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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend doesn't want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I know he loves me as he shows me in other ways. But getting him to kiss or have sex is very difficult. Ive tried lots of different things but nothing really works. He loves me I know that. HE said that sex was important in a relationship at the ...

He forced me to have sex with him and I feel such a wreck about that. But I love him and don't want to break up with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Well I have a boyfriend And I have been with him for 1 week. And The other Night , I was at his house and He kinda pressured me to have Sex with Him. Im 14 years old and I wasnt ready but He Forced me to do it. I dont feel right now and Im emotional ...

He says he loves me very much but I got told that he cheated on me the night when my bestfriend died!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I need major help. I have been with my Boyfriend For 4 years. And well a few weeks ago I lost my bestfriend. He died by drowing. "theres a Reason for this". The day b4 he died he told my bf"Treat her right, She's a good Girl". He laughed. And well ...

Is her love just a lie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 4 years I have never loved anyone more. When we first saw each other it was an instant attraction, something you would read about in a fantasy. She was already in a relationship with someone and had a child wi...

What do you do after two break-ups and someone you love wants to try a third time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (M) - what do you do when someone you love a lot breaks up with you twice to be with someone else and then wants to get back together?...

No more attention unless he wants sex! What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have known each other about 4 months now and have dated about 3 months. at first we were all over each other. that lasted for about a month, if that. now he doesn't pay any attention to me unless he wants sex, which he hardly ...

We had sex and now he won't talk to me. What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - ok. so theres this guy. weve been mztes for about 8/ months. now ans again we aould have a little kiss and cuddle but wouldnt say anything about it afterwards. then recently we both spoke and told each other we really like each other, but we agreed ...

My mom says my girlfriend is taking advantage of me. Is she right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - ok so here is the deal.. my mom tells me my gf of 7 months now is taking advantage of me. in this short time she has given up her apartment in an attempt to move in with her dad but she is never at his house she is at my house 5 days out of the ...

I really want him back even though he was violent. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Last night me and my boyfriend had an arguement, which caused him to get angry at me, he used violence against me and as a result im bruised, he told me he doesnt want a relationship and maybe in a few years time me and him will get back with me ...

Are his porn mags more important to him than me? Is this normal? What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I wanted to know if it is normal for your bf to masterbate to porn mag.'s rather than have sex with me? I always want sex, and he knows it, he looks at porn mag.'s while and after work.He always makes sexual advances when i’m sleeping. I feel li...

He made excuses for not seeing me and got angry when I asked. Please help me understand.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this boy for 2 months. He told me on the phone that he couldn't see me this weekend, so I asked him when we could meet, and he flew off the handle... and then told me that he'd met someone else the last couple of days. I didn't ...

We had cybersex, but now I don't understand what he is really trying to tell me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - This guy and I started chatting a few months ago.... and had cybersex. We met a month later and got on really well. That was 2 months ago and I haven't seen him for a month. When I last saw him we got intimate, and then I went on holiday for two ...

Why does he ignore me? The signs are all there. Is it his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - asked him out 9 months ago. He’s shy and is in the popular group but is really focused on his studies.He said 2 days later that it was too close to exams but maybe after them thanx for asking. After summer he was showing loads of signs that he was ...

I tried to move on and then it all got messy. Was it all some kind of game for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I’m in a horrible dilemma, the last 12 months I’ve been trying to move on from this guy who I used to date. I’ve been feeling down and my feelings have became intense. I was contemplating weather to contact him. I did the stupidest thing to get in ...

My in-laws hate me. It's all getting worse.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - hello all - I posted a question nearly a year ago and checking it back recently I can see that people have even commented recently so thank you http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-in-laws-hate-me-and-my-husband.html I wanted to add a comment...

I'm not cheating but my boyfriend thinks I am.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I need help, FAST! My boyfriend found 3 messages i'd sent a guy i slept with before.(TOTALLY INNOCENT) He was a colleage, and i HAD to text him regarding work, even though i know i was totally in the wrong for doing it behind my boyfriend's back. ...

I feel I don't trust him when he is drinking. Doesn't he really remember what he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I have been married for thirty years and I have a problem with my husband flirting with my friends, women,calling them Babe, etc... A few years ago, at the end of a wedding reception I noticed that he was missing along with my girlfriend of more...

The only lad I've ever loved has confessed he doesn't have feelings for me, but something still doesn't seem right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Right, ok i need help and quick!! I've never been one to want a bf, liked being single etc until i met this lad in my class now for the past 5 months its gone from a patheic crush to a lot more. I always thought he liked me an so did a friend of ...

I can't get/keep an erection -any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

4 May 2008 (M) - Hey i usely have sex with my grilriend about four times a week, on two seperate days. im really attracted to her and her body arrouses me but i can't get/keep an errection. we do foreplay and is fun for her but not so much for me as: 1. its quit...

I feel I look awful without any make-up on and makes me feel too self-conscious about spending the night with guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I have never been lucky in love but recently I met someone really nice.We have been on dates. The problem is that i feel i look awful without any make-up on. He thinks i look really beautiful but i feel when he sees the real me he will run ...

How can I stop "Mr Perfect" from trying to force me to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Everyone thinks my bf is perfect! He portrays this Mr Nice Guy act but Im not too sure how REAL that image is. His family think hes a perfect catholic boy who treats women with respect. My family think the same. And my friends, they think hes the ...

When I see her on MSN I just ramble and ramble...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (?) - So I found this fabulous website the other day for LGBT youth, and I am already checking it every hour sort of thing ^_^ It's just so neat to meet so many people! At any rate, I met this girl, and I quite like her, but I'm afraid I'm coming off t...

Is what he's saying normal or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I have met a guy through some friends and we were just friendly to begin with. I was interested but I thought he wasn't. Then as I had planned a trip to Greece, I went out the night before my flight and he happened to be there. We just acted ...

Help, I feel alone in my own house!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - So ive been in a serious relationship going on 6 years, and we have a 2 yr old together, it seems lately that he never wants to spend just me and him time anymore, we used to watch movies after we put or daughter to sleep, now we just do our own ...

Deep down inside, I know he isn't the one for me. Advice on how to let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I can't let go of my boyfriend. Deep down inside i know he isn't for me other than the fact everyone tells me, i still ignore them and get hurt over and over again. I mean i never asked him for anything during our four year relationship and he never ...

Is it an offence to send text threatening to tell everyone she was sexually abused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - One of my best friends, just 17, split with her boyfriend of the same age after he cheated on her almost a year ago, and has hardly spoken to him since, hasn't done ANYTHING to upset him, at the break-up or after, and he hadn't tried to iteract with ...

Please help me to help my friend. His girlfriend is really nasty and abusive toward him, I think he's scaredof her!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - One of my good male friends has a problem with his girlfriend. Well, they have been together for about two years and his girlfriend tells him what to do all of the time and won't allow him any freedom! If he wants to go partying with his frie...