusive verbally...

It is so hard to be just his friend with benefits because I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I fell in love with my best friend brother. We started out as friends and eventaully became lovers. As a result, feeling got involve, mainly mines. I wanted to take our relationship to the next level. as for him, he was not ready to commit. ...

How can I get him to help me persuade his parents to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Hey guys/gals i seriously need some advice!!! me and my boyf have been together for about 4-5 yrs now. He means soo much to me-and we are proper close- and although we can have our lil arguments i see him not only as a boyf but as my best mate! ...

Do I cheat on my wife now that she cant have sex for medical reasons?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - DEAR CUPID I AM MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS MY WIFE HAD AN OPERATION ON HER BACK AND NOW SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX SHE HAS LOST HER DRIVE BUT I AM STILL VERY RANDY. DO I SLEEP AROUND ON HER AND NOT SAY ANYTHING.SHE DOES NOT WANT ANY SEX ANYMORE PLEASE ...

Falling for someone else..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - 4 and a 1/2 years ago we moved house and I was very happy. When we met the neighbours I thought nothing of it. Then one day the neighbour came round to fix the fence. I was standing in the kitchen and turned around and he was staring in the ...

Please some one help me I'm desperate to get over this guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I am 27 I was in a relationship with my daughters father for 4years...we had a roller coaster type of relationship. he is very jealous and treated me like I was wrong for having had sex before him... basically all of our arguments consisted of ...

Am I being paranoid because of his previous betrayal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Ok to cut a long story short my husband cheated on me once before and I forgave him. Its not been easy and I do not want any advice on something I want to forget. I just need to know if I am now paranoid or have the right to be worried. We w...

Am I being too picky? I think he's capable of doing some of this household maintenance by himself...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I'm in my early 40's. I am an Aries and a giving person who loves to make others happy. I was married at 25 for 8 yrs, and divorced. I have since dated 2 men each for 3 yrs and the one presently now for 2 years. The first BF had a drug problm, the ...

I am married, love another man who doesn't love me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I am married for the past 10 years. I married when I was 18.My husband is 12 years elder to me. I was doing my graduationwhen we got married. Now for the past 3 years , I have a relationship with this guy who is a colleague at the instituion where I ...

I want closure on this! He's making me out to be the bad guy to mutual friends. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm hoping that someone can help me with this issue that has been hanging over me for a while. Sorry it's so longwinded but I feel I have to tell the whole story, and if someone would take the time to read the whole story and help, I ...

My BF accepted his brother into our lives, knowing he was a nuisance! Can I even trust my BF now, let alone MARRY HIM?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for three years. He is Iranian, Last year his brother came to England. He stayed with us for about a year - my boyfriend had told me his brother was very good. I discovered this was a lie. He takes heroin and has ...

Guy trouble! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - well i was with this guy for 12 days, however i still have feelings for him, he dumped me a few months ago. since then he never told me why we broke up or anything. everytime i try to talk to him we always end up arguing. it became really bad when...

Knowing about her past makes me feel inadequate, but I love her! So why do I feel like running away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My problems kinda about jealousy... So i'm really, really close with this girl. we're not ''official'' but only because I wanna give it time, we do everything a normal young teen couple would do. My problem is with her past...It isn't that sl...

I can't stand to see him any more, but our daughters are good friends. Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I split some months ago, after a 2 yr relatyionship from a guy. We tried staying mates because our children got on well. My daughter is a bit of a loner, but she gelled real well with his daughter of the same age. They are 11. But recently things ...

I'm in love with a mature lady, the problem is that my classmates are making jokes about me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Dear agony aunt, I´ve got a really big problem. I´m in love with a mautre lady. The problem is that my classmates know it and they make jokes about me. The girls in my class laugh and that makes me angry!! Why cant people leave me alone. I just wa...

I'm having trouble trusting him completely after he cheated. I know he's been in contact with her because I snooped! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my b/f for bout 7 years. he cheated on me 3 years ago, i found out we broke up and got back together. ive been trying so hard to trust him again but just cant do it completely. i check his emails and he doesnt know this, i feel bad but ...

When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...

He told me he can't trust me because I didn't tell him what friends and family were saying about him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship for 3 years, my boyfriends friends and family have been saying awful things about him to me. he lost his job he has children and they call him worthless. I didn't tell him and we are supposed to be moving ...

Any advice on dealing with my unreliable mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I hope you guys can help me out with this. My mother is really upsetting me! Not only is she one of those nagging mums, who get on your nerves and interfere with EVERYTHING you do! But it seems as though she doesn't care about me anymore. ...

Is this rape or sexual assault?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i have a problem with my boyfriend - he wants sex and every time he tries to put his penis inside of me it really hurts. Last time we tried to do this he would not stop trying and I ended up crying - he then became violent and covered my mouth up ...

Why can't I stay away from this woman that keeps making up then breaking up? Why am I in this childish relationship?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - What a mess I have made of my life. I met the woman of my dreams 10 months ago. Tall, beautiful, funny, sexy, great career, an absolute dream. Things were amazing immediately. The chemistry was out of this world. After a few months of dating we ...

If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies as early as 2 months, will it only get worse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies, as early within the first 2 months, does that mean it will only get worst??? is it best to end the relationship now before it gets to bad? ...

I'm feeling neglected...is he being a bit selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I'm dating older guy (47), I'm 39. Things are somewhat ok. Lately, I feel neglected. It seems like all I do is play taxi/chauffer to him. All we do is go to stores and out to eat. How do I tell him I need more excitment than just going out to ...

It has got to the point that my BF makes me feel like I am worthless, like I do not know anything, etc. Should I stay for the good memories??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - ok.. so I have a problem too.. I am 18 years old and I just finished my high school. Just when I was 15 years, 3 years ago, I started a relationship with my boyfriend, and everything went ok. He loved me so so so much and I loved him too. At that ...

What makes a guy try to pressure a girl into sex and think it's fine to not respect her boundaries??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - What makes a guy try to pressure a girl into sex? What makes a guy not listen to a girl when she says 'no'? What makes him think its ok to not respect her boundaires? And what makes a guy so controlling? I know those are all general questions, but ...

She was perfect for me...but I still couldn't give myself to her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hello, my name is Daniel. I'm a 24 year old male from the Bronx, New York. A few years ago, I was 21 and dating a woman I knew from a college class. We dated for almost a year and connected in all sorts of ways: she was friendly, cared ...

How do I avoid getting sucked back into the snake-pit?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Just yesterday I broke up with my ex. It seems to have been a long time coming. We always (Me ending it) broke up.. over stupid little fights. All the time! But then he would not leave me alone for a few days and i would cave. He was t...

I don't think I am being unreasonable I just want to enjoy quality time with my man undisturbed by any one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met my boyfriend last year on holiday and fell in love with him. He is a caring and loving person we have a lot in common and most importantly he makes me laugh. We live in different countries and I recently flew to his country t...

I love a monster, I don't want to be abuse anymore, I need to find a way out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Read my other 2 question to know more about my situation,please any ur help. My baby father has done all he could to make me feel like shit. He abuse me in many different ways, but i still love him, and have hopes one day he will realized how muc...

We do love each other but we can't seem to get on with each other... when do you say enough is enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi there, Ive been with my partner for 3 yrs now and living together for 8 months. To be honest we fight so much I can't take it anymore. We do love each other but we can't seem to get on with each other.. when do you say enough is enough and walk ...

After realising my foolish and impulsive behaviour towards my ex, I changed and repented completely, but he does not want to retie the string... what more can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i want to get my ex back...i know he doesn't love me...but takes me only as a friend..we still talk....but the reason he left me was due to my constant questioning about girls messaging him and girls roaming about with him..he didn't have had any ...

My BF of 4 years constantly cheats on me and does not even try to hide it...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 yrs ( within this time frame has been unfaithful over 6 or more times that I am aware of) but within the last year has been faithful until 6 months ago, but now is in another side bar relationship with a married women, I also know ...

He drinks too much and abandons me in the weekends, should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I was just wondering if anyone would know what to do if they had a boyfriend that was always drinking going out all weekend even though we have been together 6 years now and we have a 2 year old daughter and im 5 months pregnant and he keeps saying ...

Had sex with the ex and current boyfriend, both unprotected, now I'm pregnant, I don't know what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hello! I'm a 23 year old college student. My boyfriend broke up with me to go back to his ex, and by my own nature of not wanting to be alone I returned to my ex boyfriend as well. I was on my period for the first week that my ex and I started...

Is my boyfriend still in love with his ex, he says he is unable to commit to me, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I'm going out with a guy who describes himself as "emotionally unavailable" and doesn't want to commit to being in a relationship. He said he's not sure what it is exactly but it could be a combination of some or all of the following: -He's sti...

Can I forgive after he cheated and got a girl pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - How do you forgive your husband after he has cheated. And made a baby with another women during your marriage....

Is my long term off again on again boyfriend a drunk? what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with the guy on an off since I was 17, we are now 40. we shared a house together in 2003 in which we were both in seperate relationships but both did not work out as we wanted to make the relationship work although he stil...

Should I put up with my boyfriends bad behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. I need some good advice. Well recently I've been doing not so well financially. This has caused me to move from my home into my fathers, then from my fathers to my boyfriends and his moms house. I couldn't stay at my dads because ...

What can I do to make him trust me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My partner and I are going through some tough things. We've been dating since Sept 2006 and I did wrong to him. I always said I would never cheat on him n I did. I kissed his best friend and talked to another guy behind his back. We weren't a couple ...

She thinks I will cheat on her because she does not want vaginal intercourse, but I won't. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My current girlfriend will not have vaginal sex until she is married, but will do oral and let me reciprocate. The problem is I am not a virgin in the slightest and have had many partners. We have run into some of my ex's together or seen girls ...

Don't know what else to do, looking for solution to get her back for good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - my gf is 45 and i am 37 e have been together like 15 months and broke up many times she always doing the breakig and me falling to pieces and not giving the space she wants alway convincing her to give it another try this time she says she has run ...

Emotions or reason? Which one to follow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Emotions or reason? Which one to follow? I met her twelve years ago while traveling (became barely friends). I liked her and visited her once more few months later. I had decided not to come back. She was young (19 and I was 28), little careless,...

Should I call or just wait? Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I haven't talked to my bf for about 3 days. We didn't get I a fight but I was kinda mad cuz when I called him he said he'd call back but never did. Then we text that same day for a little bit but havnt spoken or texted since. Well its been three ...