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writes:hey, i am 13 years old and i have been having problems with getting over my ex who is 16 years old... he cheated on me with a girl his age. my bff thinks its because i wasnt giving him what he "needed" if you know what i mean. is there any way to get over him? or should i try to talk to him....(if he will talk to me anyway.)?? help please!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): hey girl dont try to talk to that jerk.Listen i was with a guy for 2 years together. We were about to get married and i found out that he cheated on me.I never talked to him ever again. Now he is happly married and has a kid with the same girl.It hurted so much and i still have feeling for him.I just cant get over him even though i have a new boyfriend..Thanks god he doesnt live in the same country as i do, so i dont see him very often.. But when i see i always feel like crying... I know i will never forget him but life goes on....... So girl dont try to talk to somebody who cheated on you.. Once a cheater always a cheater..
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reader, Justmealone +, writes (1 June 2008):
My daughter went through something like this and she took it hard, but she listened to me and now? She's glad it's over with.Time will make it a lot easier and not talking to him at all will also help. Try not to think about it and if you do, tell yourself to stop and do something to distract yourself.A guy who has cheated on you, isn't worth a minute of your think time anyway, so kick him to the curb and move on.You have a long life ahead of you and this is only the beginning and there's be others and other heartaches, so don't stress over this one, move on and enjoy your "childhood".And I agree with the other poster, if you can't say it, then you shouldn't be doing it. If you DO decide to do it? Then please by all means use and get protection. The health department in my state doesn't require parental consent for the pill, condoms, etc... so get someone to drive you, if your parent won't take you, but think first, before starting a sexual incounter.
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reader, lolo89  +, writes (1 June 2008):
 if you cant say the word sex you definately shouldnt be having it.
look for someone your own age who loves you for you
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): your bff is total right your 13 and his 16 of course his gonna cheat on you and play you..your only 13 dont grow up to fast enjoy life as barely a teenager go out wit guys that are around your age...if his 16 of course his gonna party and try to fuck every girl he see's..when a guy turns 16 and around 17 and up thats all they think about is getting a girl layed so just be with someone your age and just try finding a good guy this time haha jp
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