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anonymous
writes:ive been with my boyfriend for a few years and we used to have sex a few days out the week if not everyday but now ill be lucky if i get it once a month sex or any type of affection and we have been arguing alot but still im not feeling loved im starting to feel like he doenst love me anymore or something, we just had a child together 3 months ago and even when i was pregnant it was the same once a month maybe. now im starting to think about my ex and the more i think about him the more i want to call which i know isnt right but what the hell am i supposed to just go on and get what you give whenever that may be. i love my boyfriend very much and ive tried messing with him, matter fact im always trying to get him in the mood but i always get turned down so what do i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim the person who wrote this, it has 10-12 on there but im 22 and he's 27 and we have been together for 4 years and this started around maybe the 4-5 month of me being pregnant, now are son is 3 months now and we have some things going on but nothing big and no he was not like this we it just started at one time i used to always get attention and affection and i would also give him the same but now its like where strangers.
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Find out if he has a disfunction that he may be embarrased about or better still make him talk to you and find out instead of "forcing" him. there must be a reason. do you feel any emotional connection with him and from his side, have you noticed any change of his feelings towards you?.. don't be afraid of any reason he gives work with it.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Yup, need more info! Whoa, a 10-12 year old with a baby? That must have been intresting;)
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reader, °Ale°  +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Grrr!
If you love the guy, then stick to him like glue and freaking work it out. Because if you don't, honey,you will regret it.
But if you're not satisfied nor in love, keep on Moving!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): You present as 10-12 from the USA. In this situation I would say boredom with sex is a definate possiblity.
However since you have a child, your age would not be as much as a barrier as I first thought.
You have not provided enough information to give you any helpfull advice. How old are you? How old is your partner? Did his sex drive decrease once you got pregnant or very soon after you got together. Your arguing a lot, and he gives you no affection. Was he always like this, or did this behaviour start after the baby came.
Do you have other problems in your relationship. i.e. money worries, work problems, family problems, childhood trauma? Provide more information, so an aunt or uncle can provide you with the advice you surely need.
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