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Archived questions from: 27 May, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I pay for this holiday if I don't end up going?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I am considering splitting up with my boyfriend. I don’t want to go into why, but there is a slight problem if we can’t sort out our problems and do split up - we are due to go on holiday in 6 weeks and I don’t know what to do. He paid for the ...

My husbands parents hate me and I'm pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - My husbands parents hate me. His mother accused me of being a witch because I did Tarot for fun.They even offered him money not to marry me. Well we were married on June 23rd of last year, and it was wonderful. except for his parents, who even at ...

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I have been with my girl friend almost 2yrs. This has been my best relationship no arguing no fights. So far the only beef we have had has been about her going with a male friend to the mall, which I felt was bullshit, seemed like a date to me. So ...

He is ignoring me again but it seems like the logest time ever!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I have the same problem that many girls seem to have on this site...my BF is ignoring me. We have been together for 3 years. It is the 4th time he has done it but it seems for the longest time this time, nearly 3 weeks. for the first few days I t...

Is my guy gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - hi i really need some good advice, Ive been dating a good friend, we have been on and off for a year, nothing serious but decided 3 months ago to make a proper go of it, we get on so well and really enjoy each others company, we split up last week ...

How do you respond to someone who likes to play the perpetual victim?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I finally told my boyfriend that I no longer wanted to be exclusive with him. I gave a few reasons but really didn't want to bust his chops so just wrote some of the main things that were bothering me. I have always been the one who calls, t...

Should I not even speak to him, and feel sorry for her for being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - This guy has been demonstrating to be attracted to me for the past few months, yet I have reason to believe he just got a blow job from another female at work. What's this all about? Guess I'll drop out of the picture totally and not even speak to ...

We were together for 6 years, and he dumped me with no explanation! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I was dumped a week ago by my fiance and now i don't know what to do. We had been together for over 6 years (since school) and before we got together we were friends. He has been my whole life and i loved him so much. We weren't having problems as ...

Am I confused about him or scared?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We are great together. We have a wonderful friendship, our sex life is amazing and he is really attentive; treats me like a queen. Having said that, I have my moments when I really don't feel like being ...

I'm so sick of this! My girlfriend gives me absolutely NO privacy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I'm getting so sick of this!!!! my girlfriend gives me absolutely NO privacy she knows all my passwords to everything including this one. If i tell her to stay off of something like my email she either blames herself or thinks im cheating. I'm a...

What if you tell your partner you'll get married, but you don't really mean it? If you've just said it to get out of child support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Hi! What if your partner stressing you to get married but you really aren't ready but if you tell your partner that your not ready she/he will threaten to take your child away from you and take you to court for child support but you know you can't ...

Why does she treat me like dirt?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I have been seeing a woman for 6 months, there have been good times and bad times, but overall there has been progress...and that is what keeps me in this relationship. However, I am burnt out and my heart is dying, and on the two occassions I pla...

I don't want my boyfriend to go into the military!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants to go into the military! He just turned 21 and we have been dating for a year. This bothers me A LOT! I'm pretty sure my past has a lot to do with it, my dad left me and my family when I was 16 for another woman. And shortly after ...

Do you think I should give him some space for a while, then ask if he wants to patch things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - My ex-bf and I had been together for almost a year. I want commitment, he doesn't want commitment....thus we did the classic girl nags at guy for commitment/guy is unhappy and withdraws ...vicious cycle. Eventually he got really stressed at work...

I'm terrified of dogs, and this is causing a problem with my sister and me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - My sister is a dog lover. I am terrified of dogs. She adopts large dogs and has several at a time. She recently moved from across the country to a few miles away from me and my family. She has become pregnant for the first time. I can't stand ...

How do you get over being used and abused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - How do you get over being used and abused? Ive had two serious relationships and both were abusive- mentally/emotionally, verbally, sexually and on the way to physical abuse, but they both ended before the physical abuse got too bad. I feel so ...

My boyfriend hits me and calls me names. I don't know what to do.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Ive bin with my boyfriend now for 2 years, at first he was lovely now he hits me pushes me, calls me names fat, ugly etc, wont help with the kids if he dont get his own way. one is his. he works in the day he comes home helps a bit with the children ...

Is he using me for sex, but is it possible he has feelings for me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - i love my sex partner so much. He has other plains with his son's mother. she's always in and out of his life. He suppose to married her in 3 months but he's unsure.I'm HURT! i've been ONLY with him during our 5years of sex relations. Why would he ...

Am I bipolar? I've been saying mean and hurtful things to my boyfriend.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am truely in love with him. I have recently for the past 3 months been really mean to him. I will say mean and hurtful things like call him fat and ugly. I tell him that I don't want to be with ...

How do I move on?!?! My sex partner is about to get married and still wants me in his life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - my sex partner is about to get married but he wants me to still be in his life. i refuse! but its hard to let go. he enjoys my sex better. i love to be with him all the time but i'm mad because he's getting married on me. I'm HURT !!! how do i get ...

Is it possible to love someone that you are sexually unattracted to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I have been dating the same girl for almost a year and a half now. Shes great. I love her to death. She wore a promise ring until today. At first glance I wasn't that attracted to her. But a couple months after we met we started dating. We started ...

Our daughter, husband and their four children are living with us. He's not working, she only works 2 days a week. It's getting tough on us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Trouble at home, my daughter and her husband and four children that are well loved by myself and wife. It wasn't bad at first but going on 6 months and her husband hasn't worked a day and she only works 2 days a week. It's getting very tough on my ...

Is my problem insecurity or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - is my problem insecurity or not. i love my boyfriend very as he loves me. at times i know that he loves me and at times i just think he's out just for the physical thing. well, he is very charming and galz do love his company... he likes making ...

My boyfriend uses porn a lot so I tried it too and now I feel awful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Hi Pleae help, I feel really terrible. I found out a few months ago that my boyfriend was fairly heavy porn user. I know it was probably naive but I really hadn't realised, and it really hurt me. I guess if I had known just that he used porn, bu...

How can I make sure it's better this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I'm sorry this is long, but it's quite complicated. Please hear me out lol! I got back with my ex 3 days ago. We had been split up for 3 and a half weeks and had been going out for 1 year before we split. I really loved this man, I still do and I...

Did I come on too strong and obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Hi, so me and this college girl a couple years younger than myself did the long distance thing for the past couple of months. We texted, facebooked, phoned everynow and then, and visited eachother a few times. Things seemed to be good. Well, last ...

Did she sleep with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Hi, About two years ago my girlfriend cheated on with with her friend from London, over about 3 months. My g/f says it never went any further than kissing all the time they were together, but i have a feeling that sex was involved. The...