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writes:ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years. we have broken up a few times and been on and off. i cheated on him 1 year ago whilst on an "off" stage. we have just got back together after 2 months from splitting. should i tell him or keep it to myself because we were on a "break"?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): My boyfriend did the same to me.
He told me before we got back together.
I totally crushed me and nearly destroyed not only our relationship and my trust for him, but my entire self.
It was really hard to get over and I'd be lying if I said I still hadn't. But I'm really glad that I was told in the end. I wouldn't hate to have had something like that kept from me.
I agree with both the previous comments.
If you tell him it will be a close call... But if you don't it will eat you up inside and if he finds out from somewhere else... It would probably ruin everything.
Good Luck. X
I understand why my boyfriend did it now... Even though it's still hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): If there is any chance of him finding out, then it would be best if you told him now. I am a believer in honesty and would want to know. However, it may end the relationship permanently if you tell him. It probably deffinitely will if he finds out on his own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): If you tell him its probably doomed, if you don't its liable to come back and haunt you in the future when things are going fine.
Its your call.
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